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6 weeks Dad wants out

knottiecc5d47f15636d440knottiecc5d47f15636d440 Newbie
in March 2023 Moms
So I thought my unborn father wanted a baby until now I’m pregnant and he says he doesn’t have the time or money. Been dating two years he has 2 other kids and wants me to abortion I want to keep baby I’m so confused he even broke up with me not sure what to do 😥
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Re: 6 weeks Dad wants out

  • firecracker_mamafirecracker_mama member
    Sorry, knottie. Only you know the right answer to these questions. Abortion is an option and a choice (hopefully one you don't need to travel for) BUT should not be forced on you and you should only get one if you want one, not because someone else wants you to have one.

    The other things you'll need to consider are what programs you may qualify for (wic, supplemental childcare vouchers, section 8 housing, child support, etc). These are all things you will want to explore as resources to help you raise this baby if you (key word...you) decide to continue on with the pregnancy.  If your income allows you to raise the child without these programs, you'll also want to consider if you want to be a mom. There isn't a right answer for this question. Everyone's answer can and will vary. 
    FTM
    July 4th
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  • thefourthseedthefourthseed member
    My heart is with you! I'm so sorry you are experiencing this during what should be a time of celebration!

    I would recommend that you seek the guidance of a local pregnancy resource center. You will find so much support and genuine love there and they can help you through this. Many of these centers also provide free counseling to the dads. Perhaps you and your boyfriend can reconcile. If you talk with a counselor there, they will be able to help you navigate the relationship with your boyfriend. Just google "pregnancy resource center near me."

    Surround yourself with people who love you and are excited about your baby! Are your family supportive? 

    Children are a gift and a blessing from the Lord! In my own life I have found even in the darkest most lonely times, God is with me and for me. I will pray for you! I hope you experience comfort and peace. ❤️

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