April 2023 Moms

Product Spotlight: Maternity Clothes

S+TMs:
-Are there any maternity clothes you can’t live without?
-Do you have a favorite store/brand/website to buy from?

Re: Product Spotlight: Maternity Clothes

  • Ok I am NO help here so just gonna follow along for everyone else's recommendations 😆
    I really like wearing "real" pants/jeans and struggled a lot with maternity pants. I do not like maternity pants with the band that goes all the way up over your belly, it always felt so uncomfortable and suffocating to me....but all other pants fell down on me and I felt like I was constantly hiking them up so my butt didn't hang out 
  • Looks like the mat clothes game has changed since last time I was pregnant! I need to get my old stuff out of storage soon, but I already bought a few more things. Motherhood Maternity was my go-to last time but I just went on their website and literally nothing looks good currently so I dunno! Bought joggers and leggings from GAP and they seem fine.

    I’m a fan of clothes that work both preg and pp. Flowy tops that are nursing tops after birth, jackets with a triangle maternity panel that flips upside down so you can wear a baby carrier underneath, etc. 

    General tips since I don’t have a brand I love: buy from ThredUP, since it’s second hand it’s way cheaper. Some expensive brands don’t live up to their price tag, Blanqi comes to mind. Bought a pair of pp leggings from them last time around and while comfy, they pilled like crazy, stretched and looked horrible after just a couple washes. 
    DS born 2/18/2019
    DD born 4/1/2023
    Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
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  • @etnyah I definitely second buying secondhand!! I got 95% of my maternity wardrobe secondhand last time---either hand me downs from my sister and SIL, from a local consignment store, FB marketplace and Mercari
  • I didn’t buy too many maternity clothes last time. Most of what I bought was from Old Navy. I did get a maternity stitch fix and liked the pants. I also used the Bella Band over my regular jeans/pants for work. I have a pair of non maternity pants with an elastic waist that I think will be great from UpWest. All of their clothes are already sooo comfortable. My favorite maternity item I had was a pair of modal pajama pants from Gap. I let my best friend borrow them during her last pregnancy so I’ll be needing to get them back soon. 
  • Oh also adding: depending on your pre-preg wardrobe, you’ll be surprised at how many things might fit all pregnancy! If you’re into skin tight clothes probably not, but roomy sweaters and dresses? Probably! I have one dress in particular I wore all the time for years, it’s loose fitting and stretchy and I actually wore it all the way up until birth. Literally, I wore it when we went to the hospital. Here it is with a 6 month bump.


    And borrow your husband’s hoodies. You need them more than he does. 
    DS born 2/18/2019
    DD born 4/1/2023
    Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
  • I signed up for thredUP! I'd looked into it before, but never pulled the trigger. 
    I have been buying a bunch of stuff on Poshmark (I like designer stuff at a fraction of the cost), and a few things from some of the designer brands I'd discovered that way (mostly dresses that'll work post-partum). Plus, I loaded up on Kindred Bravely bras and I cannot recommend them enough. My boobies are so big and heavy now...
    MY CHART
    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 40.5; MH: 39 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • @acleverusername I think I have a couple kindred bravely bras from last time, they’re solid! Just got my Aerie bras as well, haven’t tried them on yet because I’m still sick as a dog, but once I feel better I will. I was just happy to get them for fairly cheap.

