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Bachelorette Parties/Weddings

knottied042a4613886bbe3knottied042a4613886bbe3 member
in December 2023 Moms
Hi,

FTM here due at the end of December - I have been asked to be in 3 weddings next year (1 in May, 2 in June) with 3 bachelorette parties (2 nights/3 days each - 1 in April, 2 in May) - am I biting off more than I can chew?  I know I will not have a newborn by then but that feels way to soon to take all those trips.  Thoughts??
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Re: Bachelorette Parties/Weddings

  • madimom95madimom95 member
    It is totally your preference! If you feel like it’s a lot even with baby being older you can absolutely say no ❤️
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  • dmcg17dmcg17 member
    Like @madimom95 said, I think it's really up to you and how you feel.  When do you need to commit by?  If they don't need an immediate answer maybe ask them to give you some time to think about it or just commit to being in the weddings for now and not the bachelorette parties since they're multiple nights away.  
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  • clt2pwm11clt2pwm11 member
    Personally, I would decline the bachelorette parties. Just speaking for myself and I know everyone is different but there is absolutely no way I could leave my baby in the first year. When my son was 5, I left for 4 nights. It about killed me. 
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