**This is a place for those of us who have already started TTC, but have started infertility testing and/or treatments. You can express your thoughts, feelings, and frustrations on infertility. TTC can be a long journey naturally, then add in the difficulties associated with infertility, and it becomes a whole new ballgame. The road to infertility can be lonely, frustrating, and complicated, so let's make this a place where we can vent, ask questions, and support one another. Feel free to resurrect this thread at any point in the week if you have something to say. Treat this as an ongoing conversation.
Diagnosis (if you've been):
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched):
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?):
How are things going?:
Any questions?:
GTKY: What's your favorite comfort food?
Re: IF Testing & Treatment w/o Sep 25
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
@britters314 this keeping busy has been great! Time is flying by which helps when we're in this process where it feels everything takes so long to get to the next step
@inth@inthewoods23 my husband has looked into a sex couch but they're so expensive! I've used regular pillows before but they're too fluffy to provide actual support, so let us know if you end up with one of those triangle wedge pillows that are supposed to be really good
Married: 11/12/16
BFP: 02/09/17
FTM | EDD: 10/13/17
@winterecho Happy Birthday!! 🎉 How are you celebrating?
Diagnosis (if you've been): TBD
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): Benched
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Testing last week revealed both slightly elevated TSH and that I’ve lost rubella antibodies, so started thyroid meds and my first dose of MMR will be tomorrow. Benched for a minimum 60 days to account for 2 doses 30 days apart + 30 days for the virus to clear.
How are things going?: It’s a very strange feeling to go from actively ttc to actively preventing—especially since we got the rubella news just as I was entering the fertile window. I’m having a hard time with stepping back when we’ve already spent so much time trying, but part of me knows we really could use a break from the anxiety and uncertainty of it all.
We’ll chat with the RE on Friday to go over full test results, but then I’m guessing we’ll just plan to reconvene in early December.
Any questions?:
GTKY: What's your favorite comfort food? Mac ‘n cheese! I’ll make it from scratch if I’ve got the time/energy, but since we’re talking comfort foods, I’ll be honest: it’s usually blue box.
Married: 11/12/16
BFP: 02/09/17
FTM | EDD: 10/13/17
@inthewoods23 I have heard good things about a pillow called the Wedge (my girlfriend with back problems LOVES it)
@winterecho Happy Birthday!!! Book festival sounds like a fab way to celebrate!
How are things going?
TW *other people's LC* and also lots of family drama that you may not want to read lol
At the funeral I also held my cousin's 3 month old perfect baby that they tried very very very hard to have later in life. She was amazing and perfect, and I didn't even cry holding her. Not even when my mother made disparaging remarks about me having more children, when she knows what we have been through
Definitely feeling like I need to get back into therapy after all this. Made the call this morning lol.
@aisleofviewtwo I think I'm going to try making it for the first time this fall! Mac and cheese though 😋. Fun fact, I found out I was immune to rubella, but not to the measles when I went to a different RE for a second opinion. Who knows how long that's been the case! Was I ever? Did it lose efficacy? So many questions!
@maggiemadeit I will check out this Wedge! So sorry for all the family drama! That's a lot to deal with.
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
Married: 11/12/16
BFP: 02/09/17
FTM | EDD: 10/13/17