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Need hope

aparsons2015aparsons2015 member
in March 2025 Babies
So I lost a baby back in May of this year. Ended up having to have a D&C. My body didn’t want to let go of the baby naturally. Just found out a week ago we are pregnant again. No issues until today where I have had brown, brown/pinkish or reddish mixed, pink, or red spotting today. It switches back and forth. Nothing to soak a pad or has gotten on a pad yet. Just when I am in the bathroom wiping. Going to make an appointment this week. Not sure if anyone else has had this before and went on to have a healthy baby. No other symptoms beside the spotting and absolutely no cramps or pains.
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  • etexash713etexash713 member
    Praying for you. I have been cramping with light pink spotting (three times when I wiped in 24 hours).  Trying to not panic. I am 6 weeks and 4 days. I had cramping and pinkish discharge at 4 weeks and my doctor said it was normal and to stay calm. Which is so hard. Hope you can relax soon. 
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  • knottie7120718b8975536eknottie7120718b8975536e Newbie
    I really need some HOPE & ENCOURAGEMENT. I am feeling sad, depressed, and inadequate. My fiancé and have been TTC for 8-months with no luck. I am 34 years old and ready for the next step in life but I just can't seem to achieve it. I was pregnant 3-times back in college (14yrs ago) and despite no complications with the termination of those pregnancies I've never been pregnant again in all these years. I couldn't raise a kid then nor could I afford one. I was 18/19 in college trying to figure out life and chasing a guy who made it clear that he didn't want me. Fast fwd to current and I feel like God is punishing me for my poor childhood choices. I AM SO SORRY for my past decisions, had I known I'd be punished in this way I would have suffered through those pregnancies as a teen. My fiancé and I desperately want kids! We've had fertility testing and the Dr. says I have great AMH and FSH levels, my cycle is extremely regular (I've tracked it via an app for 11years now and its always spot on), and I ovulate consistently according to my BBT and monthly LH testing. My partner and I began using PreSeed July 15th, 2024 hoping for a pregnancy this cycle but I doubt we've been successful. My period is expected August 7th, 2024 and I'm experiencing my typical emotional H3LL and low back pain which is a tell-tale sign my period will be arriving as normally, another failure for me :( I want to give my fiancé a child so badly because he is so good to me, his face lights up anytime he talks about kids, and I just know it'll bring us even closer. I honestly feel like less of a woman. I feel like a failure!
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  • fininevermorefininevermore member
    First, you’re not a failure. You just started using this new lube, and to have it work this quickly is a minor miracle. Second, it sounds like having a baby back then would have been the worst thing you could have done. If there is a loving God in Heaven (I believe so) he wouldn’t want you to suffer like that. Third, even under the best of conditions there is only a 20% chance of conception in any one cycle. Make sure you’re taking the best care of yourself and if it doesn’t happen this month, try again.
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