A Cantaloupe or a banana and baby can now hear my voice and get started by loud noises!
Upcoming appointments:
Tomorrow for my anatomy scan 🥳
How are you feeling:
Pretty good, my not gaining any weight streak ran out and I gained 8 pounds last appointment which is annoying but not a big deal. I think I'm going to do an early glucose test before I move and so my normal anxiety I'll fail has moved up in importance the past few days. I've never failed a glucose test before but I don't know if it means I can't go to a birth center in Oregon so I desperately don't want want to fail.
Rants / Raves:
I scored a name brand bag for my birth/two little kids diaper/adventure bag this morning for less than a third of retail 🥳 My partner thought our current lease was up in March so he he scheduled our new move in date for March 7 only to later find out our current lease is actually up on February 28 sooo I guess we will stay in a hotel for a week between moving out and moving in, I hope that's the last unexpected hassle that comes up, I would like %60 less stress in my life.
Questions:
Anybody doing anything fun with the extra day this weekend? I started doing some pre packing purging
GTKY: do you have any hobbies/collections/special interests? I collect baby carriers, I used to sew historical costumes for a hobby but I haven't got back into it since becoming a mom. I also grow tons of houseplants and grow a patio garden every year, growing roses and learning how to weave are longtime interests of mine.
Estimated Due Date / Weeks + Days: EDD 6/23, 17w3d
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Boy/Girl/Surprise: Girl
Interesting baby fact / Baby is the size of: I forgot again! I never remember lol.
Upcoming appointments: A bunch of appts in early Feb for regular OB, anatomy scan, 2hr glucose, and endocrinology if the GTT shows GD.
How are you feeling: Mostly ok! On day 3 of metrogel for a BV infection, which is not super fun for my vagina.
Rants / Raves:
Questions:
GTKY: do you have any hobbies/collections/special interests? I was a competitive figure skater for most of my life, although I haven't skated regularly in years now. I collect teas and cookbooks.
Next Thursday is anatomy scan, and Thursday after is my next prenatal appt. Unrelated to baby (technically) but I have an eye appointment for next Wednesday and I could not be more relieved/thrilled to finally have one scheduled. My vision deteriorates pretty bad with each pregnancy and I'm getting to the point where my glasses, while better than nothing, aren't really cutting it anymore.
How are you feeling:
Pretty good! Some unfun symptoms like headaches, midnight leg cramps 😵💫, and general brain fog are keeping me company. But mostly I'm doing okay, vomit way less, have enough energy most days, and if I'm careful with my thoughts I don't get too anxious. And I've been feeling baby move more/slightly stronger!
Rants / Raves:
I just want to know if we're having a boy or a girl so bad. Still NO dreams or any sort of instinct one way or another. I know other people's guesses have probably clouded my judgment and made it hard for me to listen to my gut on it. I'll hold myself to making a final guess next Wednesday night/Thursday morning before the scan just to see!
Questions:
Anyone have any nursing tanks/clothes/brands they love? I have a couple of target's Auden brand tanks that I really like but I know I'm going to need more soon and ideally some that would be workable for maternity AND postpartum
GTKY: do you have any hobbies/collections/special interests?
Hmm, I've been doing some embroidery here and there as a hobby, and thinking of combining with my hand lettering hobby and embroidering a muslin baby blanket/swaddle for the baby once we choose a name!
@kalesix3 I wanna know what you're having so bad!! Hope your anatomy scan goes great tomorrow and nobody slips up with the gender (even though I would love to know) 🩶
Interesting baby fact / Baby is the size of: turnip
Upcoming appointments: diabetes nurse Wednesday, MFM Friday for a cervix check
How are you feeling: Sick, again, ugh.
Rants / Raves: This baby will never have a name.
Questions:
GTKY: do you have any hobbies/collections/special interests? I tend to jump from hobby to hobby, lol. Mostly I like being outdoors and learning how to make things.
Interesting baby fact / Baby is the size of: artichoke
Upcoming appointments: had appointment today, anatomy scan is on the 27th. Found out today I will get extra ultrasounds toward the end of pregnancy bc I’m old! So that’s exciting.
How are you feeling: mostly good, headaches and heartburn are killing me, but got a prescription for that today we will if it helps.
Rants / Raves: I went bowling 🎳 yesterday with family as a Christmas gift. My knee is killing me today, I might need to look into a knee replacement or something bc this is ridiculous.
Questions:
None this week.
GTKY: do you have any hobbies/collections/special interests?
