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So lonely

knottieb715d2423994902cknottieb715d2423994902c member
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I’m 7 weeks pregnant with my 3rd. My husband is less than thrilled to say the least. The nausea and exhaustion is consuming me. My family is thousands of miles away and even though I’ve asked for someone to come, no one is. I feel like I can’t do this. I am alone. I’m not sure what kind of replies I’m looking for or if I even need replies. I think I just needed to get my feelings out there.
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Re: So lonely

  • harpseal135harpseal135 member
    I'm sorry your husband is "less than thrilled." If he doesn't want kids, he can easily get snipped.  

    I'm sorry you are going through this rough period.  I hope things pan out.  Talk to your doctor and see if they have any resources for you to reach out to.  
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  • annarunsannaruns member
    I'm so sorry your partner isn't as supportive as you need through this! It's incredibly lonely. This is my first pregnancy, and I wasn't prepared for the loneliness. I'm not ready to tell most people yet, and I'm just extremely sick and exhausted and feel pretty isolated from everyone. Mostly, though, I think this forum has shown me that I'm not alone in the way I feel, both mentally and physically, and neither are you! I also found that just by venting on here the other day, my mood improved dramatically, so there's definitely something to just getting your feelings out of your head! All my support to you!
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  • yyllek11yyllek11 member
    Hi there. I’m so sorry your husband is not happy. We suffered a loss in October so I’m not sure that my husband is truly happy about this and more fearful like I am. I’ve never felt so lonely, and I actually feel crippled to ask for help, even though I have family close. They don’t even know and I don’t plan on telling anyone until J absolutely have to and start to show to the point I can’t hide it anymore. If I could send my family to you, I would in a heartbeat. Know I’m thinking of you and hoping it gets easier for you.
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  • knottie1b693be7760cfaeeknottie1b693be7760cfaee Just Joined
    I’m so sorry you feel that way and I can completely understand. I just walked seat from my ex Ehh is the father of my unplanned 4th child. Thought my baby making days were over having two grown kids and the youngest just turning 15 last month. Of course my ex right off the bat told me I made it all up, tried to hurt me and the baby a few times hoping for at the very least fetal demise but we both survived, no lasting harm done but emotionally and psychologically on my end. My kids and family is supportive of my decision to keep the baby not only because I am pro life but also because medically is my safest chance at surviving this pregnancy myself due to other medical conditions my last pregnancy triggered and I’ve been suffering from. Never thought I’d be that woman that had to get legal protection from an ex, not here I am. Mid life crisis and starting all over alone….. The support of my kids, family and friends is amazing. But not having that intimate support of a loving, faithful partner is really rocking me to my core.

    I wish you didn’t have to go through this pregnancy feeling so alone and isolated, there is nothing worse then being and feeling that way with a partner laying right next to you. Or so I thought, until now…. 😔💔

    I hope he comes around not only for you, for your family, your new baby and himself. 🙏🏽♥️
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