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Embarrassing- sex positions

krickert16krickert16 member
in December 2015 Moms
so my hubby and I waited till our wedding night... I love that we did that and would want it any other way. BUT we had some issues at first and took a lot of physical therapy in order for us to finally have normal sex. So we really only do it missionary style. And sometimes I'll sit on the side of the bed and he will stand on the ground and we will do it that way. But we cannot seem to manage to have sex with me on top (painful) or doggy style (he is big, but I don't understand the logistics of it "getting in")

Anyways, I am 9 weeks tomorrow and know that at some point missionary style will need to end. Any suggestions?
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  • shesha15zapshesha15zap member
    Spooning was a good one for us last time around.
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  • koala1107koala1107 member
    Unfortunately I don't have a whole lot of helpful suggestions, as personally I'm not a fan of doggy style (hits my cervix ouch). If you lean forward while you're on top it might help it hurt less. My main reason for commenting was because I'm really curious when you say you went to physical therapy for sex lol is that a thing? Not making fun or anything just genuinely curious how that works haha! Power to you for waiting until marriage! It gets better with time though, don't worry girl!
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  • ammnam14ammnam14 member
    Read up on Kama sutra! I know this is embarrassing but do not have sex if you're gassy. Haha. It makes it so painful.
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  • SeleynaSeleyna member
    I second the spooning position. It's a lot more comfy and you can move your torso/hips to make it feel better for you.
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  • VesperLoveVesperLove member
    Spooning can be really great. Try doggie style but with you actually lying on your stomach (not on your knees). It changes the angle for getting in and often it doesn't feel as deep. 

    And I also recommend a Kama Sutra book. It sounds embarrassing but there are tons of positions in there you wouldn't necessarily think of an explanations on how to make it work (angles, how to enter, etc).
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  • mrs14678mrs14678 member
    edited May 2015
    Try "scissors" style? We just delt with some similar conversations as we pretty much stick with missionary too. Haha
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  • tewinkle27tewinkle27 member
    I love doggy lol I'm no help sorry!
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  • lmcvicar1990lmcvicar1990 member

    Honestly start where you are comfortable and slowly move to different angles that transition easily (start with moving a leg a different direction, then twist and turn to see what works and what doesn't). COMMUNICATE the whole way through so that there are no unexpected movements and injuries. You end up doing a variety of angles that don't have a specific position name (make up your own LOL) but you will find different things that feel great!

    I am finding certain positions uncomfortable now that I am pregnant so  I just speak up (nicely) :) My husband is the only guy I have been with and we have figured everything out together along the way :) Good Luck!!

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  • amama3amama3 member
    Haha.. I love this conversation. My SO and I have tried many positions and I like to keep it creative. He is quite endowed and I personally like it when he hits my cervix harder because it makes me come more(no tmi) but I am more cautious now that I am carrying our child. But anyways, is there a huge difference in height between you two? Because doggie style or standing up (lol. For real) are two simple positions that can really hit the spot.
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  • BubbzBubbz member
    Husband and I are 13 inches apart in height. We've HAD to be creative. Spooning, as mentioned above, can be good...although you might have to find the right angle. 
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  • knottie4e4ad5952853aa2cknottie4e4ad5952853aa2c Just Joined
    personaly I just really love anal. Last night I gave my boyfreind anal and he got pregnent. now I really know what to do im a little scared. anyone got any tips?
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  • knottie4e4ad5952853aa2cknottie4e4ad5952853aa2c Just Joined
    Phisical therapy is a good idea buty after our first time i just had to go to theraby.
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  • knottie4e4ad5952853aa2cknottie4e4ad5952853aa2c Just Joined
    Recently me and my boo thing have starrted to try soaking. some think its just a mormon thing but we found it was a great way to do sexy role plays and we got pregnent pretty fast after. We had been struglling in many of the normal positions like chocking, thrwoing, and like 69 so then we strated trying out soaking and it wokrd pretty fast.
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