Hi guys!
I’m a FTM and all of the options for strollers/car seats/breast pumps are so overwhelming. I haven’t told anyone other than my husband yet (and he doesn’t have a clue either lol) so I thought it would be smart to come to you guys for your advice on best brands/equipment.
I’m looking to get 2 different pumps (one for home & one for work) as I am a nurse in a busy ER who will be going back to 12 hour shifts. Does that sound ridiculous or does that sound like the smart thing to do?
Re: Best strollers/car seats/breast pumps?
Since you asked, I'll go ahead and chime in now and say I love our Mockingbird Stroller and thought our Chicco Keyfit infant car seat was great (I'll note I was also a fan of getting an infant car seat then moving to a convertible one when needed as it's great to be able to carry baby in and/or attach to your stroller). A few considerations that I remember making - 1. Are the car seat and stroller compatible (is there an adapter for your car seat for the stroller you want)? As car seats are about safety my personal recommendation is to choose a car seat first and then make sure you get a stroller that works with it. 2. How will the car seat work in your car? We have a compact car and not every car seat would work in it. 3. How and where will you be using the stroller? I live in a city and walk a lot, so while I needed something that I can get in and out of my car, my priority was something that was good walking around my neighborhood. 4. Do you plan on having more than one kid? MH and I disagreed about this, but we were pretty sure we wanted to have two and that they would be fairly close together so I wanted a stroller that could be converted to a double stroller (MH on the other hand thought we should just focus on the first kid and worry about what was to come later).
For pumps, unfortunately different ones work well for different people. But I will say I love my Spectra for my main pump and I ended up getting a hand-me-down Spectra for the office. I have a lot of other pumps that I tried (I had supply issues so played around with pumps more than most) including the Pumpables Genie Advanced (portable - love it); Imani 2 (wearable - love it); and the Baby Buddha (wearable - not for me). I found that I needed to still use my Spectra to fully empty me so that was my primary pump, but loved having a portable or wearable for on the go or times when I needed to be up and moving. I also have a feeling I might lean towards portable or wearable for a second kiddo for obvious reasons. I found Karrie Locher's Portable and Wearable Pump comparisons really helpful - she gives her own thoughts and has feedback from her community so you can see what many different people think.
Wearable Pump Comparison: https://www.karingforpostpartum.com/blog/wearable-pump-comparison
Portable Pump Comparison: https://www.karingforpostpartum.com/blog/portable-pump-comparison
Eventually the Goody wore out, we used the heck out of it as we didn’t have a car (think daily use, miles of walking, folding and unfolding constantly) so if you want to invest in something that would last for more than one kid, get the UppaBaby Minu. It’s an almost identical design but less than twice the cost, it’s twice the quality, and will definitely last more than twice as long. We replaced the Goody with this one and I couldn’t be happier with it; I am now pregnant with my second and confident the two will serve us until our stroller days are done.