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First time mother but already a step mum

knottied570788ac23fcf37knottied570788ac23fcf37 member
in October 2023 Moms
Hi all. I have no clue where to post this or who to even talk to about this. I am 21, and 25 and a half weeks with our Rainbow baby and love my fiance. However he already has a son from a previous relationship. I can't help but feel jealous and depressed about it. It's my first baby and I hope things will be as special for him as it is for me. I can't stop comparing myself to his ex or thinking about how he's been through all this before. I can't even fully describe the feelings I'm feeling at the moment and I can't be the only one. Please send you advice or anything I'm overwhelmed with emotion.
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Re: First time mother but already a step mum

  • knottie8b4788b6563029deknottie8b4788b6563029de member
    I’m a step mom to two, with two of my own and one on the way. So I hear you mama but you have to remember every pregnancy is so different and just make him feel included! When you feel the kicks and see the ultrasound, BE EXCITED! It’s very exciting and even if he doesn’t act excited that’s okay too, he’s not the one who feels what you can! It’s not real for some men until the baby is physically here. My kids and step kids are all so excited and thats all that matters to me!
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