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GTKY: Do you plan to find out the sex of the baby? If so, do you plan a reveal or anything? How will you tell? Or will you?
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Me: 33 DH: 32
Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
Started TTC August 2016
BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
BFP: 2/27/20
Re: Pregnancy Check In - week of 7/24
We didn't find out with our first, and loved it, then did find out with pur second and also loved it. We'll find out this time too, and will share with family/friends when we make a pregnancy announcement, but we don't do any kind of party/event/reveal.
Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
Started TTC August 2016
BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
BFP: 2/27/20
Also, is it as bad going from one to two as I’ve heard?
I like being “prepared” so I want to find out the sex; as for telling others, I’m torn. My husband always says he doesn’t care; no help at all. So I’m debating. If I do, I’m not doing a reveal.
@hedgepig I've never taken medication for nausea, so I can't be any help, but sorry to hear you're struggling, hope you find something to help soon.
@fininevermore going from 1 to 2 is definitely hard, but I think the trick is to know that's its hard, and that will set you up for success. When I was pregnant with #2 a family friend said to me, "I was in the Israeli army, and going from 1 to 2 kids was harder than that." At the time, I was like, WHY ARE YOU SAYING THAT?!?! but now, I'm glad she did, having that time to prepare for how hard it was going to be was helpful
Going from 0 to 1 was harder for us I think. 1 to 2 is hard in different ways - my best advice is to try to make sure you have alone time with the new baby so you can bond. How old is your older kiddo? I just remember feeling like I never got to love on my baby because I had to take care of a wild 2.5 yo, and it was covid so we couldn't really get any help with him.
@mrosek91 I like the idea of a secret too 😁
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I had a good appt today - scheduled my blood draw for nipt, scheduled first midwife appt and will schedule dating u/s tomorrow 😊 And I picked up some B6 and Unisom for the nausea, so I'll try that tonight!
Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
Started TTC August 2016
BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
BFP: 2/27/20
@halfanewt Ugh, I hate when people can't make up their minds - like it doesn't impact everyone else 🙄
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I forgot to add that since the doctor's office doesn't take into account the length of my cycles, they gave me an EDD of 3/9 instead of 3/7 🤷🏻♀️ We'll see if the dating U/S changes anything.
Started Dating: 2003 Married: 2013
Started TTC August 2016
BFP: 2/1/17 MC: 2/8/17
BFP: 3/8/17 MMC: 5/1/17
BFP: 7/23/17 EDD: 4/5/18
BFP: 2/27/20
@kmw611 I’m glad for the age gap, I wouldn’t be able to handle two little kids. If it’s a boy I’ll be even more outnumbered than I am already. 😊
Thank you, @hedgepig for starting this and many of the other threads in this group. 💖
I love the idea of team green, but I think my practical side will override my romantic side and I will find out. We won't do anything big we will probably just let people know.