Hi All,
I had an egg retrieval a few months ago. While I was under, the doctor dilated by cervix because it is narrow and didn't want to cooperate during a saline sono. He wanted to make sure transfer was as easy as possible. Unfortunately, none of our embryos made it.
I just had another egg retrieval. My doctor didn't dilate me while I was out this time because he's hoping the dilation he performed last time held. But I'm going in for another saline sono before embryo transfer and he said he would dilate me again during the procedure if necessary.
Basically, I'm a big baby and really scared that it will hurt if he ends up needing to dilate me. He said he wanted to avoid it if possible because it's painful. When a gyn/RE admits that a procedure is painful as opposed to just "uncomfortable," you know that's a bad sign!
For those of you who have had your cervix dilated while awake, how much did it hurt? And what kind of pain was it? Just cramping, or burning/tearing? I'm just trying to prepare myself mentally.
Re: Cervical Dilation Before Embryo Transfer?
If it's the embryo transfer you're worried about, I know my clinic had the option of sedation. My clinic sedated for the egg retrieval (not all do), and when I went in for my ER, the woman in the bed next to me was there for an embryo transfer and was preparing to be sedated because she had so much pain when they did her ERA. The downside of that, other than the added expense, is that your partner wasn't allowed in the room if you were sedated, so he'd miss out on the embryo transfer. So for her, they were going to try without sedation, but if it was too painful, they'd kick her partner out and sedate her. I saw her after and she ended up not needing the sedation - the embryo transfer was painless. My transfer was also painless, quick, and easy compared to hsg and sono. It was mildly uncomfortable because you need to have a full bladder, and the ultrasound pushing on your bladder is the overriding sensation, just to give an idea of how mild the ET is in comparison.
So if it's the sono you're worried about, talk to the doctor about options- including valium and misoprostol and ibuprofen; sedation may even be an option if you're super worried and don't mind the expense. If it's the ET, talk to your doctor about the sedation option, but I bet the ET will be easier than you expect.
They can usually get the catheter in for diagnostic tests if they use a tenaculum and a rigid catheter (ouch in its own right). My doctor just wants to avoid those things for the embryo transfer since they lowers the chance of implantation.
I'm just wondering how mechanical dilation of the cervix hurts and what it feels like.