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Intro and ivf stress
kkbugg29
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Hi , everyone im Kristina. A little backstory we are 4 yrs into ttc after 3 rounds of iui we are just now starting ivf. We have various things working against us and we dont fit into any statistic categories. Im not sure about anyone elses dr or options but we only have 1 fertility clinic here and they only have 4 dr's. I dont particularly like my dr , or the clinic it always seems their first focus is how and when they get paid and all convos are short with a tone of i am annoying them and wasting their time. Idk what happened to the doctors that used to listen and care. Dr who used to explain things ahead of time not "you will recieve paperwork with your schedule when the time comes" im just really bummed out after being om the phone with them most of the day. We really wanted to transfer 2 frozen embryos but after talking with them we are only going to transfer one to avoid the headache of arguing with them. We just want a healthy baby. And i know i shouldnt dwell on ifs but i just have this feeling that wont go away this feeling like i shouldnt be hopeful.
Re: Intro and ivf stress
Hi Kristina, I'm sorry to hear about your struggles with TTC and the difficulties you're facing with your fertility clinic. It's understandable to feel frustrated and overwhelmed when dealing with such a challenging situation, especially when you're not receiving the level of care and attention you need from your healthcare providers.
It's important to remember that you have the right to be heard and to receive the best possible care from your doctors. If you're feeling like your concerns and questions are being dismissed, it might be helpful to consider finding a new fertility clinic or seeking a second opinion from another doctor.
Regarding your feelings of uncertainty and doubt, it's natural to feel anxious or hesitant about the outcome of IVF and the possibility of having a healthy baby. However, it's also important to stay positive and hopeful, as stress and negative emotions can have a negative impact on fertility. Take care of yourself, both physically and emotionally, during this challenging time. Seek support from friends, family, or a therapist if needed, and try to focus on the present moment rather than worrying about the future. Best of luck to you on your fertility journey.