Ok, it finally am able to post!
Each week we'll spotlight a new category of product. Feel free to comment on threads like these throughout your time at the board, not just when they're in their week in the spotlight, if you discover something new OR are new to the board. This week it's.... Baby Carriers!
FTMs are encouraged to ask questions & STM/+s encouraged to share their knowledge based on experience. You can use any or all the prompts relevant to you below to share info in an easy-to-read format. Pictures/screen grabs, if put in spoilers, are welcome!
STMs:
What carriers did you love?
- what age/weight range?
- what scinario did you use them in?
What carriers didn't you like and why?
Any other ones your looking at?
FTMs:
What kind of carriers are you looking for?
Any that you have your eye on and want feedback for?
Next up: Strollers
Re: Product Spotlight: Baby Carriers
1. Beluga baby wrap for the newborn little baby. It was a wrap and I LOVED it! It was so comfortable, easy to use and thin. Since baby was born in May, I wanted something that would be cool for the summer. I used it for walks and around the house when she wanted to be held but I had things to do. I also wanted a natural fiber one and this one is bamboo/cotton.
2. BabyBjorn One for a soft shell carrier. I used this once she could hold her head up. I wore her at grocery stores, for walks, events, anywhere I could instead of the stroller. I like it, itia comfortable, easy to use, she seemed comfortable. It can be worn back or front. I wanted something that was a natural fiber. It is a bit bulky and thick but other than that good.
3. Ospray Poco Plus for hiking. This one is amazing and I highly recommend it for anyone looking for a hiking carrier (once baby can hold their head up). I'm 5"1' and it's too big for me. I did wear it anyway when she was <1 but H only wears it now and he loves it. She's 2 now and he still finds it very comfortable. Some of the reasons I chose it:
- it's made to distribute weight well for the wearer
- there's a lot of packing space
- comes with a rain cover.
1) one of those long wraps that requires watching YouTube videos to figure out how to do it. I did this for the first like…6 weeks or so? It was great for being able to go hands free around the house.
- what age/weight range? I used it starting around 6 weeks, to about 6 months. Once they could sit on my hip easily, I didn't bother with the carrier.
- what scenario did you use them in? Mostly for store shopping, and school pickup in the rain. It's hard to hold an infant, a toddler's hand, and an umbrella at the same time.
What carriers didn't you like and why? I had a cheap structured one that wasn't comfortable and didn't fit the baby well. It wasn't a brand structured carrier or anything.
Any other ones your looking at?
We have a baby bjorn for our structured carrier. It has a built in infant option, then you can do outward or inward facing for older babies in a front carrier. You can also use it as a back carrier for older toddlers. We got the part mesh one so it is more breathable. It wipes off pretty easily, which is nice. I think it is easy to use, and there are videos and an instruction manual that tells you when to use which way to carry based on age and weight of your child.
I loved using a carrier when DD was younger, but as she got older and wants to walk I actually prefer a stroller. I thought I was going to be way more into the carrier for longer, but as they get more squirmy and heavy I found I just didn't like having her in the carrier. My personal advice is to invest in a nice, high-end, light weight stroller that you can use for multiple kids. Trying to find the right wrap for you (I went through 3) can be pricey and I ended up using it a lot less than I thought I would.
My Tula was given to me as a gift when I had my 4th baby and it was instant love! Very comfortable, has a front pocket, quick to put on, and you can use it for all stages basically with an infant insert. This carrier was also easy to nurse in because of the adjustable straps in the front. Just loosen it and it drops them down just enough to nurse. Once they pop off adjust the straps again and you're good to go. Only real downside is my H loves to baby wear too and I'd have to adjust straps all over again.
I refuse to get a double stroller because they are so dang bulky and with as many kids as I have and how much I was alone with them all a carrier was needed a ton. Grocery stores, Dr appts, errands, parks, chores around the house, you name it.
My favorite baby wearing pic just because.
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I used the Bjorn a LOT. I actually used it to put my son to sleep for a time and I could slip him out and put him down if I was lucky without him waking. Wouldn't recommend doing that cause it was bad for my back.
I used the Moby wrap I think exactly one time cause it was so dang hard for me to figure out correctly. He's also pretty big, so I thyit would have worked better with an itty bitty baby not my chonker.
I also got one from a neighbor that I could put on my back, but he never liked being in it that way and always complained.
For more of a structured carrier I loved the Tula and the Lillebaby! The Lillebaby was great for different types of baby wearing and it helped keep us both cool when it was hot.
We used the moby wrap when #1 was littler (2-6 months) for witching hour. Once you know how to wrap it - it is super comfy. Used/still use a lille baby for large crowds or when not needing a stroller. I personally didn't like the carriers when #1 was littler - it just made me nervous.
I got a ring sling on Marketplace and am excited to use it for a little - to see how it compares.
Just wondering if any of you had certain ideas for how/if you'd use a carrier or stroller or both out of the house in the early months and then life got in the way. Like, did any of you plan to only use a carrier for the early weeks or months but then find yourself preferring the stroller (feeling touched out or hot with baby, to allow partner/relatives to walk with baby more easily, your back took a beating with the weight of carrying, you realized it was more convenient to have a place to put baby down, etc.)? Or did anyone think they'd prefer strollers and then end up preferring carriers (stroller a PITA to lug around/pack in car, just loved having your baby right on you, so much better to have your hands free, etc.)? Or baby just hated one or the other? Just really curious to know how you struck a balance and any surprises or regret purchases/non-purchases.
Thanks!
Grocery shopping, it was so much easier to just throw her in the carrier if I only had to grab a couple of things. Also doing outdoor activities like the fall corn maze.
If I walked with other people I would use the stroller every time.
I don't regret the carrier's or stroller I bought. They all had their purpose and I used them all enough to justify buying them.
Hope that helps.
I like the carrier for keeping baby close/away from people but I struggled wearing for long periods because I wasn't that great at working around a baby on my front. Bending over/squatting, bathroom, eating without spilling on baby, etc never came natural to me.
July 4th
It's also harder to make all my kids stop and stay put so I can take the baby out of the stroller to nurse. The carrier makes it so I can feed the baby on the go.
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