EDD / Weeks + Days: Jan 3rd / 28w 3d Hello third trimester!
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Baby is the size of a (an): Eggplant - Or Dorothy's Ruby slippers which is fitting because that is what my daughter is going to be for Halloween. I'm going to be the scarecrow so I can stuff straw in my shirt around my belly.
Team blue/pink/green: Blue
Upcoming Appointments: Friday
How are you feeling?: I had a really rough day on Thursday. Probably TMI but here we go. I'm not sure what caused it but it started when I woke up at 5am with really bad indigestion/heartburn. I got up to use the toilet and just kept having waves of nausea. It got so bad I made myself throw up. I went to work but had to keep going to the bathroom as it was now coming out the other way. I couldn't focus/concentrate on anything so after about 2 hours I went home. I tried to laydown and sleep but kept feeling nauseous. I tried to drink the smallest sip of water but couldn't keep that down. Finally after everything was out of my system I was able to get some sleep. Around 5pm I was able to keep some water down and my husband brought home some Pedialyte which I watered down and was able to drink. I went to bed right after my daughter went to bed. I had my 3hour glucose test Friday so I couldn't eat until after that. I was feeling better Friday but I was just exhausted.
Rants/Raves: Rave - I know I posted this in another thread but I saw my labs on Sunday and I passed the 3 hour glucose test!
Questions: NATM
GTKY: Would you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not? I think I could last for a little while but I don't think I would survive in the long run. I can adapt really easily but I'm not very athletic anymore so my stamina sucks lol. Plus, I can be a people pleaser so I know that would probably get me into some problems.
How are you feeling?: more and more uncomfortable lol. The bump is feeling heavy, and acid reflux at night is very rough
Rants/Raves: Time has started to feel like it's passing very quickly, which I can only imagine will increase as the holidays get closer, plus showers and other family events and the calendar fills up. Feels like there's still so much to get done!! 😅
Questions: NATM
GTKY: Would you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not? Absolutely not lol
@kamays54 getting sick while pregnant is the absolute worst. sorry for that. Luckily sounds like maybe a 24-hr bug?
Name: Kelly
Location: Tanzania
Age: 35
EDD / Weeks + Days: officially in third trimester! 28 weeks 5 days
FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
Baby is the size of a (an): coconut
Team blue/pink/green: blue
Upcoming Appointments: November 6 where I will have to be briefly admitted for magnesium. Not looking forward to it.
How are you feeling?: Large. Sleeping is getting more and more uncomfortable, and my carpal tunnel is increasingly worse. I can definitely tell when I "overdue" it during the day.
Rants/Raves: I saw a video the other day talking about how crazy it is for people who like to plan that having a baby is just like insane because they could come AT ANY TIME. No plans! lol
Questions: natm
GTKY: Would you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not? if I could stay hidden I think so. especially if my husband was with me because he and grow anything and also make any animal a meal.
@kendyb77 seriously! I can't believe we are in the middle of October. We had to push our baby shower back a weekend because I didn't realized how close to the shower our invitations were going out. Also, sorry the acid reflux is getting bad. It is not fun.
@kmtz89 thankfully it was only for that day. It could have been a couple different things. My daughter threw up the week before so there might have been something still going around daycare. I also think the increase in my iron supplement is making the indigestion/heartburn worse so I was already feeling crappy from that.
I know this is a personality thing and I understand that some people need to plan things out, but I feel like that just causes more stress. In my last BMB, there were so many that were devastated that it didn't happen exactly how they wrote out their birth plan. And I was just over here like, "Birth plan...doesn't it just happen?" There are so many things beyond our control and for me as long as we are both healthy afterwards I don't care what happened during it. I think it's okay to want it to happen a certain way and you can be disappointed if it doesn't happen that way but there is already so much stress why add to it.
Baby is the size of a (an): lettuce - or a Barbie!
