S(+)TMs: What brand(s)/specific monitors have you used? Give us the pros and cons of what you have. Just audio-visual or do you also play lullabies or talk to your babies? And in a larger sense, what were your guidelines and recommendations for choosing one? Range? Image quality? The attraction of WiFi-enabled apps on your phone? Connection security?
FTMs: What brands/specific monitors are you interested in? What functionalities are you looking for? What questions do you have?
Re: Product Spotlight: Baby Monitors
Its ok. The whole play lullaby/talk to your baby setting is not something we ever use. We have a white noise machine and talking through the monitor is not something that would soothe my son if he were upset. I like that it is connected to an app on my phone but it’s still not something I use regularly. I like that it tells you the room temperature, especially when he was really little. The video quality is fine but not great, especially in the dark. My son dropped the parent portion of the monitor in our cat water so that doesn’t work anymore unless plugged in so we are thinking of getting a new one. I’m trying to decide if we should get one with two cameras/split screens or just one new camera and use an audio only monitor, if anything, for my son. These are the two we are interested in
https://a.co/d/azlmhuT
https://www.wyze.com/products/wyze-cam
This isn’t specifically a baby monitor, it’s just a camera that uses wifi, but we use it as one.
Pros: Affordable and reliable, love that there’s no monitor, you just use your phone. It was great when I returned to work, I would spy on the baby from the office while he napped. It’s a no-frills camera and works great for us. We’ll get another one with new baby.
Cons: The app needs to be open on your phone in order for you to listen for cries or other sounds. We lived in a small apartment before, and now we live in a small house where you can hear a baby crying from every room, so that wasn’t an issue for us. All bedrooms are next to each other in our house so we wake up if there’s a loud sound from the other two rooms. If you have a large house, your bedrooms are on different floors or the walls are well insulated between rooms, this is not the camera for you. Edit: also, a lot of people don’t like wifi for security reasons, and if you have spotty wifi in your area it’ll get annoying.
DD born 4/1/2023
Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
What brand(s)/specific monitors have you used? We have used a hello baby monitor since my daughter was born.
Give us the pros and cons of what you have. I love it. It's simple and works great even 4 years later.
Just audio-visual or do you also play lullabies or talk to your babies? It does audio/visual and can play lullabies and talk to baby, though I found doing so usually agitates them more.
And in a larger sense, what were your guidelines and recommendations for choosing one? I just picked one that was highly rated on Amazon that was affordable. I also didn't want wifi or phone connectivity for security reasons.
Range? No clue
Image quality? Initially excellent, now definitely not as clear, but it's been 4 years so I forgive it.
The attraction of WiFi-enabled apps on your phone? Nope.
Connection security? I have heard horror stories of moms finding their kids talking to strangers through their monitors that are wifi enabled, and it freaked me out, so I will only use the old school kind.
We currently have a Motorola brand video monitor, as well as an "old school" style audio only monitor (maybe vtech brand? Can't recall but it was like $20 from Walmart).
-The Motorola audio/video monitor does play lullabies and we can use it to talk as well, but we never use either of those features. No app or anything so I just carry the monitor around with me when my son is napping. I picked this particular monitor bc it was supposed to have really good range, which I needed in order to be able to go outside during naptime to do farm chores. Well they lied lol the range is terrible and sometimes will beep telling me I'm out of range when I'm just downstairs 🙄 not sure if we will upgrade to a new monitor when baby comes.
-The audio only monitor is great and has fantastic range. I will sometimes use that during naptime if I need to go outside. We also bring this one when we travel bc it is small and then we don't need to worry about setting up a camera. I definitely wasn't comfortable using audio only though with a newborn and probably didn't use this one until my son was maybe a year old?
ETA: we bought the old school vetch one too from target when the OG stopped working and it is simple, yet effective (and handy for traveling)
TTC History
TTC#2
Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
DD born 4/1/2023
Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024