I took a photo shoot today with our Halloween decorations. π I was thinking that this might be a good way to announce to our family in a few weeks. Anyone else have plans or have you announced yet?
@stress_engine thatβs really cute and something I havenβt seen before!!Β
We have announced to our parents/siblings. Iβll probably wait until after my scan at 12 weeks to do a post. Weβll probably announce the sex publicly then too. Not sure what I want to do yet! Maybe a baby pumpkin & something with our son.Β
I announced today with a photo of my son on the front porch! He was wearing a big brother shirt, and we painted a pumpkin pink & he held up the ultrasound π₯°
Maybe Iβm a bit weird but Iβm feeling a bit apprehensive about telling people! Not just because of fear of something happening, butβ¦. I donβt love being the centre of attention, I know it will trigger a lot of questions and opinions I donβt think Iβm ready for, and I have some close friends who are trying or want kids and it might be hard for them to hear. I think we will wait until Iβm well into second trimester (or itβs impossible to hide) and keep it secret for a while longer.Β
I completely understand how you are feeling! Although everyone means well, the attention and questions can be overwhelming- good for you for doing what you feel comfortable with π
Yep, that's not weird at all! I'm not a big social media person and I haven't posted anything yet. I probably will eventually, maybe after we can get some maternity pictures done if I still want that later.
We really wanted to tell our parents soon after we found out. I put my halloween shoot photos in a card for them, lol! It's our first pregnancy and the first grandchild on both sides. We told our parents to wait to tell anyone else until after our first appointment. My mother-in-law made it to during our appointment to tell my husband's grandma. My mom apparently texted both of my aunts right after/during. It's probably not normal to have all of the extended family know when I was not quite 8 weeks yet, but oh well. I know that they were just crazy excited! Just starting to tell some of our friends now too. I'm stillΒ holding off at work (male-dominated environment).
@louloumama I think that it's great that you are protecting yourself if that's what you need and doing what's best for you!
@louloumama I hear you. I donβt care to announce either. My first pregnancy was no picnic, and I donβt want to make βbeing pregnantβ the center of every conversation I have. I donβt like the attention, and itβs just sort of private to me.Β
Iβll tell most people once I get my NIPT results back. My students (Iβm a teacher) I wonβt tell for as long as humanly possible π And I probably wonβt announce on social media. Iβll tell people in person when I see them.
We told our kids yesterday. We gave them shirts that said big brother and big sister (again), and they could not figure out what that meant. Lmao. I mean theyβre 6 and 4 and have no frame of reference for clever pregnancy announcements so Iβll give them a pass, but maybe we need to work on extrapolating information from limited data. They are absolutely thrilled though.Β
Anyway, then we told my SIL who is also due in May and has been trying for awhile and experienced a loss. I waited until now to give her time to focus on her own anxiety inducing first trimester, especially because when youβve had a loss it can be jarring to find out someone close to you got prego on accident. Whoops. Which I know from experience because I was that post-loss prego feeling all the feelings 7 years ago.Β
My family already knows, but we are telling DHβs family next weekend.Β
And I donβt know how interested I am in a social media announcement. Iβve been there done that with two kids. And this baby was a surprise and weβre still getting used to it ourselves so the world doesnβt need to know yet. Kind of like the idea of just posting maternity photos later on, or something, like surprise!Β
Our close family and friends already know because we'd been doing IVF for almost a year and it was harder to keep it secret. For people we haven't told yet, I'm thinking of doing Christmas cards with me and my husband sitting by the fireplace with our dogs and having all the stockings hung up, and then having each of us hold a little mini-stocking (we're having twins). If I can get my act together and make it happen, I think it could be really cute.
We shared our spontaneous triplets publicly after our 18 week scan. We make a sweet reel hanging ornaments with their photos on our Christmas tree. There are so many risks shared with carrying triplets that it felt we were just living in fear. We decided it was time to put on the rose colored glasses and live in celebration instead! So far all is well. 3 baby boys on the way!
@jennabirdie wow congratulations with spontaneous triplets!!Β Im glad you're able to put the fears aside to enjoy this time with your babes πΒ
I had told our family around 8-9 weeks, close friends around Thanksgiving (week 14), and everyone else just a few days ago. I make my own Christmas cards so this year's doubled as a pregnancy announcement. π
I announced today with adorable AI-generated baby girl and baby boy photos of my husband and me. I shared it in the family chat group, and everyone loved it! It was so much fun seeing their reactions and imagining our future little one! ππΆπ
Here's the fun tool I used, in case you want to try it too!
Re: Pregnancy Announcements
We are doing engagement photos/baby announcement photos tomorrow.Β
That is so exciting about the photos! Extra congratulations to you on so much to celebrate! Sneakers are also such an adorable idea.
to hide) and keep it secret for a while longer.Β
We really wanted to tell our parents soon after we found out. I put my halloween shoot photos in a card for them, lol! It's our first pregnancy and the first grandchild on both sides. We told our parents to wait to tell anyone else until after our first appointment. My mother-in-law made it to during our appointment to tell my husband's grandma. My mom apparently texted both of my aunts right after/during. It's probably not normal to have all of the extended family know when I was not quite 8 weeks yet, but oh well. I know that they were just crazy excited! Just starting to tell some of our friends now too. I'm stillΒ holding off at work (male-dominated environment).
@louloumama I think that it's great that you are protecting yourself if that's what you need and doing what's best for you!
I had told our family around 8-9 weeks, close friends around Thanksgiving (week 14), and everyone else just a few days ago. I make my own Christmas cards so this year's doubled as a pregnancy announcement. π
Here's the fun tool I used, in case you want to try it too!
https://www.babyfotor.com/