I am doing this on my own. Left ovary and fallopian tube removed due to cyst/necrosis just after birth. Right ovary and tube still purport to function.
Began TTC in Aug '18 @ age 35
5 or 6 (or 7?!) cycles using frozen donor sperm, ICI. All BFN
Mar-Jun '19 IUIs, all BFN
Began process of referral for RE in spring of '19, blood tests confirm low AMH (.54) but all else is good.
May '19 HSG shows open tube, but ultrasound suggests fibroids
MRI in June '19 confirms two large fibroids, one growing through wall of uterus
In June '19 I move from California to Oregon, disrupting my insurance, referrals, etc. 5 months spent piecing it all back together.
Nov. '19 attempted myomectomy (vaginal approach) failed. 2nd surgery using laparoscopic method in Jan '20 is successful.
April '20 --> June '20, natural IUIs, all BFN.
July? saline ultrasound and bubble test demonstrate open tube
July '20 clomid cycle cancelled for thin lining
Aug-Oct, 3 femara cycles, all BFN
RE referral. While waiting to set up an appointment Nov-Jan,I continue with natural cycles and ICI, using a known donor, BFN...
Jan '21 more bloodwork, AMH is worse (.30), FSH high albeit not catastrophic at 13.2. hysteroscopy all good. "looks cozy!" says the RE.
Feb '21, injectables (menopur, novarel), iui, BFN (doc said the frozen donor sperm sample had the "best numbers she'd ever seen!")
Mar '21, injectables, iui cancelled due to lack of follicles, converted to at home-insem. BFN
May '21, first IVF round cancelled due to cyst.
July '21 IVF: standard antagonist. 225menupur/225gonal-f/cetrotide/5000u trigger, AFC 7; 6 days of stims. 8 eggs retrieved, 7 mature, 5 fertilize, 4 made it to blast. 3 are 4AB, 1 is 4BB. PGT-A results all abnormal.
Oct '21 somewhat improved AMH (.51) and significantly improved FSH (8.9). Maybe it's all the pills I swallow.
Dec -21, standard antagonist. 225menupur/225gonal-f/cetrotide/5000u trigger, AFC 5; 11 days of stims. retrieval yields 5, 4M, 2 reach day-6 blast (4AB & 4BB). 1 low-level mosaic (chr. 3 deletion), 1 complex abnormal.
Feb '22 FET (low-level mosaic): CP.
May '22 egg retrieval, lupron flare protocol. HGH priming for 1 month before stims; md lupron 20/20u daily; menopur 225, follistim 225, 10k trigger after 8 days of stims; AFC 10; 13 retrieved; 10 mature; 8 fertilized. All frozen at 2PN for later thaw, grow, and biopsy.
July '22 egg retrieval same protocol: 9 days of stims; AFC 8; 10 retrieved, 8 mature, 4 fertilized and frozen.
Sept '22 ER same protocol: AFC 10; 12 retrieved, 11 mature, 11 fertilized.
From the 3 retrievals, 7 survived to day 5-6 blastocyst, from which I have 2 normal embryos!
Jan 20, Fully medicated FET, baby aspirin, dexamethasone, acupuncture, and as much woo as I can stand (which isn't very much). BFN.
July 23, Natural FET + baby aspirin. BFN.
Re: TTGP Grad Check-in July 2022
I think last month's check in was before my last baby shower which yielded some new SIL wedding info as well as our get together from Father's Day. Spoilering the new details to reduce the length.
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? March 2019 - February 2022
*How far along are you? 25 weeks tomorrow
*Which birth month board/due date? October BMB - October 18
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Boy 💙
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. We realized that the 2 names we were down to last month aren’t going to work because they are names that would need to be shortened - apparently we had different nicknames in mind and neither of us like the other nicknames at all. So we brought back a name we previously vetoed for being too popular and added another that DH saw written in the sand while we were on vacation. We’re a mess haha, but I think it will be one of those 2 names in the end.
*Questions, concerns or other? Just trucking along. We have a lot to do, it’s been kind of slow moving because it’s still hard to believe sometimes that this is happening. As always I miss you guys!
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? May21-November21
*How far along are you? 35 weeks on Thursday
*Which birth month board/due date? August 11th
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Pink 🎀
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. We have her name and will share once she’s here
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? I’m already having preterm contractions and am out of work until January. Otherwise, I’m just taking it day by day and trying to stay hydrated/ keep my feet up to avoid swelling from the heat. I’m at the point where her movements are starting to change which obviously gives me so much anxiety. I miss you ladies here, and as always I’m lurking often and rooting for each and every one of you! ❤️
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? Sept '21 - June '22
*How far along are you? 7w1d
*Which birth month board/due date? February 21st
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? team finding out
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. We actually are pretty happy with our boy name but clueless when it comes to girls. My SO is Italian (and baby will be raised bilingual) so we're looking for an Italian name that also works in English. Ironically my DD already has one of those names.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? I don't have my first MW apt for another two weeks so we paid for an early scan yesterday and got to see the baby blob and the heartbeat! I'm still feeling very nervous because I'm 41 but so far everything seems to be working smoothly. I have my first NHS scan in mid-August which seems like 100 years from now. I am still lurking and really hoping that we have some more TTGP graduations soon! FX for you all
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? Fall 2020-Fall 2021
*How far along are you? 37 weeks
*Which birth month board/due date? July 22
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? green
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. Pretty set I think, but wavering on the middle name.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? Just happy to be nearing the end! This past month has been bananas for other reasons, and I'll be happy for life to be bananas for newborn reasons. I'm still lurking IF from time to time, and rooting everyone on!
