Trying to Get Pregnant

TTCAL w/o 7/25

**This is a general trigger warning that CP, miscarriage / spontaneous abortion, selective abortion due to medical complications, and/or stillbirth may be mentioned.**

Introduce yourself and anything you think is important: number of loss(es), when you had the loss(es), diagnosis/conditions surrounding loss, etc.

Status: 

How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with and/or what is going well? 

Any testing coming up/any recent results?

Questions? 

GTKY: What is the most daring thing you've ever done?

TTC History
Me: 38 DH: 52
Started trying June 2018
BFP Jan 2019 DD born October 2019
TTC July 2021 BFP, ended in MMC August 2021
TTC October 2021
BFP January 2022
MMC March 2022
Beginning May 2022 under the supervision of an RE - Benched while undergoing testing




Re: TTCAL w/o 7/25

  • Introduce yourself and anything you think is important: number of loss(es), when you had the loss(es), diagnosis/conditions surrounding loss, etc.  Two MMCs (March 2021 and June 2022) both around 6 weeks, discovered at 7/8.

    Status:  WTO

    How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with and/or what is going well?  Struggling with both excitement and anxiety over the idea of getting pregnant again. 

    Any testing coming up/any recent results? Nope.  

    Questions?  Not today. 

    GTKY: What is the most daring thing you've ever done? Oh gosh.  I don't know if I have an answer for this one.  I am not one for taking risks lol. 

    TTC History:
    Started dating DH 2006 . Married 2015

    TTC July 2015-November 2015
    BFP November 2015
    Baby boy born August 2016

    Oops BFP February 2021
    MMC March 2021

    Back on BC for a year to decide what we want to do.

    TTC Since March 2022
    MMC June 2022

    BFP September 2022 - Due June 2023!

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  • Hi Friends, 
    Back again.  

    Status: currently Miscarrying  :( and now WTO

    How are things going? What is something that you are struggling with and/or what is going well? 
    I got a BFP last weekend on Saturday after my BFN a week earlier.  I was excited, but also very cautious and anxious because of my previous MMC back in January.  At 5w yesterday I started spotting.  My dr. wanted me to go to the ER to rule out an ectopic.  While I was there they took betas and it was wayyy too low for where I should have been at.  So today I am dealing with passing a CP.  Struggling with the fact that I've had 2 MCs in a row now, but am hopeful I can start testing to figure out if there is something underlying.  

    Any testing coming up/any recent results? I have a dr. appt on Aug 11th to see what is possibly going on. 

    Questions
    What are good questions to ask my Dr.? What have you all been tested for that I may want to look into?

    GTKY: What is the most daring thing you've ever done?
    hmm...I think moving to Alaska with 3 weeks notice!
  • *lurking*

    Sending you big hugs, friend! I feel like I can't comment on what tests your doc should run since – while I'm sure I've been tested for everything you'd need to – these were never requested from an RPL standpoint. I definitely think that karyotyping is really important. Hopefully @anniemarie887 can provide more information. 

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • @wunderkai Sending you so many hugs. I didn't have extensive testing, but my RE did insist on an SHG to ensure there wasn't a physical reason my body keeps miscarrying. Hopefully your doctor will have a solid plan for testing and treatment moving forward. 
  • thanks for the tag @acleverusename and sorry it took me so long to get on here @wunderkai
    first, i'm sorry. this sucks, and i know how awful it is first hand (i've had 3 spanning sept '21-march '22 and been benched while sorting it since march). have you talked to your OB yet? CPs are hard b/c some OBs don't "count" them. and that is just, ugh, wrong IMO. from walking this walk, and adoring my OB, this very well could just be really shit luck - and that is more likely than not - but it could be an indicator of other things. my OB is very progressive, and she considers 2 losses something to investigate and trying over 6 mos after age 32 a potential RE referral. that being said, down to brass tax - there is really easy blood work you can have ordered by your OB, it's going to look at your A1C, thyroid, and for blood clotting disorders. mine all came back normal, but my BFF from college was dx with APS (Antiphospholipid syndrome) which caused her 3 losses - she *TW LC* was put on lovenox and went on to have a healthy baby in 2021 *END TW*. MH and i also had our chromosomes karyotyped to make sure we didn't have a missing or translocated one, also all ok. so that left me being ref'ed out to a RE, i had an HSG done - which if i was in your shoes i would ask for one (or SHG - slightly different but they accomplish the same thing from what i understand) - my HSG showed the dye not filling my uterus properly. at this point i'm waiting on a hysteroscopy 8/30 with the goal to remove whatever is in there - most likely scar tissue which is affecting the ability for an embryo to implant and/or a placenta to attach to my uterus correctly. i've had 2 d&c's and that does increase a chance for scar tissue i also *TW LC* have one living child, and when i had my daughter my placenta was quite "stuck" which also could've contributed to scar tissue pending that's what is going on *END TW*. 

    i hope this was helpful, please don't hesitate to ask me any questions. i'm an open book about what i've been through. 
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