***THIS POST WILL MENTION PREGNANCY, BIRTH OR BABIES. If you are having a hard TTC or TTCAL day, please read at your own discretion***
Hello old friends, good to see you!
***As a courtesy to those still TTC on this board, please do not post bump pictures here.***
If you were a regular poster on TTGP we'd love to get an update on you this month! Please tell us how you are doing!
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)?
*How far along are you?
*Which birth month board/due date?
*Team Pink/Blue/Green?
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share?
Re: TTGP Check-in October
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? About 6 months, October 22- April 2023.
*How far along are you? 30w2d
*Which birth month board/due date? December 9
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Pink 🩷
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. Have had a name picked out since before she was even conceived, but we're keeping it a surprise until she's here.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? Honestly, I still can't even believe this is all really happening and it's even crazier to think that in ~10 weeks we'll be parents. I am so happy to have found this community to help get through the challenges of TTGP and I am wishing the best to you all!
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? Feb 2021- Jan 2023
*How far along are you? 4 weeks postpartum tomorrow - to the shock of literally EVERYONE (even my OB) baby girl came 4 days early
*Which birth month board/due date? Sept 2023
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? green turned PINK
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. We named her Jacqueline Brooke
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? MH came to my 39w OB appt with me bc it was the morning of our 11th wedding anniversary, and we both took the day off. I was still at 2 cm and like 50% effaced, my OB offered to do a membrane sweep, and triple checked if that’s really what we wanted to do since it was our anniversary. I joked she should just go for it that it probably wouldn’t work because it didn’t work for my first pregnancy, she remarked that even in this god-awful heat I wasn’t looking miserable enough to go into labor anytime soon. Welp, jokes on us. LOL. We managed to have a really nice day just the two of us, lots of inconsistent contractions… I almost thought when we were on our way home from dinner that maybe they were starting a pattern, but they never felt strong enough. We sent my in laws home, they had watched DD, and proceeded to have terrible sex. I decided I had to wash my hair. As I got out of the shower at midnight my water broke in a fashion I would swear was like a balloon popping. I woke my husband back up (men, they fall asleep so dang fast) and we alerted my parents to come down for DD. Got checked in the hospital around 130am, a measly 3-4cm. No hesitation on the epidural this time, and after triage and a bag of fluid I got it at about 330am. I attempted to nap, and was often woken up as baby wasn’t happy in basically any position for an extended time. At 630am the HR monitor moved out of place, and my nurse used it as a chance to have a PA check me and taaadaaa I was at 10cm. After 75 min of pushing we had our baby girl. I feel extremely lucky after everything that it took with my losses to get here, and that I had quite the boring and fast labor (although DD #1 I pushed out in 25 min, the nurses were trying to see if I could beat that).
I’m not sure it’s fully sunk in that all of J’s firsts are my lasts with a baby of my own. I had said two and done, regardless of gender, but I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t thinking about doing this one more time. I’m not sure how realistic that is, or if I’m living in rose colored newborn glasses. 🌈
Hoping for babies for all of you here, and lurking from time to time to root for you.
Edited to add: I managed to attend all of my concerts (9/7, 9/14, and 9/29). The one on 9/14 I ran into the OB who delivered Jacqueline in the bathroom at a sold out 20k person show 😂
Married: 11/12/16
BFP: 02/09/17
FTM | EDD: 10/13/17
@anniemarie887 congratulations!! I hope big sister is loving her new role! So so happy for you all
TTC History
TTC#2
Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? Oct 22-apr 2023
*How far along are you? 31+2
*Which birth month board/due date? Dec 14/16
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Blue!
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. We are up between 2 but heavily leaning towards leonidas
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? I go in Wednesday to see if my low lying placenta has moved I'm fully convinced my placentas just hate me 😹 fingers crossed it has and I can have another vaginal delivery. Otherwise no signs of pre-e this time which is great. But part of my brain just can't process that I could make it past 36.5 weeks.
PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
PG #3: EDD 12/15/23