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nicademus20
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Unhappy relationship, new baby
nicademus20
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My boyfriend is an asshole sometimes. Unfortunately it wasn't as clear until the baby came and he helped a tiny bit which quickly came to not at all, and picked up slightly so he "doesn't have to hear it".
He's the best of the worst relationships I've had.
It was worse being single and dating.
I was single for 11 years before meeting him, and would only go on one date a year because the boyfriend before all that was the worst of the worst.
So it is hard, extremely hard, to convince myself to be out there again. Especially as this one isn't that bad, just an asshole, sometimes.
I hope my boyfriend doesn't give relationship advice to anyone. I am insecure, and having a particular bad time. I needed reassurance that he wants me more than this other woman. His solution was tell me to leave or get over it.
"Your woman wants to know you love her most and want her more. Tell her to get out, that ought to be all the reassurance she needs" Hahahaha
I don't know what I want with this post.
I think just laughs. Lets share something funny/amusing in our shitty, or sometimes shitty relationships.
I don't want my little one (nearly 7 months) to know this is how it is.
I will let him see the good sides of us both.
It isn't fun sometimes. Shall we chat about it?
He's the best of the worst relationships I've had.
It was worse being single and dating.
I was single for 11 years before meeting him, and would only go on one date a year because the boyfriend before all that was the worst of the worst.
So it is hard, extremely hard, to convince myself to be out there again. Especially as this one isn't that bad, just an asshole, sometimes.
I hope my boyfriend doesn't give relationship advice to anyone. I am insecure, and having a particular bad time. I needed reassurance that he wants me more than this other woman. His solution was tell me to leave or get over it.
"Your woman wants to know you love her most and want her more. Tell her to get out, that ought to be all the reassurance she needs" Hahahaha
I don't know what I want with this post.
I think just laughs. Lets share something funny/amusing in our shitty, or sometimes shitty relationships.
I don't want my little one (nearly 7 months) to know this is how it is.
I will let him see the good sides of us both.
It isn't fun sometimes. Shall we chat about it?
Re: Unhappy relationship, new baby
I asked to be held to sleep because over the last 4 years (almost) I've enjoyed that and gotten used to sleeping with him beside me.
For every good time, and was the majority of time.
So it is difficult tonight.
One of those "I hope he doesn't give relationship advice" hahaha
"When your woman wants to know she still matters to you, tell her nothing at all. Don't even make eye contact. Be mysterious and keep her guessing".
Haha
I hope everyone is having a better night. Please hug your loved one. For every good time, which is hopefully the majority of times.
I have one week left of the pills.
I want to take advantage of this.
I said to him, knowing that he is still being cold to me, I said "I miss being sexual with you"
To which I got a grunt as he continued to look for a youtube video to watch.
That was hours ago now.
I will share what I jokingly think his relationship advice will be with this: "If your woman believes she is sexy and feeling frisky, let her know you're not interested. This will upset her so that when you want it, she'll be super stoked to see that you want her".
In other words too:
"Let the confidence in her disappear so that when you are in the mood she'll be extra ready to put out".
So his solution was to get rid of me.
So his relationship advice would be "When your woman you love wants to know how much she matters, dump her. This will keep the relationship suspenseful and she'll cry to come back because now she feels extra like noone wants her".
I was having an extra rough amount of stress and was upset as I began work again, it was supposed to be my second shift today. I work in customer service and he broke up with me last night around 7pm and I was to begin my second shift at 8am. I called in sick at 5:30am crying saying I can't "be happy for customers today".
His advice was to "Go anyways and be an adult". So in customer service you have to be somewhat in the mood to smile, you can't fake it all shift and I have already cried infront of customers after a beloved pet died that day.
So, to him, I was suppsed to smile while the whole family life I had worked towards fell apart! Great advice man, good job.
"When she doesn't act like a cold hearted beast, tell her to act like a cold hearted beast. That is being an adult. Make sure she knows you mean it by showing her how it's done".