Conversations been slow around here so thought maybe I'd start a thread and allow people to vent about holiday stresses! For those who celebrate Christmas, it is finally over. How did it go? Surprisingly it was really good for us! I was exhausted by the end of the night but hosting was a success! And my mother in law was only mildly annoying, so that's a win. My complaint is coming back to work today, we had a pipe burst over the weekend and the office is flooded. Yet I still have to be here. How did everyone else's Monday back to work go if you had to go back today?
Re: Monday bitch fest?
My rant is that my MIL bought the damn KitchenAid. And not just a regular size one but the giant professional one. My SO apologized saying that MIL went behind my back to him about it and he felt too bad to tell her I meant what I said.
Which is worse. I wouldn't be mad if she surprised me unexpectedly with one, it would be annoying because she should know by now we have no space, but what pisses me off is she went behind my back and deliberately did something I told her repeatedly not to.
I haven't opened up the box so I'll just chuck it in our storage unit and consider it a housewarming gift for someday when we find our house.
My SO came through big time though and got me so many amazing gifts that were so special and exactly what I wanted so my Christmas wasn't ruined entirely but it sucks to be so disrespected.
Her Christmas was ruined because a lesbian couple in the family that she hates got engaged on Christmas and because she's homophobic trash she got mad and has to start spouting religious nonsense to make herself feel better. What a wonderful life she must lead being so hateful all the time.
@kalesix3 I have a mother in law like that! I try not to sound like a spoiled brat when I complain about her over the top gestures but grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!!!!!!! My most recent story with her is that I specifically told her not to buy my son pokemon cards bc we got him a ton for Christmas. She watched him like a week before Christmas and my husband got home before me and texted me "don't get him any more pokemon cards, my mom bought him like 500". She took him to target a week before Christmas and got him 500 pokemon cards!!!! I was FUMING. Why do they feel the need to do these things?!
TTC July 2015-November 2015
Baby boy born August 2016
Oops BFP February 2021
MMC March 2021
Back on BC for a year to decide what we want to do.
TTC Since March 2022
MMC June 2022
BFP September 2022 - Due June 2023!
So whenever I’m around my parents they just ignore the pregnancy and it feels like
the elephant in the room that we aren’t allowed to acknowledge. Which gets super awkward when my kids talk about the baby and my parent pretend they didn’t hear. 🙄
FWIW I did still have blood sugar issues after my first, but they went away after my second. However, the way my diabetes has presented has even different in each pregnancy seems to indicate a progression towards real diabetes.
TTC July 2015-November 2015
Baby boy born August 2016
Oops BFP February 2021
MMC March 2021
Back on BC for a year to decide what we want to do.
TTC Since March 2022
MMC June 2022
BFP September 2022 - Due June 2023!
@thescarletmom I'm so sad for your cousin. If I were her I guess I would be cutting everyone out of my life who thought my identity was something to disagree with. I'm so upset for her, that's exactly why the suicide rate for trans people is so high, shit like that. Would it kill people to be supportive of something that literally doesn't hurt them? Ugh.
@pttomato it's a huge fear of mine to be told that, especially by someone who's supposed to be supportive of you. I'm so sad that your dad would treat you that way and make you feel worse about a situation you didn't choose and isn't your fault. Ugh.
@kalesix3 I would have flipped out on my mil on the spit for freaking sure. I cannot stand that. @thescarletmom same situation for you! What is with people?? @pttomato I'm so sorry to hear how your family is reacting to your pregnancy. That's such a dick move. Planned or not, you did make a choice to keep and love this baby no matter what and THAT is the choice you made. Why should you be ridiculed for that? I'm so sorry.
I second the discussion about gift giving. I asked for people to gift my son experiences this year rather than gifts and most people listened. I was so grateful for that. He ended up with several gifts, but nothing that was a total waste!
@pttomato what the hell??? Your husband can get a vasectomy after you've carried and birthed all the children. And if he's on board with that, what's her issue?
I didn’t feel too horribly sick and I think this might have been the first year I was actually glad I’ve never celebrated Christmas with gifts. I wasn’t raised with it and my husband actually ended up deciding the same thing, which I was fine with but a little disappointed because as a kid I always felt so left out. My parents were extremely dramatic about it, to the point where they won’t say Merry Christmas back to people and I felt like an alien family.