This is a place for those of us who have already started TTC, but
have started infertility testing and/or treatments. You can express your
thoughts, feelings, and frustrations on infertility. TTC can be a long
journey naturally, then add in the difficulties associated with
infertility, and it becomes a whole new ballgame. The road to
infertility can be lonely, frustrating, and complicated, so let's make
this a place where we can vent, ask questions, and support one another.
Feel free to resurrect this thread at any point in the week if you have
something to say. Treat this as an ongoing conversation.
Diagnosis (if you've been):
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched):
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?):
How are things going?:
Any questions?:
GTKY: If there was a book or movie made about your life, what would the title be?
Re: IF Testing & Treatment w/o June 26
Diagnosis (if you've been): autoimmune stuff, need progesterone
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): benched
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): AF arrived yesterday so I need to get my butt in gear with scheduling a bunch of appointments. SIS and biopsy between CD6-12, eye exam, skin exam, and bloodwork. Still need to call my insurance and find out if I need pre-authorization for the one genetic test I'm missing.
How are things going?: I came down with something yesterday that had me feeling so achy and blah. Today is more aching, a slight fever (thanks BBT lol), and the chills/hot flashes. Tylenol is being a life saver right now keeping the aches at bay.
Any questions?: anyone else ever have to deal with pre-authorization or pre-determination with their insurance? Can I get the bloodwork done while they're working on that?
GTKY: If there was a book or movie made about your life, what would the title be? Gosh idk. Probably Perseverance or something like that. I've dealt with a lot of mental health issues that I'm working to improve and I sure as heck never gave up on solving my infertility. Maybe a better title would be Never Give Up? Sounds kinda cliche though hahaDx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
Diagnosis (if you've been): Unexplained
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): Natural cycle plus acupuncture
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Acupuncture
How are things going?: AF is due tomorrow and I’ve only had BFNs so that’s disappointing. But acupuncture is doing what it is supposed to do, so that gives me some hope.
Any questions?: Nope
GTKY: If there was a book or movie made about your life, what would the title be? Probably something like “5 year plans are for suckers.” Honestly, after the pandemic, that title would probably work for a lot of people lolStatus (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): benched until I heal from the d and c scheduled for tomorrow.
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): testing to figure out why I’ve had a second loss this year. We are moving to IVF from here.
Any questions?:
GTKY: If there was a book or movie made about your life, what would the title be? Love and loss.
I’m back. Everything else in spoiler - TW for loss.
Diagnosis (if you've been): RPL, DOR, Ashermans
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): Officially off the bench after surgery! Trying on our own this cycle
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): Couldn’t get a follow up with my RE in time for any treatment this cycle, but have an appt next week
How are things going?: Ok. After a super wonky, likely anovulatory cycle on the bench we’ve decided to ask for some treatment. We still don’t want to do anything invasive, but thinking to ask for some unmonitored cycles with letrozole and progesterone, just to try to optimize ovulation and maybe have a chance at more than one egg. My acupuncture doc also asked me to get my thyroid tested because I have some hypo symptoms, but I remembered that the RE had tested it a few months ago. I went and looked at the results and it was 3 something. Not terrible but not ideal either. I’m not sure if it’s high enough to be treated, but I really want to ask the RE about it and try to get it into that optimal 1-2 range.
Any questions?: Anyone been treated for subclinical hypothyroid?
GTKY: If there was a book or movie made about your life, what would the title be? Maybe something like “the slow train” because I feel like everything in my life has been like that. It took me 9 years of dating to marry my husband, took 5 years after undergrad to start graduate school, and this baby I am determined to have is 2 years in the making and counting.Diagnosis (if you've been): unexplained
Status (TI/ICI/IUI/IVF/FET/benched): on our own
What are you doing this cycle? (Testing? Treatment?): trying seed cycling + vit C
How are things going?: just had my wtf and change of care visit with the Re. New doc seemed nice the times we’ve met before, is a bit odd in person. Ah well. Basically we have all the options right now, as she’s still not ruling out IUI either. Yay for making decisions.
Any questions?: not yet!
GTKY: If there was a book or movie made about your life, what would the title be? Fake it til you make it - I’m still not 100% convinced I’m qualified to be an adult 😂