January 2024 Moms
stezzi007
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Baby # 3
stezzi007
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Anyone having baby number 3 and is super nervous about it? I am expecting our 3rd child and I honestly am so nervous about what our life will look like. I currently have a 9 year old son who is diagnosed with ADHD and level 2 autism. And our second son who is almost 3 is in the process of being diagnosed with autism as well. Our lives are absolutely chaotic. I work 7-4 and my husband works 12-8, I have weekends off and he has Mondays and Wednesdays off. At times I very much feel like a single parent and am nervous just touring the 2 boys out to do anything as they can make things extremely difficult. I am so excited for our 3rd baby but i am also very anxious about trying to find a balance with everyone's wants and needs. Also, I honestly have no idea what to expect as I have always been behind all of my friends in regards to having children, but now I am going to be the only one with 3 children lol. Guess I'm just looking for some reassurance and also needing to vent about this as no one really knows yet that we are expecting our 3rd.
Re: Baby # 3
I’m very excited, relieved because this will definitely be our last (and I don’t love being pregnant), but also nervous because our two toddlers take so much time and energy that I wonder how we’ll do adding a newborn to the mix! But we decided to do it sooner rather than later because we’re not getting any younger!
It sounds like you and your husband have a challenging work schedule, but it's important to prioritize time for family and self-care. Maybe consider reaching out to friends or family members who can offer support or assistance with childcare. Additionally, there are many resources available for families with children who have ADHD and autism, such as support groups and therapy programs.
Remember that it's okay to ask for help and take things one day at a time. Having three children may require some adjustments, but it will also bring new joys and experiences. You've got this!