I’m a first time mom with my second pregnancy. My first pregnancy I over stressed about work and not knowing how to balance the two I ended up in a place I did not want to be in. Now I am almost 32 weeks pregnant and I’m having a hard time slowing down and I don’t know if it’s because of what I feel like my job requires of me. The reason I say this is because technically I am not obligated to work up until I’m due but I just have no clue how to stop working. My husband is also in the same industry and he sees the toll it has taken lately. Thankfully I have had a pretty healthy pregnancy this time around but All I know is how to work and be available and now just doesn’t seem like the appropriate time to continue giving when I need to prepare. On a lot of forums I’ve read that most times it’s because there is a financial tie to the situation where maternity leave may not be paid for. To be completely honest I don’t even know if it will be covered because I have a pretty awesome boss but I have also been doing preparing since way before I got to this point. I feel confident in being financially stable for a few months. Am I overthinking all of this? I originally thought/planned to work until 38 weeks but baby boy is in head down position and I physically feel more drained every day. As hairdressers we are often people pleasers but my clients aren’t the ones carrying this belly so ugh… just feeling stuck! I would love some advice from any other hair dressers or anyone who has or is experiencing something like this. Also, first time posting something like this so I feel like maybe it’s just my nerves getting to me ? Help! Lol
Re: Maternity leave while being a hairstylist