Team blue/pink/green: boy
Upcoming Appointments: early November
How are you feeling?: I definitely hit a new phase this past week where I had to start using a belly band and could tell when I pushed myself too much over the weekend. For the most part I still feel physically ok, but I can see the increased fatigue and discomfort coming my way! We have one more trip starting this weekend and I’m a little nervous about being uncomfortable on the plane. Also, my dreams recently have been BONKERS. Just one after the other of vividly weird dreams all night. A lot of them are about feeling unprepared to leave a place (like, I have to go and my suitcases aren’t packed) - that’s not very subtle, brain 😂
Rants/Raves: Why do people think it’s ok to touch someone’s pregnant belly. I get the urge, but I do not get giving into it!
Questions: Re: the rant: I’m going to be seeing a lot of extended family and acquaintances next week and I’m nervous about how many people will try to touch my belly. Close family and friends don’t bother me, but relative strangers? No thank you. I’m trying to think of how to tell people not to while still being polite. Any suggestions???
GTKY: Would
you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not? I love this question so much because my friends and I actually talk about this! If I’m alone, absolutely not, but I would stick with my husband (Army vet and Ranger school graduate), find my friends (all very crafty, know construction and can problem solve well), and head towards family (houses in small towns). There’s a plan! 😂
Upcoming Appointments: had an appointment yesterday morning (glucose test - passed it!), next one is in two weeks. I am grateful I love my midwife team so much since I am going to be seeing them twice a month now!
How are you feeling?: Mentally/emotionally, I am feeling okay but starting to get a little stressed. We have a bunch of life stuff happening right now (work, school, grandparents aging, etc). We are under contract to buy a house which means we have to move & get our current house ready to sell in the next month or two. So it's exciting but nerve-wracking. Physically, I am starting to feel more pregnant and less comfortable. I feel like I have ZERO abs at this point. I have had a lot of symphysis pubis pain. Does anyone have any recommendations for managing the pain? I wear a belly band a lot which helps sometimes but it's still pretty uncomfy.
Rants/Raves: Rave - loving my new pregnancy friendly slip on sneakers from Kiziks!
Questions: just the above about the symphysis pubis pain
GTKY: Would you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not?: I'm not sure. If surviving meant isolating with a small group of people and living off the land, I think I could make it a while! I am pretty outdoorsy and have a lot of creative problem solving skills. But if surviving meant fighting in any capacity - then I would not live long lol!
How are you feeling?: awful, and very unlucky I have been in the hospital since Sunday. What I initially thought was standard round ligament pain, ended up being "severe" DVT (blood clot in my groin). The last 4 days have been a special kind of hell, but baby is still happy and healthy so that is the one thing I am able cling to to bring me some sort of comfort. I am just devastated... dealing with the standard pregnancy issues was more than enough to keep me occupied, and now DVT has made everything 50xharder. I cannot stand or walk without the assistance of a walker and it will likely be this way for weeks because of the size of the clot. The rest of my pregnancy and birth will look very different than I had originally hoped. My fiancé and I were supposed to get married next Saturday and now that is up in the air because of my mobility issues. Thank god my baby is okay because my heart cant take any more stress. I'm just feeling incredibly down and crushed right now ladies..... if you think something is wrong or what you are feeling is not normal, do not hesitate to call your doctor!!! This could have been deadly if it went unaddressed for much longer.
@jaclyn-ak omg, I’m so sorry and so glad you and baby are ok! How scary. I don’t have any words of wisdom, that just really sucks and I would absolutely be feeling the same way in your situation. I hope you have a lot of people who you can reach out to for support over the coming weeks and allow you to rest and recover.
@jaclyn-ak I am so sorry that you are going through all of that. I'm glad you are getting some comfort from knowing that your baby is still happy and healthy. I can't imagine what you're feeling. Thankfully you listened to your body and got it checked. I hope you can go home and rest in the comfort of your own home soon.
@strongishmom@kamays54 thank you ladies ❤️ they released me yesterday to recover at home and that has definitely helped brighten my mood a little bit. I feel fortunate to have a loving support system helping me through this too, and my fiancé has been great with taking care of everything I need.
