Trying to Get Pregnant

IF Testing & Treatment w/o Aug 14

This is a place for those of us who have already started TTC, but have started infertility testing and/or treatments. You can express your thoughts, feelings, and frustrations on infertility. TTC can be a long journey naturally, then add in the difficulties associated with infertility, and it becomes a whole new ballgame. The road to infertility can be lonely, frustrating, and complicated, so let's make this a place where we can vent, ask questions, and support one another. Feel free to resurrect this thread at any point in the week if you have something to say. Treat this as an ongoing conversation.

Diagnosis (if you've been):

Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched):

What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?):

How are things going?:

Any questions?:

GTKY: What is your favorite funny movie?

Re: IF Testing & Treatment w/o Aug 14

  • Diagnosis (if you've been): RPL, DOR

    Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): WTO but NTNP

    What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Taking this cycle off

    How are things going?: There is a ton of stuff going on the next few weeks (road race, out of town guests, tons of events), and we're enjoying a busy August staycation. August is also a hard month for me in terms of loss stuff. So I decided I don't want to take any medications, or take my BBT, or pee on any OPKs, or time sex. I just don't want to think about it this month. My husband was super supportive of this approach, and I am super happy to be relaxing this cycle. We plan to come back to medicated cycles and TI in September. 

    I will still try to pop in here on Mondays to set up the threads. It's been soooooo slooooow here lately, and I would hate for this space to get lost or disappear, or fall into the hands of drive-by Peggies and special snowflakes. 

    Any questions?: NATM

    GTKY: What is your favorite funny movie? I'm not much of a movie buff, but I LOL every time I catch Bridesmaids on TV. 
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  • *lurking* @maggiemadeit I hope you enjoy all the things in front of you this month, and also find the space you need as hard days come up.  Even if the handful of us here are quiet, I think we all appreciate you setting up the threads!
    me . late 30's | h . early 40's | < 3 . 2013

    *siggy warning*

    ttc#1 . jul 2015
    mmc . mar 2016
    dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
    tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
    BFP .  jan 2017
    DD .  oct 2017

    ntnp #2 . summer 2018
    mmc x2 . sep 2018 & may 2019
    RE workup, dx MTHFR mutation, ultimately unexplained . summer 2019
    surprise BFP .  aug 2019
    DS .  may 2020

    dx Hashimoto's 2023
    ttc #3 . feb 2023
    mmc . apr 2023
    mmc x3 . mar/jul/aug 2024
    dx elevated nk cells
    tx ovasitol, levothyroxine, baby aspirin, LP progesterone, lovenox, prednisone, femara + ti . jan 2025
    BFP . mar 2025

  • edited August 2023
    *luuuuurk* @stormageddon-darklordofall the pharmaceutical industry are a bunch of criminals and so are the insurance people. But what can you do. Fwiw there are some cheaper options, depending on who your clinic is willing to work with. I ordered many of my drugs (esp the most expensive stuff) through an israel-based pharmacy  called IVFpharmacy.com. It felt sketch to order overseas but it was waaaaay cheaper and in the end the customer service was excellent and easier to deal with than some US-based pharmacies I also used. But i wound up opting to pay for many of the drugs out of pocket and save my prescription allowance for other things.
    History
    I am doing this on my own. Left ovary and fallopian tube removed due to cyst/necrosis just after birth. Right ovary and tube still purport to function.
    Began TTC in Aug '18 @ age 35
    5 or 6 (or 7?!) cycles using frozen donor sperm, ICI. All BFN
    Mar-Jun '19 IUIs, all BFN
    Began process of referral for RE in spring of '19, blood tests confirm low AMH (.54) but all else is good.
    May '19 HSG shows open tube, but ultrasound suggests fibroids
    MRI in June '19 confirms two large fibroids, one growing through wall of uterus
    In June '19 I move from California to Oregon, disrupting my insurance, referrals, etc. 5 months spent piecing it all back together.
    Nov. '19 attempted myomectomy (vaginal approach) failed. 2nd surgery using laparoscopic method in Jan '20 is successful.
    April '20 --> June '20, natural IUIs, all BFN.
    July? saline ultrasound and bubble test demonstrate open tube
    July '20 clomid cycle cancelled for thin lining
    Aug-Oct, 3 femara cycles, all BFN
    RE referral. While waiting to set up an appointment Nov-Jan,I continue with natural cycles and ICI, using a known donor, BFN...
    Jan '21 more bloodwork, AMH is worse (.30), FSH high albeit not catastrophic at 13.2. hysteroscopy all good. "looks cozy!" says the RE.
    Feb '21, injectables (menopur, novarel), iui, BFN (doc said the frozen donor sperm sample had the "best numbers she'd ever seen!")
    Mar '21, injectables, iui cancelled due to lack of follicles, converted to at home-insem. BFN
    May '21, first IVF round cancelled due to cyst.
    July '21 IVF: standard antagonist. 225menupur/225gonal-f/cetrotide/5000u trigger, AFC 7; 6 days of stims. 8 eggs retrieved, 7 mature, 5 fertilize, 4 made it to blast. 3 are 4AB, 1 is 4BB. PGT-A results all abnormal.
    Oct '21 somewhat improved AMH (.51) and significantly improved FSH (8.9). Maybe it's all the pills I swallow.
    Dec -21, standard antagonist. 225menupur/225gonal-f/cetrotide/5000u trigger, AFC 5; 11 days of stims. retrieval yields 5, 4M, 2 reach day-6 blast (4AB & 4BB). 1 low-level mosaic (chr. 3 deletion), 1 complex abnormal.
    Feb '22 FET (low-level mosaic): CP.
    May '22 egg retrieval, lupron flare protocol. HGH priming for 1 month before stims; md lupron 20/20u daily; menopur 225, follistim 225, 10k trigger after 8 days of stims; AFC 10; 13 retrieved; 10 mature; 8 fertilized. All frozen at 2PN for later thaw, grow, and biopsy.
    July '22 egg retrieval same protocol: 9 days of stims; AFC 8; 10 retrieved, 8 mature, 4 fertilized and frozen.
    Sept '22 ER same protocol: AFC 10; 12 retrieved, 11 mature, 11 fertilized.
    From the 3 retrievals, 7 survived to day 5-6 blastocyst, from which I have 2 normal embryos!
    Jan 20, Fully medicated FET, baby aspirin, dexamethasone, acupuncture, and as much woo as I can stand (which isn't very much). BFN.
    July 23, Natural FET + baby aspirin. BFN.
  • @optimistgardener Yeah, we spent like $800 more out of pocket, but saved like 9K in our lifetime max.  Totally ridiculous!  Also, I've dealt with specialty pharmacies before... and it's ALWAYS a drama.  Urgh!!!!

