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Feeling guilty

justjazzjustjazz member
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I just found out we are pregnant. This pregnancy wasn’t planned and caught us by surprise. I have a 5 year old and we thought we were going to be one and done. I can’t help but to feel guilty for my 5 year old. I honestly didn’t know if I wanted to have another child because I struggle with anxiety that leads to depression.
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  • knottieba886490cf35ea60knottieba886490cf35ea60 member
    I’m in the same boat as you. I also suffer from bad anxiety which is why I prolonged getting pregnant again. I’m now 11 weeks and my anxiety is at an all time high. I think a part of pregnancy is learning how to tackle these obstacles which in the end will make you stronger. Everything will be ok! Lean on your support system as much as you can. 
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  • justjazzjustjazz member
    Thank you for sharing. My husband is very supportive but I can’t help but to feel lonely
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  • breezi711breezi711 member
    I wouldn’t feel guilty for your 5 year old. Think of it that you are giving your child the precious gift of a sibling! A lifelong friend! I am one of 5 children, and I found it incredibly enriching to grow up with siblings. There are 6 years between my and my youngest brother. Despite the age gap, we had so much fun together! As you go through your pregnancy, get your kiddo involved as much as you can. Have him/her pick out a baby outfit or toy for the new arrival. When baby arrives, your 5yo will probably love to help you care for the baby!
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