I knew in my gut that this was more than round ligament pain by Friday, but at that point I thought maybe i just pulled a muscle in my groin from all of the stretching I was doing. I should have gotten it checked a day or two earlier than I did ☹️ please don't ever brush off your health like I did!
@jaclyn-ak I'm glad you're home and starting to feel better. Don't beat yourself up too much about not going in sooner. It's so hard to tell what is "normal" and "not normal" when it comes to pregnancy. Especially since everyone and every pregnancy is different. And our bodies change so much and so often that it's easy to "ignore" certain things because they might not last that long. I think it was @jojosesame who brought up pushing through and putting on a brave face. I think we do that so much and that's why we question our gut feelings.
@jaclyn-ak I am so sorry that happened. I think what @kamays said was so spot on. It seems like we are told than everything is "normal" in pregnancy and so it's hard to know what is abnormal. I hope you aren't holding onto any guilt about delaying going to the hospital - it sounds super reasonable to me that you waited. I'm so glad you are home and resting. I'm sorry it's derailed everything else and adding so much additional stress. Sending you love!
Thank you all so much 💕 your messages have really been cheering me up. And it's so true, our bodies are already going through SO many changes throughout pregnancy.. some are welcome changes, others not so much.. that it makes it even more difficult to know when you should be concerned or when something is truly abnormal.
Take care of yourselves and your precious babies everyone ❤️❤️
@jaclyn-ak, I’m just seeing these messages now and I’m absolutely devastated to hear what you’re going through. At the same time, Im also in awe of your resilience and perspective (gratitude for home and baby). When I first read your story, I thought “wow that was so smart of her to get that checked out.” I agree with the other ladies - I think we are CONDITIONED to try and ignore or just tough out pregnancy discomfort, even when it’s something serious.
Wedding or not, I hope you and your partner can do something comfortable and loving to honor your relationship soon ♥️.
Upcoming Appointments: 10/21 for first prenatal with my doula, and 10/23 check-in with my midwife
How are you feeling?: Pretty good! I passed my glucose test which was a huge relief! I also had a second US yesterday where baby boy is on track for growth now (at my anatomy scan he was measuring a little small), but he's breech so they've scheduled me for a 3rd at 36 weeks. I'm thinking about asking my midwife if this is really necessary because the scans are $230 a pop after insurance.
I was feeling really depressed over the past few weeks with all of the to-dos looming over my head, but a bunch of things have gotten started (daycare research and tours) or been completed (L&D tour, baby shower planning - anyone else planning their own?) that I'm finally feeling better.
Rants/Raves: My hospital isn't offering any child birth education classes, and it took them forever to figure that out and tell me. Now I feel like I'm scrambling to find something that's affordable.
Questions: None
GTKY: Would you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not? Depends on the zombies... if they're runners like 28 Days/Weeks Later, no. If they're walkers like The Walking Dead, yes.
Upcoming Appointments: beginning of November for my 32 week appt. Then end of November for my 36 week appt. This pregnancy has gone by so incredibly fast!!!
How are you feeling?: overall pretty good! My sciatic flares up when i overdue it but its way better than my last pregnancies and i know better what triggers the flare ups and can mostly avoid them.
Rants/Raves: my sister is coming to visit!!! She arrives this afternoon. So excited to see her again🤗
Questions: natm
GTKY: Would
you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not? Haha no way!
@dalszer it’s not just super cheap but ive really loved hypnobabies. Its a book plus the hypnosis audio files (and a facebook group) and i wont do birth without it. I didnt have it with my first and the birth class i got through my provider was so generic. The hypnobabies book has SO much info and i felt so confident and calm going into birth that i could deal with anything that came. Also, why do they need an ultrasound because of a breech baby? Can’t the midwife feel babys position? Also if baby continues to be breech, i have a friend who swears by putting a dab of peppermint essential oil on the top of her belly. She’s gotten two babies to turn when nothing else helped. The baby doesnt like the peppermint and will turn around🤷🏻♀️
@strongishmom i wonder if touching bellies is a cultural thing? Im from the US but have lived overseas my entire motherhood and not once has someone touched my belly (3 pregnancies). It’s just so strange that people touch strangers. Period. Thats weird. Lol. I think you have every right to touch their belly if they touch yours…i mean fair is fair right??😂 i also hate confrontation though so i probably wouldnt do anything but i think it would be hilarious
Re: Weekly Check-in, w/o October 14th
Location: Arizona
Age: 39
EDD / Weeks + Days: Jan 3rd / 28w 3d Hello third trimester!
