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Need advice

knottiede04347181f3ec73knottiede04347181f3ec73 member
in January 2026 Babies
Hey all, please no judgement here. New to the group. 24 years old and a college student. Recently found out Im pregnant. Took two positive tests. Getting a blood test done tomorrow morning to get it confirmed. I have two possibilities as to who the father could be. My ex or this guy from college. Slept with both of them 4 days apart though so not on the same day… does anyone have advice for me
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Re: Need advice

  • knottieaab7c38c50c50a83knottieaab7c38c50c50a83 member
    Breathe… you don’t have to make any decisions or tell anyone until you’re ready. Make sure you develop a support system other than those two for the time being. You are your top priority now and your ex is an ex for a reason so be wise before bringing him into the mix especially so early.
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  • knottie29e9cdf09a029d77knottie29e9cdf09a029d77 member
    Grab a friend or family member, or two or three, who you know will have your back. Hopefully you have those! If not, hit me up. You need support in decision-making, fears, worries, or even excitement, and if you're anything like me, you need it to be someone who can be objective, calm, rational, logical. My advice is to not tell either of the men yet, since it doesn't seem like you're in a committed relationship with either. Please don't attach yourself to one of them because of pregnancy.

    I'm here at 40 years old, pregnant for the third time in my whole life (and I have three kids already.... Haha) and I am BEYOND my nerves and mental abilities with this. I need support. 
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