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Re: WTO w/o May 27
There is so much but here is the current drama. H and I have been together since highschool. But a few years after we got married she got upset with me over something small enough that I don’t remember the original issue anymore. Well to “punish” me she pretended I didn’t exist for like 3 years. Like any family function wouldn’t talk to me, would ignore me if I spoke, ignore others if they mentioned me. B@tch was committed 😂 Eventually it got worked out, big dramatic apology. Well now she is planning a family function on the same weekend we already have plans that can’t be changed
So H and I decided that he would go and I would stay behind. She’s big mad and now 8 years after it was all good she is back to pretending I don’t exist. We were at a graduation party for one of the cousins and she spoke to everyone but wouldn’t even make eye contact with me. H wanted to call her on it but honestly it’s just exhausting so it’s almost a break if she won’t talk to me.
It’s a full weekend of dance recitals for our daughter. She’s been working for over a year on it and lots of $$. H is going to the family event and D and I are staying behind for dance. Step mil is mostly mad that D won’t be there.
She was also cruel about my loss last year. Wasn’t excited that I got pregnant again and then when H told them that we had lost baby she said “ oh that’s fine, God knows best”.