August 2024 Moms

Weekly Check In 4/15

EDD / Weeks + Days:

FTM/STM/TTM+:

Baby is the size of a (an): 

Team blue/pink/green:

Upcoming Appointments:

How are you feeling?: 

Rants/Raves: 

Questions:

GTKY: What are you most nervous about approaching baby’s arrival? 

Re: Weekly Check In 4/15

  • sph97sph97 member
    edited April 2024
    EDD / Weeks + Days: 24+2

    FTM/STM/TTM+: STM

    Baby is the size of a (an): cantaloupe 

    Team blue/pink/green: green

    Upcoming Appointments: this week

    How are you feeling?: big, lol

    Rants/Raves: 
    rant: *unsolicited parent advice* why do people feel the need to tell you how they think they raised their kids is better and you should do XYZ. My first struggled with bottle refusal, and family thinks I “put my boob in his mouth too much” ?!? I exclusively breastfed and will this baby too and my IL’s are pushing me to use bottles and pacis asap (like in the hospital from day 1) and pumping around the clock to count oz and so “everyone can feed the baby.” I nursed my son for 20 months and none of them breastfed more than a few weeks so idk why they feel the need to “correct” how I choose to feed my kid. Like the boob is the devil or something. I’m not going to do it- of course, but why they care so much idk. It’s starting to piss me off, probably the hormones lol. 

    Questions: How do you deal with the unsolicited- terrible- advice? I thought it would be better with the second but I guess not. 

    GTKY: What are you most nervous about approaching baby’s arrival?
    Establishing a bedtime routine with baby and my toddler! He’s a big mamas boy and I’m afraid it’s gonna be rough at first. 
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  • EDD / Weeks + Days: 22+4

    FTM/STM/TTM+: STM+ stepson

    Baby is the size of a (an): spaghetti squash

    Team blue/pink/green: pink

    Upcoming Appointments: end of month,  and then MFM growth scan first of May

    How are you feeling?: stressed.  I'm really worried about her small size and what it might mean.  

    Rants/Raves: Rave: Japan was fantastic.  Rant: still can't regulate my schedule (Japan is 16 hrs different). 

    Questions: Anyone been diagnosed with IUGR? My next growth scan will determine if baby girl has growth restrictions and I'm really nervous. 

    GTKY: What are you most nervous about approaching baby’s arrival? Her coming early. 
  • EDD / Weeks + Days: 24w

    FTM/STM/TTM+: 3tm

    Baby is the size of a (an): cantaloupe 

    Team blue/pink/green: pink!

    Upcoming Appointments: tomorrow morning, i think i’ll be doing the gestational diabetes screening tomorrow 

    How are you feeling?: great! i’m showing so much more than with my previous pregnancies & i keep asking my husband if my waddle has kicked in yet. he swears it hasn’t but i feel like a penguin 😂

    Rants/Raves: rants- i move too fast & quickly get reminded to slow down by the round ligament pains. also, my baby had hand foot & mouth all last week. he had it bad for the first three days, fever on and off and he couldn’t eat cause it was too painful for him. i’m so happy he’s over it now & his blisters are slowly taking off!
    raves- my baby slept through the night last night! he only does that once in a while since he still wakes up to eat once or twice, so it was a treat for me & i woke up feeling amazing!

    Questions: none
    @sph97 i really have no good advice, but i completely understand you! i just ignore it & only voice my reasons behind my decisions if they really keep pushing it.

    GTKY: What are you most nervous about approaching baby’s arrival? postpartum recovery after the csection
  • @sph97 For unsolicited advice I'm going with "How interesting. I'd love to see the current research on that if you have time to send me your source!" I also like to look at the person with a little pity and say, "It's a wonder that any of us made it to adulthood. Thank goodness we have better research on that now."
  • EDD / Weeks + Days: 21w2d
    FTM/STM/TTM+: STM
    Baby is the size of a (an): carrot
    Team blue/pink/green: green
    Upcoming Appointments: 4 weeks
    How are you feeling?: A pressure system moved into the area last night and I have a massive headache. I seem to be more sensitive this pregnancy.
    Rants/Raves: I have a lot of travel the next two months so I'm looking forward to that. 
    Questions: none
    GTKY: What are you most nervous about approaching baby’s arrival? I remember being so weak for weeks after birth last time. I could barely hold up my 7lb infant and now I also have a 25lb toddler. 
  • EDD / Weeks + Days: 24 weeks and some change.

    FTM/STM/TTM+: 4thTM

    Baby is the size of a (an): cantaloupe 

    Team blue/pink/green: green

    Upcoming Appointments: May 10th - after that I start going every two weeks!

    How are you feeling?: tired today but overall been feeling well.

    Rants/Raves: rave: I passed my one hour glucose test, which I never have before! That was such a relief to find out.

    Questions: 

    GTKY: What are you most nervous about approaching baby’s arrival? I haven’t been feeling super nervous since I’ve done this three times before. Not looking forward to the sleep deprivation though.
  • EDD / Weeks + Days: 24w4

    FTM/STM/TTM+: +5

    Baby is the size of a (an): cantaloupe 

    Team blue/pink/green: PINK

    Upcoming Appointments: MFM today

    How are you feeling?: I am in the glory days!

    Rants/Raves: MFM says I for sure have to deliver before 36 week due to history or partial abruption. So I have an appointment at 34 weeks to follow up. 

    Questions: 

    GTKY: What are you most nervous about approaching baby’s arrival? 

    Sleep. My youngest is 6 now and sleeping is my life. 
  • EDD / Weeks + Days: 24

    FTM/STM/TTM+: TTM

    Baby is the size of a (an): Cantaloupe 

    Team blue/pink/green: pink

    Upcoming Appointments: Monday I will finally have my anatomy scan at 24 weeks. 

    How are you feeling?: tired but good. 

    Rants/Raves: switching OBs. Nervous about it but haven’t been receiving very thorough care where I’m at so after my scan Monday I’m moving all my stuff to another office. 

    Questions: Has anyone else switched drs this late?

    GTKY: What are you most nervous about approaching baby’s arrival? I compare this LO to my daughter so much only because she was my last one, and was also female, and she has been SO hard from day one, which scares me. I’m trying to remind myself all babies are different and just because they’re both female means nothing but I find myself more apprehensive about this LO with the memories of my last and how hard it all was. 
  • @lolothenailtech I’ve been thinking about switching too but have been nervous late in the game. 
  • @lolothenailtech I’ve been thinking about switching too but have been nervous late in the game. 
    It scares me so much but I know the care I have received isn’t right. Non responses when I call or message on the portal. Never had a urine test at any appt. No care about getting the anatomy scan done when it should be. Giving me incorrect numbers and information. Passing the buck instead of stepping up. The neonatologist they use after delivery is one we have had issues with before as well. Reviews for the hospital are not great. There’s just so many red flags. I hate to change but I know what is going on now isn’t right. 
  • I’m so sorry to hear all this about your OB. Such stress on top of an already emotionally and physically demanding time. Fully support your instincts either way and what feels best

    Fwiw I’m likely switching OBs at week 23. 

    Mines been fine — vanilla, nothing to write home about. But we want to deliver at a different hospital and wanted to wait until our anatomy scan to verify we’re still low risk (long story about the hospitals here and why that matters). I live in a city where no matter what though you’re not really guaranteed your main OB will be the one at delivery, they all work on teams and it’s based on who’s on call. So it’s a little easier for me to switch without big emotional investment. Given how many visits you’ll have in your third trimester I imagine it will be a good chunk of time to get acquainted with the new team if you switch 🙏🏻 
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