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TFAS w/o 3/6

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What number are you trying for?

Month/Cycle?

WTO/TWW?

Ages of other child(ren)?

Any thoughts about this cycle?

Any questions?

Rant/Rave?

GTKY: If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you pick?

Re: TFAS w/o 3/6

  • What number are you trying for? 3, but first two are adopted/being adopted

    Month/Cycle? 4/3

    WTO/TWW? TWW

    Ages of other child(ren)? 4 and 5

    Any thoughts about this cycle? Good timing, but no EWCM so we’ll see. I forgot to test today, so I’ll test tomorrow.

    Any questions? Nope

    Rant/Rave? My 5 year old has been having sleep issues, so we got him a fit bit to track his sleep and he’s been consistently waking up at 4am and not falling back asleep at all. So fun.

    GTKY: If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you pick?
    H and I love the mountains, but I hate driving so I’d need great walkability and public transit. I’d probably pick Switzerland.
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  • What number are you trying for? 2

    Month/Cycle 6/4

    WTO/TWW? TWW

    Ages of other child(ren)? 3

    Any thoughts about this cycle? Meh. #1 is patient 0 for a head cold and has lovingly shared it with both Lucas and I. Sooo I doubt anything is gonna happen

    Any questions? None

    Rant/Rave? In one of the TTC Reddit groups someone got sent two tempdrops by accident and I managed to snag one. I just have to pay shipping! So I guess I'll be joining the BBT crowd. 

    GTKY: If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you pick? I used to say by the beach but honestly now I just want a couple of acres somewhere in zones 6-8 and I'll be happy
    PG #1: 36w5d 12/25/19
    PG #2: EDD 8/15/23 Miscarried 9w1d 1/11/23
    PG #3: EDD 12/15/23
  • What number are you trying for? #4

    Month/Cycle? 14 (EW)/Natural Cycle 3

    WTO/TWW? WTO (Probs today)

    Ages of other child(ren)? 10, 8, and 5

    Any thoughts about this cycle? Just Keep Swimming! Come on little dorys that can swim you can do it!

    Any questions? Nope

    Rant/Rave? Did I tell my 8 year old if she wanted mommy to have another baby she needed to sleep in her own room. I did. My son knows how baby's are made so he laughed at her. 

    GTKY: If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you pick?

    We lived in Hawaii for 3.5 years and loved it minus being unable to go anywhere. We talk about living in Texas a lot but I don't want to live in such a conservative state. I want to live somewhere warm without Hurricanes. 
    Spoiler for History 

    Me - 30 DH - 32

    April 2009 - 8+ week MC
    January 2012 - BFP - DS Born 10/21/2012
    May 2013 - BFP - Twins MMC @ 13 weeks D&C
    Oct 2013 -  BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Dec 2013 -  BFP  DD Born 8/16/14 - Cholestasis at 36+5
    Nov 2016 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Dec 2016 - BFP  DD Born 6/19/17 @ 28+4 Severe Pre-E, IUGR, Cholestasis 
    Nov 2017 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Jan 2017 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Jan 2019 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    DH Vasectomy Aug 2019
    Feb 2022 - TTC #4 with IVF - RPL testing
    Protein C and S Deficiency - Blood Thinners for Treatment - Maybe we don't know!
    June 2022 - IVF - 2 embryos - 1 transferred 6/22/22 - Transfer Failed
    July 2022 - FET - cancelled
    Dec 2022 - Vasectomy reversal
    June 2023 - DH diagnosed with Brain Tumor - TTC put on indefinite hold
    January 2025 - Surprise BFP! Due 9/13/2025 - CP
    January 2025 - Trying Again



  • @britters314 we've had issues with kiddos waking up at 4 am and not going back to sleep its garbage. 

    @stashattack I keep seeing temp drop adds all the time and I am so interested. But also poor and knowing why I can't TTC, I got no control over the swimmers. 
    Spoiler for History 

    Me - 30 DH - 32

    April 2009 - 8+ week MC
    January 2012 - BFP - DS Born 10/21/2012
    May 2013 - BFP - Twins MMC @ 13 weeks D&C
    Oct 2013 -  BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Dec 2013 -  BFP  DD Born 8/16/14 - Cholestasis at 36+5
    Nov 2016 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Dec 2016 - BFP  DD Born 6/19/17 @ 28+4 Severe Pre-E, IUGR, Cholestasis 
    Nov 2017 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Jan 2017 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Jan 2019 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    DH Vasectomy Aug 2019
    Feb 2022 - TTC #4 with IVF - RPL testing
    Protein C and S Deficiency - Blood Thinners for Treatment - Maybe we don't know!
    June 2022 - IVF - 2 embryos - 1 transferred 6/22/22 - Transfer Failed
    July 2022 - FET - cancelled
    Dec 2022 - Vasectomy reversal
    June 2023 - DH diagnosed with Brain Tumor - TTC put on indefinite hold
    January 2025 - Surprise BFP! Due 9/13/2025 - CP
    January 2025 - Trying Again



  • What number are you trying for?  2

    Month/Cycle?  3/4

    WTO/TWW?  TWW (5 dpo)

    Ages of other child(ren)?  2.5.  Potty training is NOT fun.