    angry the grinch GIF
    *TW All the Loss* #BitterHagPartyOf1

    October 2015 - 1st MC.  7-8 weeks along. Suspected molar PG, but luckily just a MMC.

    June 2016 - 2nd MC: 4-5 weeks CP

    September 2016 - 3rd MC: 4-5 weeks CP

    RE 1: ALL the testing - 'unexplained'  "Yinz can do IVF or try on your own"

    Feb 2017 - 4th MC: 6 weeks

    RE 2: More tests. Still 'unexplained.'  Called fat for an entire hour-long appointment, cried a lot

    Feb 2019 - 5th MC: 6-7 weeks

    IUD - March 2019-March 2023

    RE 3:  Repeat all the tests. Hoping to try IVF.

  • @maggiemadeit I hope you’re able to enjoy the good things coming this month! 

    @stormageddon-darklordofall ooof I’d have sticker shock too! But yay for retrieval cycle!

    Diagnosis (if you've been): PCOS

    Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): IVF

    What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): egg retrieval!

    How are things going?: Great! My PCOS ovaries are good for something, and I’ve had a great response to stims. At my appointment this morning they counted 13 follies that are basically ready, and another 13 that are close behind. My RE said he’s thinking there should be at least 20 at retrieval. I have another monitoring appointment set for tomorrow, and then retrieval will likely be Saturday as long as nothing funky comes back with my bloodwork today. 

    Any questions?: for anyone who has done this before - how should I expect to feel after retrieval? 

    GTKY: What is your favorite funny movie? I’m also a fan of bridesmaids, and pitch perfect is a good one too
  • @maggiemadeit I know how hectic it can be trying to balance a million things at once and needing to take a step back

    @stormageddon-darklordofall I've been going nuts lately trying to figure out all the insurance and coverage crap, I wish it was easier to navigate!

    @optimisticoctopus fingers crossed for non-funky!

    Diagnosis (if you've been): PCOS

    Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): IUI

    What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): after some testing earlier this week I'm going back on letrozole but with a higher dose and then headed back next week to continue monitoring

    How are things going?: okay I guess, just trying to keep track of all the appointments

    Any questions?: nope

    GTKY: What is your favorite funny movie? Mean Girls, always a classic! 
    Me: 28 | Him: 31
    Married: 11/12/16
    BFP: 02/09/17
    FTM | EDD: 10/13/17

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  • Diagnosis (if you've been): RPL, one tube is blocked, ama 

    Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): stillllll waiting for AF. 🙃😒

    What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): I met with a new RE last week. He wants to do some additional testing, especially on the autoimmune side of things. But- wants me to do that starting on CD 1. If I don’t have my period back by Monday he wants to do an US to make sure nothing is retained. Because I “should” have it back by now. 

    How are things going?: I really liked the new RE and he had a good plan to hopefully get a take home baby and through pregnancy safely. it’s just frustrating waiting. 

    Any questions?: 

    GTKY: What is your favorite funny movie? Mr Right. It was just enough sarcastic/ ironic dry dark humor without being slap stick. 

    @o@optimisticoctopus good luck at retrieval!!! 
    @s@stormageddon-darklordofall we have to order a specialty medicine for one of our family- it took almost three months earlier in the year. THREE months! Unacceptable. 
    @m@maggiemadeit I’m glad you are being kind to yourself this month! October is tough for me the same way. 
    @w@winterecho on Wednesdays we wear pink! 



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