January 2025 Babies

Weekly Check-in, w/o September 30th

I know we have only done one so far, but how many would like to start doing a weekly Hump Day Bump Day?  If people are interested, I can start one this week.  Just let me know.  Also if there are any other weekly discussions people are interested in, just let me know and I would be happy to start them each week.  I know this has been brought up before but hasn't really started.

GTKY questions - Since we are getting into fall/spooky/holiday season for most of us, I figured we could have some questions centered around that.  I will try to have alternate questions/wording for those that are not in the same season or who don't celebrate certain holidays.


Name:

Location:

Age:

EDD / Weeks + Days:

FTM/STM/TTM+:

Baby is the size of a (an):

Team blue/pink/green: 

Upcoming Appointments: 

How are you feeling?: 

Rants/Raves: 

Questions: 

GTKY:  What is your favorite thing about fall? 
If it isn't fall for you, what is your favorite thing about this time of year where you are? 
Or I believe the 2 that aren't in the US were originally from the US so you can also tell us what you miss or don't miss about the fall in the US if you would like?


Re: Weekly Check-in, w/o September 30th

  • Name: April

    Location: Arizona

    Age: 39

    EDD / Weeks + Days: Jan 3rd / 26w 3d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: STM

    Baby is the size of a (an): Kale - or showing my age, a walkman lol

    Team blue/pink/green: Blue

    Upcoming Appointments: I got the call that I have to do the 3 hour glucose test.  That is just a walk-in thing so I'll have to figure out when I can do that.  Otherwise not until October 18th.

    How are you feeling?: My test shows that I'm also still anemic.  So I have to up my iron supplement.  I really need to remember to look for the molasses when I'm at the store.  It's weird though because I feel like I have more and more energy lately. But that comes with it's own set of problems.  I might be "pushing" myself too much because I have been getting more pains all over.  My back is getting sore pretty quickly after doing certain things.  And randomly I started to feel the beginning of a calf cramp but thankfully it didn't turn into a super painful one.  It only happened when I stretched with my first so this was new to me. 

    @jaclyn-ak I had pain on one side by my ribs but it felt more like a pulled muscle or cramping then pressure.  It was only on and off for about 30-45 minutes.  I have been getting a lot of gas pain lately though.  It's been lower down than that but it is possible that is what you are feeling.

    Rants/Raves: It's all above lol

    Questions: 

    GTKY:  What is your favorite thing about fall? For me, fall kicks off the holiday season and all that comes with that.  I don't get the weather like when I was in NJ so it doesn't always feel the same but just knowing that the celebrations are starting makes me feel good.  Plus this is the time of year we have the most days off from work lol.

    If it isn't fall for you, what is your favorite thing about this time of year where you are?  Although we don't get the fall weather here in AZ (in fact all this week we are supposed to break the record highs ugh!), typically this is when it starts to cool off and we get the really nice temperatures.  I know part of why I didn't have a lot of energy in the beginning of my pregnancy is because of the heat.  It's already so draining when you're not pregnant.
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  • @kamays54 I'm in for Hump Day Bump Day!

    Name: Kendall

    Location: CA

    Age: 28

    EDD / Weeks + Days: 24w0d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM

    Baby is the size of a (an): cantaloupe

    Team blue/pink/green: 💙💙

    Upcoming Appointments: 10/21 OB appt

    How are you feeling?: Feeling excited to meet these babies! Overall physically good,I just get tired so easily. I've been measuring my bump just out of curiosity, and I believe my belly grew 2.5" this weekend! 😵‍💫 Crazy stuff

    Rants/Raves: Love feeling them move/kick! And that others can finally feel them too!

    Questions: 

    GTKY:  What is your favorite thing about fall? 
    I love fall flavors! Soo excited for pumpkin bread, soups, baked sweet potatoes, etc.
  • Name: Isha 

    Location: Colorado

    Age: 38

    EDD / Weeks + Days: Jan 15 / 24w5d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM

    Baby is the size of a (an): cantaloupe 

    Team blue/pink/green: blue

    Upcoming Appointments: glucose test this week 

    How are you feeling?: my one achy hip when I sleep has evolved into both hips/glutes, and last night I woke up with my whole right leg aching! I’m keeping an eye out for blood clot signs and I don’t think it’s that, but it’s actually disrupting my sleep now. I probably haven’t been drinking enough water because I’ve been traveling for the past few days, but tonight I foam rolled a little bit, soooo wish me luck. 

    Rants/Raves: This weekend I got to see one of my good friends who’s also due with a boy in January! 

    Questions: natm 

    GTKY:  What is your favorite thing about fall? EVERYTHING. The apples, the leaves, the smell of the air; today I had mulled cider and it was amazing. 
  • @kamays54 In for hump day, honestly I keep meaning to start one and then it slips my mind... 