    Nursing bras and camis, while I know those are more pp and not mat, do splurge. Or get the expensive brands on sale. Cheap stuff like gap do not hold up. There is SO much movement with the boob flaps being pulled up and down multiple times a day, you need something that won’t stretch or break. I bought a mix of pricey and cheap ones last time and all the gap camis stretched so much, and the plastic clasp broke. Not worth trying to save money there.
    DS born 2/18/2019
    DD born 4/1/2023
    Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
  • H&M has some decent maternity/nursing clothes. The only bras I ended up liking were from there https://www2.hm.com/en_us/productpage.1074166002.html
    Also their nursing camis held up well, IMO https://www2.hm.com/en_us/productpage.1039096001.html
  • This is not a maternity clothing line, but I am plus size with most of my weight in my stomach, and like to dress fashionably with updated trends and free people has some great options because a lot of it is oversized. I will be shopping there for some looser clothes until I have a very prominent bump. My first pregnancy 9 years ago I was obsessed with motherhood maternity’s leggings and just bought some from motherhood maternity leggings straight from Amazon for this one, and they are still just as comfortable 
  • Any advice on bras for someone who's already up to a 34F (or a little more) by 11 weeks? I know I'm not going to be lucky enough for them to quit this early, and it's proving super difficult to find anything that fits and provides support....help! :lol:
  • nsk489nsk489 member
    edited September 2022
    @gingerbunny23 I am small chested so I can't personally vouch for any of these, but Karrie Locher has an awesome write up on bras. https://www.karingforpostpartum.com/blog/the-best-nursingpumping-bras?rq=Bra
    If you scroll towards the bottom, there are pumping bras, nursing bras, and tank tops for busty ladies. She gets input from her IG community when doing these write ups, so those are all bras that women with big boobs have said actually work for them
  • When is the best time to buy nursing/maternity bras? Get some now in my current size and more later if I outgrow them? What did you all do/ what are you doing this time?
  • @trubaby411 I just got some and plan on wearing them right away! Nursing bras are made for boobs that change sizes, so you’ll likely be fine with the same ones for both now and later. 
    DS born 2/18/2019
    DD born 4/1/2023
    Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
  • @trubaby411 I preferred something like this during pregnancy when my boobs started getting bigger and my regular bras were no longer comfortable  Caramel Cantina 4 Pack Nursing Maternity Women’s Sleep Comfort Bralette Bra https://a.co/j7wLD66
    (Also, it says nursing and maternity bra, but I did not like these for actually nursing).
    Then when those started getting too snug at the end, I started wearing the nursing bras (the kind that clip down).
  • @trubaby411 I love the type of bra @nsk489 suggested above. They’re so comfortable. 
  • Ha I hated that type of bra! Both for nursing and not. Just means you have to try everything and find what works for you.
    DS born 2/18/2019
    DD born 4/1/2023
    Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
  • @gingerbunny23 I'm 13 weeks and a 34G/H right now. I am swearing by kindred bravely bras. I bought medium busty in the sublime nursing bra and with all the adjustments you can make, I don't see needing to buy a bigger size until breastfeeding maybe.

    I bought seraphine maternity jeans and wore them the first time yesterday. I loved the under belly ones but since I'm not so big yet, I needed to pull them up after sitting down or bending over. I also have their maternity/combo baby wearing zip up hoodie that I'm excited to wear. 

    I love going through Target and seeing what's on clearance. I also bought a couple amazon maternity leggings that had good reviews for tall women, but we'll see how those do. 
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers Daisypath Anniversary tickers
  • @returning_bump_member oh which jeans did you get from Seraphine? I have a few in my cart (in addition to other clothes) and can’t decide! 

    I’m going to need entirely different maternity clothes this time with an April baby than I had with my October baby! 

    Last time I had a ton of hand me downs from friends and bought a bunch of flowy summer dresses. This time I’ll need to start from scratch, especially since denim styles have changed a bit. 😉
  • @returning_bump_member - this is amazing! you just made my day. I've been going back and forth on ordering that exact bra and size in both the bra and tank top to try.....it's great to hear it's worked well for someone else in a similar situation. I'll have to give them a shot!

  • Honestly,  I think most maternity clothes are overrated. To be fair, I didn't get very big with my last pregnancy, but I wore my normal shirts the entire time.

    I got a couple pairs of jeans and leggings, and 1 pair of shorts, since I was due in July in Texas. But that was plenty for me. I don't like those ruched tops at all, and relied more on loose things.

    I agree that breastfeeding-friendly clothes are a much better investment, if you're planning on nursing for any length of time. 
  • @shoogapoff when I was pregnant over the summer, I never really wore maternity clothes... just lots of maxi dresses & skirts... but winter (pants!) I definitely need maternity. 

    Has anyone heard of Nuuly rent before? It was advertised to me today & looks like a pretty great idea, $88/month you get 6 pieces per month to wear, keep them as long as you like, once you return, you can get 6 new pieces. I may try it! 
    TTM - EDD 4/23 - Team Green <3 
  • edited September 2022
    Okay, so send me links for good quality maternity leggings with pockets. Please and TIA!
    MY CHART
    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 40.5; MH: 39 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • @acleverusername a few of my friends swear by Beyond Yoga mat leggings, they have pockets. I kind of want a pair but I’m stalling because of the price tag.
    DS born 2/18/2019
    DD born 4/1/2023
    Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
  • @ladyofarlington I added a picture of the 2 I ordered. 
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers Daisypath Anniversary tickers
  • *lurking* 

    @acleverusername I want to say congratulations and I’m rooting you and all the 4/23 moms on and sending you all good vibes and healthy pregnancies and babies. 

    As for the maternity leggings with pockets,  https://www.kindredbravely.com/products/louisa-maternity-postpartum-support-leggings-pocket-style?variant=32568058052704  the only “downside”
    is the belly panel is a tiny bit longer than I would like. I still wear them now and I’m almost 4 months PP, and wore them after my c section and they were comfortable, oh and I bought their high waisted undies and like them as well. 
  • @wigglyicecream - I've been looking at those lately, but I've been hesitant to pay almost $100 per pair of leggings.....while also getting more desperate to find clothes that don't make me miserable. Do you have any experience with the bras or tanks by the same company? Is the leggings material similar by chance?

