March 2023 Moms

Stories of full term pregnancies after miscarriage

syfyhikersyfyhiker member
edited July 2022 in March 2023 Moms
Could people share their stories about their successful full term pregnancies after having a miscarriage? I’ve been reading the other miscarriage threads and honestly I think it is scaring me more than helping me because of all of the people my heart is breaking for.

My husband and I started trying in October 2022. We had a chemical pregnancy in February at 5w1d. I did a lot of reading on miscarriages after that. I had no idea how common they were and maybe I would have taken it a little easier if I had known. My best friend is also trying and going through the same issues, so that has been helpful to have someone close to talk to that understands. But she hasn’t had a successful pregnancy yet either.

This time around they did blood tests to confirm my pregnancy at 4w3d and 4w6d. The levels were what they expected and growing so that made me feel a little better.

I’m at 5w2d today. I felt a little better when I got past the point of my chemical pregnancy last time, but I’m still cautious with my heart and telling others. We told just a couple very close people and we probably won’t tell anyone else until week 14 or 16.

I think I won’t feel any better until after my first ultrasound which is scheduled for 9w4d.

I honestly wish I felt more sick. That might make me feel better mentally. During my chemical pregnancy, I felt sick for a couple days and then nothing, so feeling not sick now makes me worry. I didn’t have cramping until the loss during my chemical pregnancy. I have felt minor cramping on and off throughout week 4 and 5 so I’m hoping that means things are moving in the right direction.

I’m hoping this is my sticky baby. Having children is really the only thing I’ve wanted since as long as I came remember. And I worked hard to build a life, home, and relationship that would be good for my future family. I sometimes just feel like I’m being punished for waiting so long to start trying.

I wish the best for you all and your babies! Sticky babies for all!

Re: Stories of full term pregnancies after miscarriage

  • nopegoatnopegoat member
    edited July 2022
    I had a miscarriage on October 3 2018. Found out I was pregnant again October 30, 2018. Full term perfectly healthy baby but I was definitely an anxious mess throughout my entire pregnancy. I've also had another successful, healthy pregnancy since then and praying for another this go around. Hang in there! Being pregnant after a loss is such a mindfvck. ❤️


    Wife. Boy mom x6. Expecting #7. Wannabe homesteader.
    , 💙💙💙💙💙💙
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  • So glad to hear that! And so soon after. That’s amazing. Wishing you and your baby the best through this time around as well.
  • I had a miscarriage on June 9th and a month later I found out that I’m pregnant again ❤️ Because I didn’t have my period in between, I’m not sure how far I’m but I believe I’m 5w+1. I know how you are feeling, I see you! My main goal is to be present, enjoy every day that pass of my pregnancy being healthy. As soon as I find myself worrying and anxious, I try to breathe and ground myself. I remind myself that I am pregnant now, I’m healthy, safe and grateful for this opportunity. 

    I’ve also made a decision of not reading about miscarriage forums because it triggers me and now I want to focus on positive stories and get as much information I get without getting triggered. 

    Wish you lots of love, calm and health during your pregnancy 💫
  • I miscarried in July 2019. Got pregnant again in January 2020 and had a full term pregnancy with my son born September 2020. It definitely causes some anxiety being pregnant after miscarriage but I kept reminding myself that two miscarriages in a row are pretty rare. If everything looks good so far, keep thinking positive ❤️
  • I had two missed miscarriages in 2015 and 2016 followed by two healthy full term pregnancies resulting in my son and daughter who are now 5 and almost 4!

    And now I’m here again and still terrified but trying to be optimistic because I know my body can do this. The worry never goes away but the truth is most women who have one or more miscarriages go on to have healthy pregnancies. 
  • Hi ladies! We now have a PGAL thread where you can talk about worries, fears, concerns and ask questions. A lot of the STM+ moms who have had prior losses found it a very helpful thread in our previous BMB's. It is a good place to continue these stories/conversations. Just know that if you've had a loss you're not alone <3
  • I had a miscarriage in March 2022 I was 10 weeks along. I’m now 7 weeks pregnant and I had an early ultrasound that really calmed my nerves. They were able to play the heart beat for me and it gave me so much peace. I spoke to an infertility doctor that visited the miscarriage support group I go to and she said that 70% of women who have 1 miscarriage go on to not have another one and that it’s rare to have back to back miscarriages.
  • *lurking*
    I'm a rainbow baby. My mom's first pregnancy ended in a miscarriage at 13W, and as soon as she was cleared to TTC again, she got pregnant with me. Her pregnancy with me had no complications (and FWIW, her 1st trimester nausea was mild), and I was born perfectly healthy. :)
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