I used to do a lot of scrapbooking, but don’t really have time right now. I also like to crochet and plan to make a baby blanket soon I just cant decide on a color combo. I made my first son blue and yellow, second son green and yellow, third son blue and white, maybe this bundle of boy will get blue and green?
@thescarletmom I think I know exactly what you mean about clouding your instincts! I want to know what you are having so badly too! I can't wait till next week! After we all stopped talking about it on here I had a ton of dreams including an extremely realistic labor dream that had so many things in it that made sense, and they're all girl dreams so we'll see what my intuition says further along! I love the idea of embroidering a blanket so much!! I would love to see what you make if you're comfortable sharing! I wanted to get back into embroidering last year and never did, I stitched an old fashioned sampler when I was younger and always wanted to learn the fancy stitches and techniques! Eta and thank you so much for the good vibes! I hope it's a healthy baby 🤞🏻
Estimated Due Date / Weeks + Days: June 24, 17 weeks 3 days
FTM/STM/STM+: 3rd!
Team Boy/Girl/Surprise: we would love a boy… our anatomy scan is early Feb.
Interesting baby fact / Baby is the size of: this week is a pomegranate I think. Cute!
Upcoming appointments: next appointment is my scan on Feb 9. Feels so far away right now!
How are you feeling: depends on the day honestly. Still super gaggy which is wildly annoying. But nausea is mostly gone and energy is returning. Hallelujah!!
Rants / Raves: through a random series of events, I find myself without a gym for the first time in 3 years and I’m struggling! There are really not a ton of options near me and I’m having a hard time swallowing a 20 min drive just for an hour of working out. But my body is craving some movement and I really miss the community. Hoping for a miracle at this point. DH keeps telling me I should just open my own since there is nothing really in my area haha
Questions: guys, I am terrible at using the Doppler on myself. Any tips? I’m still not really feeling movement so I can’t really go off that.. so I’m kind of just going in blind.
GTKY: do you have any hobbies/collections/special interests? Oh so many. I am a collector of hobbies lol. I love to sew, crochet and knit. I’m a big reader and love music, I play piano and sing. I also love love writing and leading guided meditations. My goal this year is to do a sound healing training and start offering that as well. I’ve been a boxing coach for the last two years and a birth doula for 3. I also recently discovered a love for hand lettering, but I’m still pretty terrible at that. I will literally try anything! I love new hobbies.
@bridgettetheboxer re doppler can you find some videos on YouTube that teach belly mapping so you can find the baby and know exactly where to place the Doppler? I've never used one on myself personally but I almost always tell the midwives where baby is so they don't have to search for the heartbeat as much. That's my only advice, I hope it gets easier with practice and I hope you feel movement soon, is it possible to ask for a peace of mind ultrasound since your anatomy scan is so far away ?
@kalesix3 I feel so silly because I’ve belly mapped before and on clients occasionally too. I think it’s possible my placenta is in front this time around? But still unsure. I actually was anxious and saw my midwife for a peace of mind ultrasound last night. Baby looks great and is moving all over! She gave me the Doppler so I could use it if I do feel anxious again and I’m just feeling so silly that I can’t figure it out. Haha. I maybe just need to be patient and wait for a few weeks for the babe to grow.
@bridgettetheboxer oh I'm glad you got some reassurance, I know my mind was racing constantly with what ifs when I couldn't feel the baby consistently or at all. Just keep trying with the Doppler and I'm sure you'll crush the learning curve! But I get it, the patience game in pregnancy is so hard sometimes. You can figure out if the placenta is in the front with the Doppler too if you want to, placenta sounds like a deeper swooshy heartbeat (that's the best way I can describe it) I use a fetoscope at home to find placenta and the baby's heartbeat but you can't use it until closer to 20 weeks. I think @ReadyForaB has her own Doppler too though, maybe she has more tips!
Estimated Due Date / Weeks + Days: 19 weeks 3 days
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Boy/Girl/Surprise: Team Girl
Interesting baby fact / Baby is the size of: as tall as a jar of peanut butter - ha!
Upcoming appointments: Next Wednesday, the 20 week anatomy scan. Assuming all is still well, it's a repeat of an early 16 week scan. But baby was moving so much they couldn't get all the photos they needed.
How are you feeling: Physically ok. I basically just hang out with butterflies (baby movements) in my belly throughout the day now, it's pretty cool. Also, the pregnancy pillow I bought and used for the first time last night - life changing!
Rants / Raves: Raves - feeling baby move throughout the day. I can't wait till I can feel her on the outside!