  • @gingerbunny23 I personally do not but I have a close friend who swears by their bras. I am currently nursing and have some cheap target bralettes that work well and are comfy enough to sleep in. I also in a different pregnancy bought motherhood maternity nursing bras which worked really well for pregnancy and then nursing. I know it’s a steep price tag. I would suggest looking at poshmark if you’re ok with preowned clothes. Just for reference as far as comfortability, I also have Lululemon align leggings with pockets (bc I had to see what the hype was about) and the KB ones are more supportive and comfortable than the Lulus. A cheaper option that also worked for me were the old navy cotton maternity leggings but they pilled where my thighs touched and I only wore them a couple of months. 
  • @gingerbunny23 I have the Kindred Bravely bras and they have been godsend since my tatas have like doubled in size (I’m normally 34C/32D). Worth every penny. I also went and got the Beyond Yoga leggings and - if you don’t mind signing up for their marketing texts (which you cam promptly unsubscribe from - they send you a 20% off your first purchase. I figured it was worth it. 


    @wigglyicecream 🙏 TY! 
    MY CHART
    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 40.5; MH: 39 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • I try to make my non maternity clothes work as long as possible.  Lots of leggings, flowy tops, drsses, and I use the hairband trick on my jeans. 

    The only maternity jeans I have really liked were old navy and one random pair from isabel at target.  And I have tried A LOT of maternity jeans!

    In terms of tops, I try to go for maternity/nursing combo because I hate having to think about spending more money after buying maternity clothes, so I go for multipurpose. 

    Bras I am all about comfort these days!  Since I'm currently nursing, the are mostly nursing bras or non underwire bras that I can easily pull down for boob access.  I don't have one specific brand or style I love, though.  Just try them all and keep what works. 
  • etnyahetnyah member
    edited October 2022
    Just grabbed this sweater off Amazon and it fits really well! Plenty of room and a bit of stretch, it’ll fit all through pregnancy. And it’s not a maternity sweater so it’ll look good as a normal oversized sweater like it’s intended afterwards too. Can’t speak to wear yet, but based on first impression I recommend it!

     https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08KP4VNBW?ref=ppx_pop_mob_ap_share
    DS born 2/18/2019
    DD born 4/1/2023
    Baby #3 EDD 11/21/2024
  • @acleverusername...I get it, 100%. I'm trying not to go overboard, but the things I've found so far that have been comfortable and supportive I've gone back for multiples LOL. Also just wanted to second the Kindred Bravely suggestion.....their bras are the only thing keeping my G-cups even remotely contained without making me miserable, and their leggings have been a lifesaver! Aside from that I've had good luck finding a few soft and cheap-ish sweaters at Target...

  • @gingerbunny23 did you see their new "super busty" sizes?! I bought one and LOVE it. It makes the busty ones seem small. 
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers Daisypath Anniversary tickers
  • I didn't buy too many clothes for my first pregnancy because a) we were in a pandemic and not going anywhere and b) I was due in July, so I was able to wear most of my flow dresses, etc. 

    This time around I have no choice but to purchase some maternity things since I'm pregnant in a different season. So far I have purchased the Spanx maternity faux leather leggings, 2 pair of maternity jeans, and plan on getting another pair of Align leggings! 
    -Are there any maternity clothes you can’t live without?
    The Lululemon Align leggings. I had them pre-first pregnancy and wore them all the way to my due date. I even wore them to my induction at 40w1d! They really do stretch well with the bump. I have worn them all through pregnancy & after and they still hold up well and haven't stretched out!
    -Do you have a favorite store/brand/website to buy from?
    I ordered Abercrombie maternity jeans and so far I have been happy with them. They're still a bit big with the otb panel, but I think they will be great! I've also gotten a few things from PinkBlush Maternity. 

    I looked on Poshmark and likely will order a pair of jeans from there because they're so affordable and know they were only worn a hand full of times! 
  • @returning_bump_member I did! though, I haven't tried any of those (and I tried a lot of sizes in the leggings, sublime bras, and sublime tanks with about a million returns before I found what worked. So far, I've been wearing the M-Busty Sublime bras and a L-Busty Sublime tank for a few weeks and they're all still pretty comfortable despite the fact my boobs don't wanna stop LOL. I feel like I'm wider than I am tall though (if that makes sense?) so I have some room at the top of the bras, but fill out the width. Luckily they seem plenty soft and stretchy, so fingers crossed maybe they'll last for this pregnancy....
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