March 2023 Moms

Pregnant after Fertility Treatments

I hope this is ok! We have a few check ins for different ladies but I haven’t seen a pregnant after fertility treatment check in. I hope this isn’t stepping on any toes! 

How long had you been trying to conceive? 

What treatments did you do? 

How far along are you? 

How are you feeling? 

Hopes/fears? 

I am so happy we are all here, this is exciting and terrifying all at the same time. 

Re: Pregnant after Fertility Treatments

  • How long had you been trying to conceive? My husband and I had been trying for 4 years exactly! 

    What treatments did you do? 2 rounds of IVF with ICSI, our last round was successful as we used donor sperm (we have severe MFI due to my husband having had testicular cancer 2 times). I also previously did 21 rounds of letrozole before they finally checked my husbands sperm count and realized it was awful (in 6 frozen vials they found 5 “ok” looking sperm) 

    How far along are you? 8 weeks today if you go by the dating scan. But 7 weeks 5 days if you go by transfer date. 

    How are you feeling? I went to the hospital this morning due to brown spotting and cramps. I finally saw my baby’s heartbeat and holy, this feels so fricken real now! 

    Hopes/fears? I hope this pregnancy continues and that the unsolicited advice for those who do know quits. I realize everyone’s trying to help but it’s getting so old now. I have fear all day everyday that I’m going to do something wrong and ruin this all. 
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  • @babymac4321 congratulations!! We put fertility treatments on hold due to the pandemic (MFI and I have PCOS) but after 6 years of trying conceived naturally. So this isn't exactly the right thread for me, but I love hearing success stories of others who have tried for a long time.

    I bet it was amazing seeing the heartbeat for the first time ❤️
  • I think this is a great check-in @babymac4321! For the ladies who will participate, would you prefer a weekly or monthly thread? We can always start with weekly and then move to monthly if you feel like weekly is too much.
  • How long had you been trying to conceive? 
    We have been TTC for 7 years. We tried naturally for a year, then had an ectopic pregnancy which led us to IVF. 

    What treatments did you do? 
    We have gone through 5 cycles of IVF with unsuccessful fresh and frozen transfers. We opted for donor eggs with my husband’s sperm and have done two transfer cycles so far. 

    How far along are you? 
    We are finally pregnant with our first! We just had our first scan a few days ago and we are 7w2d pregnant today. 

    How are you feeling? 
    I feel great! No nausea, just tender boobs, but I get tired easily and feel like I could nap for hours!  I do feel extremely bloated and feel like I already have a little bump. 

    Hopes/fears? 
    We have had many failed cycles and early losses so we are hoping this one sticks it out for the long haul. The wait til the next scan seems so long. 
  • How long had you been trying to conceive?
    1.5 years this round! 

    What treatments did you do? 
    We did 2 rounds of Clomid, and 2 rounds of IUI. I have PCOS and required treatment for our daughter (7 years ago) and was hopeful it’d be easier this to since my cycle seemed to be normal (I typically have like 4-5 periods a year)….nope! 

    How far along are you? 
    7w3days

    How are you feeling? 
    Pretty good! Grateful to be pregnant. 

    Hopes/fears? 
    Our daughter has been begging for a sibling for about two years now and I’m so nervous to tell her too soon. She is going to be so excited and I am terrified of a loss, especially once after we tell her. I think I will at the end of August, after my 1st appt with my midwife at 13.5 weeks. 
  • How long had you been trying to conceive?

    2 yrs - a year of that was trying on our own and with some extra progesterone support, then I found out I have endometriosis with an endometrioma (cyst) in each ovary, and some small polyps in my tubes. All that (plus a surgeon who wanted to remove both tubes and cysts etc) led us to IVF. Tbh, I had an intuitive ping from the beginning that we’d end up doing it because of my myriad health problems!

    What treatments did you do?

    1 round IVF with ICSI - we were very lucky to end up with quite a lot of embryos and did genetic testing on 8 of them, but I ended up being the 1% of people who get very extreme ovarian hyperstimulation syndrome which resulted in 4 abdominal drains at the fertility clinic and then being admitted to hospital for a few days and having a leave-in drain put in while there. 😬 Definitely not a fun experience but it did mean that I wasn’t stressing about how many embryos would make it to day 5 as I was a bit preoccupied!

    How far along are you?
    5 weeks 1 day!! Going for the second blood test this week, so fingers crossed HCG is increasing, but got a really solid number last week for the first test!

    How are you feeling?

    Physically, pretty good. Not much in the way of symptoms. My biggest issue is the PIO injections. Not sure if anyone else has had such bad leg pain from them that they couldn’t walk, but that’s been happening just about every other time.

    Mentally, definitely having some mood issues and was feeling a bit depressed last week, but I take antidepressants already so it’s hard to know if it was just circumstantial with the whole wrapping my head around having a baby or chemical/hormonal.

    Hopes/fears?

    A little nervous about the next HCG test just because I don’t seem to have the typical pregnancy symptoms, but also reminding myself that my body does really well with extra progesterone and with HCG (it makes my usual food intolerances disappear!)
  • wwcr17wwcr17 member
    edited August 2022
    I know I am late to this thread- don’t know how I missed it! I am happy to see this as I have tried some support groups for expecting after loss/infertility and not found them helpful. Everyone was really seeming to still dwell on the past and I am wanting to look forward!

    How long had you been trying to conceive?
    Three years

    What treatments did you do?
    Three IUIs, one round of IVF with ICSI

    How far along are you?
    Ten weeks tomorrow!

    How are you feeling?
    I am feeling well, sometimes worried I’m feeling too well. Tired and slight nausea but over all pretty good.

    Hopes/fears?
    I am trying my best to be hopeful and not fearful, some days are harder than others. Some days it still doesn’t feel real. I’ve had some tough conversations with my mom because she is trying to force us to feel 100% joyful and I’ve had to explain to her we are happy, but it’s still early. Getting her to be patient past the first Tri has been difficult!
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