Hi people, first time pregnant. 9 weeks and I have a bump, and I don't just mean a bloating bump, its big enough for people to ask me if I'm 6/7 months gone?! My partner, friends and family all say i look 3rd trimester pregnant. I look huge. I've had significant symptoms, my breasts have gone from DDs to Fs in a few weeks and are super sore. I'm constantly exhausted and nauseous to a point where I'm having 2-3 hour naps everyday.
With the size of my 'bump' and significant symptoms I'm worried I could be having twins/multiples or maybe I got my dates really wrong (but I did have a period albeit a light 3 day one 9/10 weeks ago).
Any advice please? My app with midwives is Dec 28th and scan won't be until a few weeks after that so like at 13/14 weeks, I want it sooner to know what's going on.
Re: 9 weeks- advice please! Multiples?!
Even if you are wrong on your dates and are really around 13 weeks, your uterus would *just* be peeking above your pubic bone at this point. I promise it’s bloat.
But again, thankyou. It really is wild. I don't think I appreciated how difficult pregnancy is or can be for women until I'm now in it!
I had people tell me I looked small as well as ready to pop any day now when I was in my 3rd trimester. I personally didn't feel my bump was that big but in pictures it did. Everybody carries differently!
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26