    Any thoughts about this cycle?  Just trying to hold it together.  This week, our daughter's day care is closed for 3 out of 5 days (in a university town, spring break is a BIG deal), my chiropractor's office is closed until Friday (see above), our attempts to potty-train our daughter are failing miserably (she loves the peanut butter M&Ms we give her when she sits on the potty, but refuses to go in it even when offered more of said M&Ms if she does, at the cost of a major bowel accident this afternoon) - and this while I'm transitioning off of my anti-anxiety meds because it's better to be off them in case I get pregnant.  Somehow, we still managed to BD on my 3 most fertile days.  I have no idea how.

    Any questions?  No.

    Rant/Rave?  See above.

    GTKY:  If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you pick?  United Kingdom, no questions asked.  I'm a proud American, but also the kind of lifelong Anglophile who was glued to the TV when the late Queen died last year - and wrote my 11th-grade English term paper about her!
  • What number are you trying for? 3

    Month/Cycle? 3/2

    WTO/TWW? WTO 

    Ages of other child(ren)? 4, 1.75

    Any thoughts about this cycle?  Hopeful! 

    Any questions? Nah

    Rant/Rave? Why must I set up an account over the phone then sign the document saying I agree to receive all communication electronically? Just let me sign up online, people! 

    GTKY: If you could live anywhere in the world, where would you pick? New Zealand! Went for a visit once and would loooove to go back. 

    @britters314 4am wakeups are the worst! Hope you get something sorted soon.

    @stashattack love that you specify your preferred zones. Finally have a place with some garden space and I’m so excited, but also overwhelmed! 

    @mambo5-2 that is hilarious! 

    @geekprincess26 good luck this week! That sounds like a lot! 
  • @geekprincess26 When we potty trained my younger kiddo, we did the method where you have them stripped from the waist down and if you see them start to pee, rush them to the potty. It definitely helped him make the association quicker. Maybe that would work for your daughter?
  • @geekprincess26 potty train like mambo, mambo doesn't potty train early. All my kids were like magically potty trained at 3. Poof MAGIC. My youngest kid we took on vacation and she potty trained herself there. 

    Regarding anxiety meds, there are types you can take while pregnant. If you need them, I truly believe that there can be such a huge benefit to them. Mambo has the anxiety, she needs the meds. 
    Spoiler for History 

    Me - 30 DH - 32

    April 2009 - 8+ week MC
    January 2012 - BFP - DS Born 10/21/2012
    May 2013 - BFP - Twins MMC @ 13 weeks D&C
    Oct 2013 -  BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Dec 2013 -  BFP  DD Born 8/16/14 - Cholestasis at 36+5
    Nov 2016 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Dec 2016 - BFP  DD Born 6/19/17 @ 28+4 Severe Pre-E, IUGR, Cholestasis 
    Nov 2017 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Jan 2017 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    Jan 2019 - BFP MC @ 6 weeks
    DH Vasectomy Aug 2019
    Feb 2022 - TTC #4 with IVF - RPL testing
    Protein C and S Deficiency - Blood Thinners for Treatment - Maybe we don't know!
    June 2022 - IVF - 2 embryos - 1 transferred 6/22/22 - Transfer Failed
    July 2022 - FET - cancelled
    Dec 2022 - Vasectomy reversal
    June 2023 - DH diagnosed with Brain Tumor - TTC put on indefinite hold
    January 2025 - Surprise BFP! Due 9/13/2025 - CP
    January 2025 - Trying Again



  • @britters314 Yes, I've heard of that method, and we actually did it today with our daughter.  Still no success, but we're going to keep at it and update her day care teachers on the situation so they can (we hope) give her extra potty time over the next couple of weeks.

    @mambo5-2 Ha!  Your post reminded me of what I said to my husband earlier today, which is that I'm sure she'll be trained by 3 or so.  We realize it may take a while, but she clearly understands what's going on, and I think that she just needs to get over her natural fear of changes in her routine.  At that point, I think it will click for her. 

    I'm actually doing OK today after 3 days without my anti-anxiety meds, which is the longest I've gone yet without it, so FX I'm over the worst of the transition.  If I need to, I know I can set up a telemedicine appointment with my doctor to try a different drug.

    AFM, I spotted today, which is highly unusual for me since I'm only at 7 dpo.  I got a bit excited about the possibility of implantation bleeding until I reviewed my prior charts on FF and discovered that I'd spotted at about the same point in another cycle in 2019, and I didn't get pregnant during that cycle.  Darn.  Maybe I'll be able to come back later and eat my words.
  • @geekprincess26 Yeah it took a couple days of that for our kiddo, but we did it during the COVID lockdowns, so it’s not like we had anything else to do lol
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