BFP 11/30/2017 | MMC 12/31/2017
BFP 6/22/2018 | CP 6/27/2018
BFP 10/5/2018 | EDD 6/14/2019
Baby girl born 6/19/19
TTC #2 May 2020-November 2021
BFP 7/18/2020 | MonoDi Twins | MMC 9/10/2020
BFP 11/7/2020 | CP 11/9/2020
RE Consult January 2021 | Dx "borderline DOR"/RPL
IVF with PGT:
Standard Antagonist:
ER #1 3/27/2021 7R | 5M | 3F | 2B | 1 PGT-A Normal, 1 low-level mosaic
ER #2 4/22/2021 10R | 7M | 3F | 2B | 0 normal, 2 aneuploid
ER #3 5/19/2021 2R | 1M | 0F
Estrogen Priming Antagonist:
ER #4 7/10/2021 5R | 4M | 3F | 1B | 1 PGT-A Normal
Duostim (Standard Antagonist):
ER #5 9/22/2021 13R | 11M | 8F | 5B | 2 PGT-A Normal, 1 low-level mosaic, 2 aneuploid
ER #6 10/9/2021 9R | 6M | 4 F | 1B | 1 aneuploid
FET #1 11/5/2021 | EDD 7/24/2022
Baby boy born 7/19/22
TTC #3 since May 2023 (ntnp)
IVF Started Fall 2023 (Standard Antagonist)
ER #7 10/6/2023 | 9R | 6M | 5F | 3B | 2 aneuploid, 1 high-level mosaic
ER #8 10/31/2023 | 5R | 4M | 3F | 1B | 1 PGT-A Normal
FET #2 11/27/23 | CP (bHCG = 8)
FET #3 planned Jan 2024
I failed at checking in last month, but there was not much happening in the pregnancy arena and a lot going on as I wrapped up my job...permanently (for that job anyway), so June kind of ran away from me. Nothing much exciting to share. I can't believe I'm at the end of pregnancy (it simultaneously feels like it took forever and came up way too quickly), but looking forward to meeting this little one and getting back to feeling somewhat normal. Still lurking the IF thead and hoping to see more graduates asap!!
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? July 2021-February 2022
*How far along are you? 24 weeks 5 days
*Which birth month board/due date? October, 10/29
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Green
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. We've got one for each sex but not sharing till birth.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? I had my fetal echo the other day and everything is looking great! Baby is moving tons which really helps my PGAL brain. We're starting to organize the baby's room finally and my girls are getting so excited to meet their baby brother or sister. I still can't believe I'm more than halfway through. I feel like October seems simultaneously super close and forever from now. I'm lurking here all the time and hoping so much we see some new graduates soon!!
Married 07/2012
DD born 07/2014
DD2 born 10/2018
DS born 10/2022
IF history:
TTC #2 since January 2016
June-Aug 2017: 3 IUIs w/Clomid = BFN
Sept 2017: Dx w/Endometriosis
Oct 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Nov 2017: IUI w/Letrozole = BFN
Dec 2017: pre-IVF testing
Jan-Feb 2018: IVF--17 eggs retrieved, 13 fertilized, 9 frozen and 1 transferred on 2/10 = BFP on 2/19!!! EDD 10/29/2018
FET Oct 2021: BFP on 10/31! MC at 5 weeks
FET Feb 2022: BFP on 2/15! EDD 10/29/22
*How long were you active on TTGP and when (minimum of 3 months)? July '21- May '22
*How far along are you? 12w5d
*Which birth month board/due date? February 2023, Feb 1
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Still waiting for our NIPT results. We thought we would have them this past weekend, so that was why I held out updating so that I could share, but since we didn't get them we are thinking we will do a small reveal with family when we are all together labor day weekend, so it will still be a bit before we know.
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. We have a few names thrown out there but nothing set in stone.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? I have my NT scan tomorrow so I am excited to see baby again. I am also anxious to get the NIPT results because with my history, chromosomal abnormalities are a concern for us, so I just want to know everything is okay. Other than that, just happy to have made it to 12 weeks and so close to second trimester.
I continue to lurk daily and am hoping so hard for you all to be graduating soon!
Married 10/28/17
Our TTC Journey
Team Green turned Team Blue 10/15/18
TTC #2 January '21
BFP June '21
MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C July '21
Jan '22 - started IF testing
BFP Jan '22
MMC/Blighted Ovum that led to D&C Feb '22
BFP May '22
*How far along are you? 23+3
*Which birth month board/due date? November 18
*Team Pink/Blue/Green? Pink!
*How are you doing picking out a name? Feel free to share it. We have a name, the first name is one we just liked, middle name after my late grandmother.
*Questions, concerns or other? Anything else exciting to share? Started feeling more definitive movement last week which helps the anxiety brain a lot. Not much else interesting going on, appointments start ramping up next month as I'll be third tri at the end of August. Still lurking regularly and rooting for everyone here!