TTCAL w/o Mar 13

maggiemadeit · March 2023

**This is a general trigger warning that CP, miscarriage / spontaneous abortion, selective abortion due to medical complications, and/or stillbirth may be mentioned.**

Introduce yourself and anything you think is important: number of loss(es), when you had the loss(es), diagnosis/conditions surrounding loss, etc.

Status:

How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with and/or what is going well?

Any testing coming up/any recent results

Questions?

GTKY: What’s at the top of your bucket list?

bumbly_b23 · March 2023

Status: WFAF 30 days out from loss

How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with and/or what is going well?

Realized this morning that it’s 30 days out and ive been trying so hard not to keep track of where I’d be in weeks along but I’m struggling today. Been mostly ok in the last few days so hoping the emotional days is AF coming? Idk girl can dream.

Any testing coming up/any recent results

no

Questions?

GTKY: What’s at the top of your bucket list?
Horseback riding in Scotland

stashattack · March 2023

@bumbly_b23 I'm so sorry. If it gives you hope, I got my period 35 days out from my MC D&C

stashattack · March 2023

Introduce yourself and anything you think is important: number of loss(es), when you had the loss(es), diagnosis/conditions surrounding loss, etc. MC 6w 1/11/23

Status: WTO

How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with and/or what is going well? Things are ok. I really hoped I'd be pregnant already post MC. But oh well. But in some fun news my tempdrop got delivered today!!!

Any testing coming up/any recent results OPKs

Questions? None

GTKY: What’s at the top of your bucket list? I want to buy farm land!

bumbly_b23 · March 2023

@stashattack I hope you can buy the farmland. We live in a small farm and it’s been the best thing ever.

And thank you that does help.

maggiemadeit · March 2023

@bumbly_b23 I really hope it’s coming soon. Mine was 51 days and it helped me a lot to get that cycle behind me. I hope it will be healing for you when it comes.

Introduce yourself and anything you think is important: Spontaneous loss at 6 weeks in Aug 2021, MMC D&C at 12 weeks in Feb 2022

Status: WTO

How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with and/or what is going well? Feeling pretty blah about TTC right now. Feeling like this might not be happening for us and trying to figure out how to let it go.

Any testing coming up/any recent results? Going to see the RE for testing in early April to see if it makes sense to continue trying

Questions? NATM

GTKY: What’s at the top of your bucket list? Machu Picchu

mambo5-2 · March 2023

@bumbly_b23 I think I was 45 days out after my D&C

mambo5-2 · March 2023

Introduce yourself and anything you think is important: number of loss(es), when you had the loss(es), diagnosis/conditions surrounding loss, etc.

Several losses

Status: TWW

How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with and/or what is going well? I'm just hanging in there. I don't think this is my month but it is what it is.

Any testing coming up/any recent results H needs to have an SA this month

Questions? Nope

GTKY: What’s at the top of your bucket list? A one month trip all around Europe.

charmedlifex3 · March 2023

Introduce yourself and anything you think is important: number of loss(es), when you had the loss(es), diagnosis/conditions surrounding loss, etc.

This is my 5th loss. This one is particularly hard.

Status: waiting for a d&c- there was no heartbeat at our nine week US. Measuring 6 weeks, 2 days.

How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with and/or what is going well? Nothing is going well. I struggle with hyperemesis during pregnancy so I am still violently ill.
Tw- death

My MIL passed away on the same day my pregnancy stopped growing. She has one last grand baby to hold in Heaven.

So we are grieving on multiple levels right now. I just want it over so we can move on and get some closure.

Any testing coming up/any recent results- labs today and Monday to confirm my levels are dropping. If they aren’t we have to wait a week to do a second ultrasound before scheduling the d and c.

Questions?

GTKY: What’s at the top of your bucket list?
we are moving to Boston in June! Moving back was actually the top of my list. I lived there for several years and left in my mid twenties (priced out.)

stashattack · March 2023

@charmedlifex3 Congrats on the move back to the east coast! I'm so sorry about you loss and the loss of your MIL. That's so hard. I hope you can get your d&c soon so you can be closer to closure.

maggiemadeit · March 2023

@charmedlifex3 I’m so sorry for the loss of your baby and your mother in law. That’s a lot to be grieving all at once. The waiting is so hard, and walking around still pregnant with an unviable pregnancy is a special kind of hell. Whatever the conclusion, I hope that it happens quickly so that you can start to move forward. Sending you lots of love and support.

(Unrelated, but I moved from Boston to the cape a few years ago, so hi soon-to-be neighbor 👋🏼)

charmedlifex3 · March 2023

Labs confirmed the loss today. I’m just “glad” there isn’t anything else going on to leave us in limbo longer.

stashattack · March 2023

I'm so sorry. It feels better to have that closure and be out of limbo but the news always sucks.

virginiaham · March 2023

@charmedlifex3 I’m so sorry for your loss, and for the loss of your MIL and feeling so physically awful through this. I hope the hyperemesis eases up quickly.

charmedlifex3 · March 2023

It’s done. Hopefully healing is next.

And my job fired me today for exhausting my FMLA leave (my daughter has a rare disease) - I was planning on quitting next week, so this isn’t a tragedy (in fact - now o can collect unemployment) but it’s just really awful of them. Like. Who does that?

maggiemadeit · March 2023

@charmedlifex3 I’m glad you have it behind you and I hope it brings you some peace and an avenue ti move forward when you’re ready.

And excuse my language here, but honestly that’s fucking cold. I don’t know your industry or employer, but they are a POS. Collect that unemployment but also maybe consult a lawyer because that seems not only unethical but illegal.

charmedlifex3 · March 2023

@maggiemadeit exactly! Like I’m not actually sad about losing my job, but I’m angry about HOW a they did it.

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