    Name: Kelly

    Location: Tanzania

    Age: 35

    EDD / Weeks + Days: 26 w 5 days.  Jan 2 

    FTM/STM/TTM+: STM

    Baby is the size of a (an): butternut squash

    Team blue/pink/green:  blue!

    Upcoming Appointments: not for awhile now, early november

    How are you feeling?: the carpel tunnel is getting worse, really frustrating. Aside from wrapping my wrists at night my Dr just said to try soaking in warm water which seems meh. Also feeling really big, but as a plus size person struggling with do I just look huge or pregnant? 

    Rants/Raves: My dr has made it seem like its very likely we will have to schedule a repeat c-section due to hypertension. I understand, and want to keep the baby safe obviously but it has kind of bummed me out. 

    Questions: natm

    GTKY:  What is your favorite thing about fall? 
    If it isn't fall for you, what is your favorite thing about this time of year where you are? 
    Or I believe the 2 that aren't in the US were originally from the US so you can also tell us what you miss or don't miss about the fall in the US if you would like?
    I do have to say, growing up in New england I was really spoiled by fall. The trees were just so beautiful and when I moved away from the area I was surprised that other places have such lack luster falls, hah. 
    In Tanzania, this time of year is often referred to as "jacaranda season" which is really quite beautiful so feels like a win here too.
    *American in Tanzania, East Africa, since 2013
    DH - Tanzanian
  • Name: Becca

    Location: Kentucky

    Age: 34

    EDD / Weeks + Days: Jan 6 / 26w+1d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM

    Baby is the size of a (an): spaghetti squash (seems appropriate for fall!)

    Team blue/pink/green: pink 

    Upcoming Appointments: glucose test/routine f/up 10/15

    How are you feeling?: I am feeling pretty good! My husband and I just got back from a roadtrip up to New England & Maine. It was TON of driving (for him). I am a passenger princess and damn fine co-pilot. ;) But we loved our time together. It wasn't as relaxing as a lot of our trips because of all the driving and lack of planning but we still had fun. Physically, I am really starting to feel pregnant now. I am nervous about having another 3 months to go and how much bigger I am going to get!

    Rants/Raves: Work is a MESS right now. Its kinda confusing but my supervisor (and only direct co-worker) is leaving and we had already been talking about splitting my current role into two FTE in different departments. So I am feeling pretty nervous about what the workload is going to look like for me in the coming months. I am hoping that everything shakes out in my favor and I have a new title and raise before I go on maternity leave ;) In the meantime, I am going to be practicing a lot of radical acceptance and boundaries!

    Questions: NATM 

    GTKY:  What is your favorite thing about fall? I love being outside in the fall! The weather is perfect for a fire, hikes, camping, and cozy flannel. And I am a big fan of all the fall drinks - cider, PSL, hot teas, hot toddies...
  • @bcml I’m in the same work boat! My boss, and the only other person on my team, left at the end of July. It’s been stressful but honestly being pregnant has helped with perspective, because I know I’m going on leave in January and it’s like, if leadership doesn’t have a replacement by then, it’s not my problem at that point. I’m just trying not to think about the mess that would exist when I return 😂 I was able to advocate for a temporary raise (we call it premium pay) for myself while I’m a team of one. Once we hire someone it’ll go back to my usual rate. I don’t know what your workplace is like but maybe that’s something you can ask for! 
  • @strongishmom sorry you're going through it too. It's so annoying when leadership drags their feet on stuff. I think everyone is feeling the pressure at my job so we will hopefully have things moving forward quickly. I am in a pretty good place to negotiate so I am trying to make sure I use this to my advantage. The only issue is that I was planning on decreasing to four days a week after maternity leave so I'm not sure if I will be able to do that with this new position. 

    Good luck! I hope they hire someone soon (and hope you can keep the extra pay just because 😊)
  • Name: Kaycee

    Location: D.C./DMV

    Age: 43

    EDD / Weeks + Days: January 7, 26+1

    FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM

    Baby is the size of a (an): Kale

    Team blue/pink/green: As you can probably tell, I'm not big on assigning colors for a sex, so I always say "boy". Our theme is more natural (white/cream/tan/brown/gray) colors + sage/eucalyptus for baby boy.

    Upcoming Appointments: Oct. 10 routine monthly check-in, but with yet another and new hospital group - but the one I wanted to go w/ so I can deliver at a specific hospital in the area. Will be fasting prior to for a GD test.

    How are you feeling?: Overall pretty good! Although I'm starting to lose my appetite again unfortunately. Haven't skipped a beat or day for my vitamins though. 

    Rants/Raves: Happy all the moving and transition from Hawai'i to the D.C. area is moving along and progressing. Trying not to stress out about getting the new home setup in time before 36 weeks (beginning of December). It's a little nerve-racking, but am overall feeling good and grateful. It's a new build, and the builder still has some things to do in the home, including painting, which I requested to get done within a week so I have 2 months before I hit 36 weeks to properly air out the fumes. Annoying they didn't have this done before we closed and got the keys to the home. 