Baby is the size of a (an): Eggplant - Or Dorothy's Ruby slippers which is fitting because that is what my daughter is going to be for Halloween. I'm going to be the scarecrow so I can stuff straw in my shirt around my belly.
Team blue/pink/green: Blue
How are you feeling?: I had a really rough day on Thursday. Probably TMI but here we go. I'm not sure what caused it but it started when I woke up at 5am with really bad indigestion/heartburn. I got up to use the toilet and just kept having waves of nausea. It got so bad I made myself throw up. I went to work but had to keep going to the bathroom as it was now coming out the other way. I couldn't focus/concentrate on anything so after about 2 hours I went home. I tried to laydown and sleep but kept feeling nauseous. I tried to drink the smallest sip of water but couldn't keep that down. Finally after everything was out of my system I was able to get some sleep. Around 5pm I was able to keep some water down and my husband brought home some Pedialyte which I watered down and was able to drink. I went to bed right after my daughter went to bed. I had my 3hour glucose test Friday so I couldn't eat until after that. I was feeling better Friday but I was just exhausted.
GTKY: Would you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not? I think I could last for a little while but I don't think I would survive in the long run. I can adapt really easily but I'm not very athletic anymore so my stamina sucks lol. Plus, I can be a people pleaser so I know that would probably get me into some problems.
Location: Southern CA
Age: 28
EDD / Weeks + Days: 26w0d
Baby is the size of a (an): kale
Team blue/pink/green: 💙💙
How are you feeling?: more and more uncomfortable lol. The bump is feeling heavy, and acid reflux at night is very rough
GTKY: Would you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not? Absolutely not lol
Name: Kelly
Location: Tanzania
Age: 35
EDD / Weeks + Days: officially in third trimester! 28 weeks 5 days
Baby is the size of a (an): coconut
Team blue/pink/green: blue
How are you feeling?: Large. Sleeping is getting more and more uncomfortable, and my carpal tunnel is increasingly worse. I can definitely tell when I "overdue" it during the day.
GTKY: Would you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not? if I could stay hidden I think so. especially if my husband was with me because he and grow anything and also make any animal a meal.
@kmtz89 thankfully it was only for that day. It could have been a couple different things. My daughter threw up the week before so there might have been something still going around daycare. I also think the increase in my iron supplement is making the indigestion/heartburn worse so I was already feeling crappy from that.
I know this is a personality thing and I understand that some people need to plan things out, but I feel like that just causes more stress. In my last BMB, there were so many that were devastated that it didn't happen exactly how they wrote out their birth plan. And I was just over here like, "Birth plan...doesn't it just happen?" There are so many things beyond our control and for me as long as we are both healthy afterwards I don't care what happened during it. I think it's okay to want it to happen a certain way and you can be disappointed if it doesn't happen that way but there is already so much stress why add to it.
Location: Colorado
Age: 38
EDD / Weeks + Days: Jan 15 / 27 weeks
Baby is the size of a (an): lettuce - or a Barbie!