Questions:
GTKY: do you have any hobbies/collections/special interests? Special interests - the feminism of the 1960s and 70s second wave! That group was part of my dissertation on separatist womyn's spaces and I just think they're the coolest. The Radicalesbians are probably my favorite group! Even just the first sentence of their manefesto - The Woman Identified Woman - is so in your face! I'm not as radical as they were, but just the *pow* of it all I think is so great! I also appreciate the street theater of the WITCH (Women's International Terrorist Conspiracy from Hell) group where the women would dress as witches and run up and down Wall Street hexing the men that worked there - ha!
@bridgettetheboxer Yes, I have my own and I love using it. What you need to do is pick a spot and check all angles from that one spot, if that makes sense. Like put the doppler down and then just push it all around in a circle angling it different ways all the way around. If nothing, then move it. At 17 weeks you should be able to pick up the HB from multiple spots just angling it the right way so it doesn't have to be exact.
TTC History:
Started dating DH 2006 . Married 2015
TTC July 2015-November 2015
BFP November 2015 Baby boy born August 2016
Oops BFP February 2021 MMC March 2021
Back on BC for a year to decide what we want to do.
Interesting baby fact / Baby is the size of: Artichoke?
Upcoming appointments:
Anatomy scan at mfm tomorrow. Super nervous about it.
How are you feeling:
I am feeling really good. Ready to get tomorrow over with.
Rants / Raves:
Rant. We still have not found a name for baby. My husband likes the name Parker but he’s worried it’s more of a girl’s name now days. I have given up completely because nothing sounds right.
Questions:
Anyone else dealing with some major cravings yet? My craving disgusts me but I also had it with my daughter too and I cannot get enough. All I want is a meatball sub from subway. When I’m not pregnant I don’t want it at all which is so weird to me.
GTKY: do you have any hobbies/collections/special interests?
I am too all over the place to stick with one interest or hobby.. so no not at this time lol
@francesgs good luck with your anatomy scan tomorrow! I wasn't nervous about mine until recently and now I feel like I'll go nuts waiting for next Thursday. I feel the baby kicking and squirming quite a lot now, and I don't necessarily think there's something wrong, but I am sooo anxious. I just need to see that everything is perfect and find out what we're having so we can pick a damn name haha. With two boys already, I'm worried about naming this baby if it's a boy too. I don't feel hopeless yet... but a lil stressed haha.
Estimated Due Date / Weeks + Days: 6/8, 19w 6 days
FTM/STM/STM+: third time
Team Boy/Girl/Surprise: Boy
Interesting baby fact / Baby is the size of: a mango
Upcoming appointments: anatomy scan next Thursday.
How are you feeling: not too bad. Just exhausted.
Rants / Raves: I'm feeling baby more and more each day and it's really putting my anxiety at ease. I'm super anxious for the anatomy scan- we've only had 1 super early scan at 7 weeks, so I feel like this is basically the first time we're going to get a good look at him. Just trying to focus on being positive and excited
Questions:
GTKY: do you have any hobbies/collections/special interests? I was very involved in martial arts, specifically Muay Thai kickboxing prior to moving and having kids. I love cooking and all types of crafting. I'm getting more into herbalism.
Interesting baby fact: well I showed my mom the bumps 3d image of what baby looks like this week and she said "oh wow that's really a whole ass baby now!" So there's my milestone I guess lmao
Upcoming appts: couple weeks from now. Just had one last Friday and still feel pissed about the midwife telling me to stop gaining so much weight.
How are you feeling: actually pretty good. I've had more energy lately, I'm actually keeping up right now with everything. My house, my workouts, and things that make me happy. It's been nice. Heartburn I could do without...
Rants/raves: I wish I could feel more energized to do work at work lmao. I've been eager to accomplish everything in my personal life but nothing at work!
Questions:
Gtky: jiu jitsu up until I got pregnant. I really look forward to getting back at it. I also love cooking. Some days it feels like a chore, but typically I do love cooking. I've been trying to become a better baker! I love just planning in general and love to be on pinterest getting ideas for things.
@francesgs good luck with your scan tomorrow and I hope it goes perfectly! I was the same as @thescarletmom last week just counting down the days getting more stressed by the minute. It's such a relief to have it over with at least. I'll be crossing my fingers for all of you waiting on yours the next couple of weeks 🤞🏻🤞🏻
So since I ended up going to term last time, the MFM I talked to doesn’t think I’m high risk of early delivery despite a pretty short cervix. So we are doing watch and wait-I’m just getting progesterone and bumping cervical checks up to weekly.
