I've read four books - I would say Expecting Better by Emily Oster and the Mayo Clinic Guide to Pregnancy were the most useful. Expecting Better is shorter and covers a lot; Mayo Clinic is more extensive.
I consumed so much birthing and pregnancy content when I was a FTM. My favorite book was Like A Mother by Angela Garbes. For anyone who will be attending your birth, especially people who have never been to a birth or given birth, I cannot recommend highly enough The Birth Partner by Penny Simkin.
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