Team blue/pink/green: boy
How are you feeling?: I definitely hit a new phase this past week where I had to start using a belly band and could tell when I pushed myself too much over the weekend. For the most part I still feel physically ok, but I can see the increased fatigue and discomfort coming my way! We have one more trip starting this weekend and I’m a little nervous about being uncomfortable on the plane. Also, my dreams recently have been BONKERS. Just one after the other of vividly weird dreams all night. A lot of them are about feeling unprepared to leave a place (like, I have to go and my suitcases aren’t packed) - that’s not very subtle, brain 😂
GTKY: Would you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not? I love this question so much because my friends and I actually talk about this! If I’m alone, absolutely not, but I would stick with my husband (Army vet and Ranger school graduate), find my friends (all very crafty, know construction and can problem solve well), and head towards family (houses in small towns). There’s a plan! 😂
Location: Kentucky
Age: 34
EDD / Weeks + Days: Jan 6 / 28w+2d
Baby is the size of a (an): bowling pin!
Team blue/pink/green: pink
How are you feeling?: Mentally/emotionally, I am feeling okay but starting to get a little stressed. We have a bunch of life stuff happening right now (work, school, grandparents aging, etc). We are under contract to buy a house which means we have to move & get our current house ready to sell in the next month or two. So it's exciting but nerve-wracking. Physically, I am starting to feel more pregnant and less comfortable. I feel like I have ZERO abs at this point. I have had a lot of symphysis pubis pain. Does anyone have any recommendations for managing the pain? I wear a belly band a lot which helps sometimes but it's still pretty uncomfy.
GTKY: Would you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not?: I'm not sure. If surviving meant isolating with a small group of people and living off the land, I think I could make it a while! I am pretty outdoorsy and have a lot of creative problem solving skills. But if surviving meant fighting in any capacity - then I would not live long lol!
I am just devastated... dealing with the standard pregnancy issues was more than enough to keep me occupied, and now DVT has made everything 50xharder. I cannot stand or walk without the assistance of a walker and it will likely be this way for weeks because of the size of the clot. The rest of my pregnancy and birth will look very different than I had originally hoped. My fiancé and I were supposed to get married next Saturday and now that is up in the air because of my mobility issues. Thank god my baby is okay because my heart cant take any more stress. I'm just feeling incredibly down and crushed right now
I knew in my gut that this was more than round ligament pain by Friday, but at that point I thought maybe i just pulled a muscle in my groin from all of the stretching I was doing. I should have gotten it checked a day or two earlier than I did ☹️ please don't ever brush off your health like I did!
And it's so true, our bodies are already going through SO many changes throughout pregnancy.. some are welcome changes, others not so much.. that it makes it even more difficult to know when you should be concerned or when something is truly abnormal.
Take care of yourselves and your precious babies everyone ❤️❤️
Location: Audubon, PA
Age: 31
EDD / Weeks + Days: 1/5/25, 28w 6d
Baby is the size of a (an): Eggplant
Team blue/pink/green: 💙
How are you feeling?: Pretty good! I passed my glucose test which was a huge relief! I also had a second US yesterday where baby boy is on track for growth now (at my anatomy scan he was measuring a little small), but he's breech so they've scheduled me for a 3rd at 36 weeks. I'm thinking about asking my midwife if this is really necessary because the scans are $230 a pop after insurance.
I was feeling really depressed over the past few weeks with all of the to-dos looming over my head, but a bunch of things have gotten started (daycare research and tours) or been completed (L&D tour, baby shower planning - anyone else planning their own?) that I'm finally feeling better.
GTKY: Would you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not? Depends on the zombies... if they're runners like 28 Days/Weeks Later, no. If they're walkers like The Walking Dead, yes.
Location: norway
Age: 28
EDD / Weeks + Days: jan 1 / 29+5
Baby is the size of a (an):
Team blue/pink/green: blue
How are you feeling?: overall pretty good! My sciatic flares up when i overdue it but its way better than my last pregnancies and i know better what triggers the flare ups and can mostly avoid them.
GTKY: Would you survive a zombie apocalypse? Why or why not? Haha no way!
Also, why do they need an ultrasound because of a breech baby? Can’t the midwife feel babys position? Also if baby continues to be breech, i have a friend who swears by putting a dab of peppermint essential oil on the top of her belly. She’s gotten two babies to turn when nothing else helped. The baby doesnt like the peppermint and will turn around🤷🏻♀️