This is a place for FTMs to ask questions and S+TMs to share the wealth of knowledge they've accumulated on baby products. Each week we'll spotlight a new category of product to help streamline and make it easier to refer back. This week it's....
Hospital/birth place bag essentials
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For S+TMs:
- If you're comfortable sharing, where have you birthed and where do you plan on birthing this pregnancy?
- Aspects that will affect your birth bag
- What are the essential items you want with you for your birth.
- What items have you brought with you and didn't need?
For FTMs
- What items are you interested in bringing?
- What questions do you have?
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Re: Product Spotlight: Hospital/Birth Bag Essentials
Since I didn't have a long stay, I didn't bring too much with me.
Must haves for mom and dad:
- food: even though I was allowed, I didn't eat at all. MW gave me a smoothie after baby was born and I had to drink it all. It was a labour smoothie, I have no idea what was in it. We did bring sandwiches and granola bars so husband eat.
- Electrolyte drink
- Change of clothes including bra and underwear. I was able to wear a dress last time but it will be too cold, so I'll be bringing comfy pants.
- lip balm
Must haves for baby:
- all I brought for her were two outfits, one was NB size the other was 0-3 months since I didn't know what would fit.
- Hat
- Blanket
Things I brought but didn't use
- essential oils. Although I would like to try to use them this time.
- personal care products for showering. I ended up just wanting to get home and showered at home instead.
Things I want to bring
- change of clothes for husband. We had an unfortunate scenario where I ended up bleeding all over him. They gave him a pair of scrubs to change into. My MW said that's the first and last time she put people in that position so hopefully it doesn't happen again, but just in case lol
- birth ball
- birth affirmations
- Aspects that will affect your birth bag
I hate the scratchy hospital gowns so prefer my own clothes once the birth is over.
- What are the essential items you want with you for your birth.
- What items have you brought with you and didn't need?
sensory input while feeling that pain, and once the epidural is placed I typically birth in under an hour. If things go how they have historically for me before, I’m planning a short labor, because I’ll get the epi a lot sooner.
Length of stay, c section.
- What are the essential items you want with you for your birth.
Hospital for #1 and will repeat for #2
Weather. We live in a cold environment so I'll need something somewhat adequate to go home in a snow storm in.
For birth: I used what the hospital had. I didn't want extra laundry from bloody birth clothes. I'm glad I brought a zipper baby swaddle because I just can't do the blanket swaddle. I also brought a paci because Baby friendly hospitals don't do offer them bc of "nipple confusion" which hasn't been proven a real thing by science and it reduces SIDS risks. I'm also glad I brought a nursing pillow. Regardless of how you feed, it's great for supporting your arms and body mechanics while holding baby.
For birth, I brought my own "clear liquids" since I knew the hospital chicken broth was gross. It was unnecessary but funny to see the bouillon in my birth photos🤣
July 4th
- Aspects that will affect your birth bag. I prefer my own stuff even if some is provided by the hospital.
- What are the essential items you want with you for your birth.
- I love my own robe. I hate the hospital gowns that I can wrap around myself 3x and are scratchy. A plain cheap robe from Walmart has always done the trick. I've gotten IVs, monitoring, epidurals, and even a c-section in it.
- My own toiletries. My hospital provides pads, mesh underwear, and spray, but that's it. So I bring my own hair stuff, body wash, etc. And then I prefer my own pads and underwear.
- A paci and swaddles for the baby. My hospital doesn't provide pacis, and I like my zippered swaddles over the blankets.
- My own comfy clothes, and my baby's clothes. I just feel more comfortable wearing my stuff, and I hate having the baby naked with just a blanket.
- What items have you brought with you and didn't need? I actually don't think I've ever over packed. I've under packed and had to get my husband and sister to pick up stuff for me.