    Questions: Not at the Moment

    GTKY:  What is your favorite thing about fall?  Moving back to the continental US, I get to experience seasons again now. I'd say the more milder temps (not so hot!) and ability to layer clothes. 
  • Name: Dallas

    Location: Audubon, PA

    Age: 31

    EDD / Weeks + Days: 1/5/25 / 26w 4d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM

    Baby is the size of a (an): Kale

    Team blue/pink/green: 💙

    Upcoming Appointments: Glucose & anemia screening 10/16, Growth check 10/18, Midwife 10/23

    How are you feeling?: Overwhelmed! I feel like I can't get anything crossed off my to do lists at work, at home, for baby... Otherwise my sleep is getting worse, and I've been getting twinges of cramps in my calves. I'm trying to be more conscious of how much I'm sitting, and have purchased some compression socks. How are you supposed to put your feet up but also stay off your back??

    Rants/Raves: I recently finished crocheting a blanket for baby. I'm looking forward to making a little bunny plushie soon too 😊

    Questions: Is anyone planning an unmedicated birth? If so, how are you prepping your body and mind?

    GTKY: Halloween! Hubby and I are going to be avocado (me) toast (him). I also love all things pumpkin flavored 😋
  • @dalszer I HAD THE SAME THOUGHT! Literally how do you put your feet up and stay off your back without just being completely propped up? I've started to have a little bit of ankle swelling, esp in the evenings, and I feel like trying to figure out how to position myself is ridiculous
    *American in Tanzania, East Africa, since 2013
    DH - Tanzanian
  • Name: jaclyn
    Location: nj
    Age: 34
    EDD / Weeks + Days: jan 20/ 24w3d
    FTM/STM/TTM+: ftm
    Baby is the size of a (an): cantaloupe
    Team blue/pink/green: blue
    Upcoming Appointments: ob next week for gestational diabetes test
    How are you feeling?: feeling good! I still have nausea hit me at random times which is frustrating. And the number on the scale is starting to really upset me again. But overall, I feel really good 
    Rants/Raves: I wish people would keep their comments on my pregnant body to themselves 🫠 i understand people close to me are excited for me to be having a baby, but the constant asking to see the bump, then expressing disappointment over the size of my bump, is really crushing my spirit lately. Even when people mean well or think they are giving a compliment, I over analyze and get myself upset.
    Questions: None at the moment
    GTKY: What is your favorite thing about fall? Absolutely everything 💕 i love the cold mornings and nights, bonfires, fall fashion, pumpkin picking and carving, Halloween and scary movies, apple cider.... I wish October could last twice as long as it does. This is my favorite time of the year by far
  • Name:Jo

    Location: So Cal

    Age: 42

    EDD / Weeks + Days: Jan 7 / 26 weeks + 2 days

    FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM

    Baby is the size of a (an): kale

    Team blue/pink/green: blue 💙

    Upcoming Appointments:  Next Tues OB and scan

    How are you feeling?: Overall good but extremely emotional, more emotional than before which doesn’t seem possible. My feet have started to swell a bit which is unpleasant.

    Rants/Raves: my emotions are really running all over the place in the last week or so! It’s bizarre to feel so out of control of my own emotions! On a positive note, baby is kicking through to the outside and I can even capture it on video - feeling more real now.

    Questions: anyone else on an emotional roller coaster? 

    GTKY:  What is your favorite thing about fall?  
    I love the cooler weather and time change which I know is weird but I love to end the day and go to bed early so I really enjoy it getting darker earlier!
  • Name: Fiona

    Location:  WA

    Age: 34

    EDD / Weeks + Days: 1/20; 24w, 3d

    FTM/STM/TTM+: FTM

    Baby is the size of a (an): Cantaloupe 

    Team blue/pink/green: girl 

    Upcoming Appointments: 10/14 glucose test 

    How are you feeling?:  good! Thankful it’s the best I’ve felt in a couple weeks. The belly is getting heavy though 😂

    Rants/Raves: NATM

    Questions: Is anyone doing Pelvic Floor PT before baby comes? If anyone’s done it before, how helpful was it for you?

    GTKY:  What is your favorite thing about fall?  
    If it isn't fall for you, what is your favorite thing about this time of year where you are?  
    It’s not my favorite time of year, but I can definitely appreciate the colors of the leaves, the cozy fall fashion, and the return of football season (and we get a LOT of rainy Sundays for football watching haha)
  • @jojosesame yes, I am riding the emotional rollercoaster too! This week has been especially tough. Sending you love and tissues for your tears!

    @fk18 I am hoping to start pelvic floor PT before the baby is here but still waiting on a call from the office to schedule. I worked with a pelvic floor PT a few years ago for an unrelated issue and it was the best PT experience. HIGHLY recommend to anyone!
  • @jojosesame with you on the emotions.  I don't remember it being this bad with my first and it wasn't this bad in the beginning.
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