Re: Weekly Check-in 1/16
I think I'm going to do an early glucose test before I move and so my normal anxiety I'll fail has moved up in importance the past few days. I've never failed a glucose test before but I don't know if it means I can't go to a birth center in Oregon so I desperately don't want want to fail.
My partner thought our current lease was up in March so he he scheduled our new move in date for March 7 only to later find out our current lease is actually up on February 28 sooo I guess we will stay in a hotel for a week between moving out and moving in, I hope that's the last unexpected hassle that comes up, I would like %60 less stress in my life.
I collect baby carriers, I used to sew historical costumes for a hobby but I haven't got back into it since becoming a mom. I also grow tons of houseplants and grow a patio garden every year, growing roses and learning how to weave are longtime interests of mine.
artichoke
had appointment today, anatomy scan is on the 27th. Found out today I will get extra ultrasounds toward the end of pregnancy bc I’m old! So that’s exciting.
I used to do a lot of scrapbooking, but don’t really have time right now. I also like to crochet and plan to make a baby blanket soon I just cant decide on a color combo. I made my first son blue and yellow, second son green and yellow, third son blue and white, maybe this bundle of boy will get blue and green?
Eta and thank you so much for the good vibes! I hope it's a healthy baby 🤞🏻
You can figure out if the placenta is in the front with the Doppler too if you want to, placenta sounds like a deeper swooshy heartbeat (that's the best way I can describe it) I use a fetoscope at home to find placenta and the baby's heartbeat but you can't use it until closer to 20 weeks.
I think @ReadyForaB has her own Doppler too though, maybe she has more tips!
19 weeks 3 days
Special interests - the feminism of the 1960s and 70s second wave! That group was part of my dissertation on separatist womyn's spaces and I just think they're the coolest. The Radicalesbians are probably my favorite group! Even just the first sentence of their manefesto - The Woman Identified Woman - is so in your face! I'm not as radical as they were, but just the *pow* of it all I think is so great! I also appreciate the street theater of the WITCH (Women's International Terrorist Conspiracy from Hell) group where the women would dress as witches and run up and down Wall Street hexing the men that worked there - ha!
TTC July 2015-November 2015
Baby boy born August 2016
Oops BFP February 2021
MMC March 2021
Back on BC for a year to decide what we want to do.
TTC Since March 2022
MMC June 2022
BFP September 2022 - Due June 2023!
Estimated Due Date / Weeks + Days: June 19/18 wks
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Boy/Girl/Surprise: Boy
Interesting baby fact / Baby is the size of: Artichoke?
Upcoming appointments:
Anatomy scan at mfm tomorrow. Super nervous about it.
How are you feeling:
I am feeling really good. Ready to get tomorrow over with.
Rants / Raves:
Rant. We still have not found a name for baby. My husband likes the name Parker but he’s worried it’s more of a girl’s name now days. I have given up completely because nothing sounds right.
Questions:
Anyone else dealing with some major cravings yet? My craving disgusts me but I also had it with my daughter too and I cannot get enough. All I want is a meatball sub from subway. When I’m not pregnant I don’t want it at all which is so weird to me.
GTKY: do you have any hobbies/collections/special interests?
I am too all over the place to stick with one interest or hobby.. so no not at this time lol
Second time mom to our second boy
Interesting baby fact: well I showed my mom the bumps 3d image of what baby looks like this week and she said "oh wow that's really a whole ass baby now!" So there's my milestone I guess lmao
Upcoming appts: couple weeks from now. Just had one last Friday and still feel pissed about the midwife telling me to stop gaining so much weight.
How are you feeling: actually pretty good. I've had more energy lately, I'm actually keeping up right now with everything. My house, my workouts, and things that make me happy. It's been nice. Heartburn I could do without...
Rants/raves: I wish I could feel more energized to do work at work lmao. I've been eager to accomplish everything in my personal life but nothing at work!
Questions:
Gtky: jiu jitsu up until I got pregnant. I really look forward to getting back at it. I also love cooking. Some days it feels like a chore, but typically I do love cooking. I've been trying to become a better baker! I love just planning in general and love to be on pinterest getting ideas for things.
I was the same as @thescarletmom last week just counting down the days getting more stressed by the minute. It's such a relief to have it over with at least. I'll be crossing my fingers for all of you waiting on yours the next couple of weeks 🤞🏻🤞🏻