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Newbie Intros w/o Nov 27

aisleofviewtwoaisleofviewtwo member
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Welcome, new members! Please read The Ultimate TTGP Guide pinned at the top of the board (https://forums.thebump.com/discussion/12685680/the-ultimate-ttgp-guide-newbies-read-this-first). It's full of information about TTGP and about our community here on The Bump. 

Please introduce yourself and share as much (or as little) as you would like. Once you're ready, feel free to jump into any of our daily/weekly threads to participate in the community!

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How many months have you been TTC?: 

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Re: Newbie Intros w/o Nov 27

  • annelovebeingmeannelovebeingme member
    Hi All
    Not quite sure how much to share really. Interested in seeing what others have experienced, I am newly married and we talked about what we wanted including having kids but no real definite, prior to getting married my SO always used condoms with one time exception. Since married now he is still using them most of the time and rarely ever cums fully inside me, Am I being foolish to think he would want to stop using condoms now that we are married and want to have a family? Thoughts?
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  • aisleofviewtwoaisleofviewtwo member
    Welcome, knottie!

    If you’ve only spoken in general terms about wanting kids but with no specific timeline, I guess it’s hard to know what you’re both envisioning for the future. Speaking for myself, I wouldn’t want my partner to remove contraception without a very clear conversation and my very clear consent. It sounds like you just need to find time for a chat to get clarity and, if it’s what you both want, take next steps.

    Keep us posted! Also, if you can, I’d recommend changing your username to distinguish yourself from all the other knottie+numbers users. That way we can tag you in posts ☺️
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  • annelovebeingmeannelovebeingme member
    Hi There Thank you so much for responding and your thoughts.
    My H and I have talked about having kids and when we do have we both end up leaving it as it will happen, I have not used an IUD since April and he knows it is gone and was on board when it was removed.
    I do not want to feel like I am nagging him about it though and I know it will happen I think it is more on me that I want to conceive yesterday. lol So when we are making love and he does pull out I do not want to be critical. When we married in 2020 he did stop using condoms completely so that was a great and I admit I love the feeling of fullness and completeness when he finishes inside.
    Thank you again for your thoughts and the suggestions of profile name change.
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  • annelovebeingmeannelovebeingme member
    I just figured out how to change my user name. Thank you again.
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