18+ weeks Not Feeling Pregnancy (Help)

Re: 18+ weeks Not Feeling Pregnancy (Help)

• meggyme member

  September 2022

  petitemum7 said:

  PLEASE DONT JUDGE!! Im very worried who might be the father of my child and not feeling my pregnancy need help who possible can be the father
  
  LMP: Saturday 21st May 2022
  
  Ovulation: 4th or 5th June 2022
  
  Due Date: 25th February 2022
  
  Dating scan : on Wed 17th August 2022 I was 12 weeks + 4 days obestrictian said.
  
  
  Guy 1: on the morning of Sunday 29th May 2022 ( 8 days after my last cycle)
  
  Guy 2: Sunday 5th June 2022 - 16 June 2022
  
  Took pregnancy test : 22nd June ( clear blue 2 weeks + postive)
  
  
  My cycle is regular every 28 - 29 days and I also have polycystic ovary, which I only found out on my dating scan when I was 12 weeks pregnant
  
  Any help, on who likely the father of my baby is guy 1 or guy 2 :

  Those dates are too close together to definitively tell who the father is. You should talk to your doctor about your options for paternity testing. That is the only way to know for sure.

  DD1: June '16 DD2: March ‘19 :::: Married since 2011 :::: USN Wife ::::

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• harpseal135 member

  September 2022

  Just what @meggyme said.  

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• turtletaylor0522 member

  September 2022

  I had a situation while placing my son for adoption where the birthfather decided he wasn’t the father and demanded paternity testing while I was pregnant. You *can* do it while you’re pregnant but it comes with a lot of risk to the pregnancy and can be painful. I’d recommend talking to your doctor about it, but in my non-medical mama opinion, wait until the baby is born to have a paternity test done. That’s what we did (although by then he was on some other rant and we never did the test).

  
  

  If you don’t want to have it done, that’s also an option. Unless you plan on listing someone on the birth certificate and having him involved in the baby’s life, it’s not required to name a father in most states. If you want him involved, I’d still wait until the baby is born. 

  
  

  And maybe when the baby is born you’ll be able to tell. My friend had twins and didn’t know the father until they were born and were both blonde. One of the guys she had been with was Indian and one was Caucasian, so that was an easy call. 

  
  

  Good luck! I hope you start feeling better. My first pregnancy was very difficult just because of the birthfather being a jerk the whole time, I wasn’t able to enjoy it either. 

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• knottie_knottie1 member

  September 2022

  Agreed with PPs, too close to know for sure. I suggest being open and honest with both partners and ask one or both of them if they'd be willing to take a paternity test to confirm. In the age of DNA and ancestry sites, it'd be better to get an answer now instead of trying to hide it.
  

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• swizzlemalarkey member

  September 2022

  Agreed with everyone else. It could easily be either man, unfortunately. 

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