And we’re trying again… (loss mentioned)

mitchip · May 2022

We’ll here I am back in this community but in a different section… TTC instead of the month club.

Backstory: hubby and I have been ttc for 5-6 years with unexplained infertility being the reason for many years and many failed IUIs and cancelled IVFs once I was finally diagnosed with DOR.

We picked an egg donor and got 3 embryos. First transfer was fresh and I had my first ever positive pregnancy test! I was extremely ecstatic and went completely over the deep end only to find out weeks later that I’m miscarrying.

My HCG went up and down and finally dropped completely.

We got the clear that we can try again with my next cycle and I’m an even BIGGER pile of nerves than I was last time.

This emotional rollercoaster has me exhausted and depressed.

Please give me any advice or things you may have found that kept you motivated to not only stay on course and hopeful for that mommy goal but even just to get up in the morning and shower.

nothing is going to stop me from that goal even if we switch our plans but some community support from those going through it is SO much appreciated.

(Sending love back to everyone else here Alan’s struggling on this roller coaster too)

blacksnoww · May 2022

Hi, I am sorry to know your story. Unfortunately, infertility journey is emotionally and financially draining, stay positive and do not give up. Myself I know ladies with 2nd and 3d time success who are happy they did not give up after failed treatments.

brooklyn7476 · May 2022

Wishing you the best of luck. You might like having someone to talk to? There are therapists that specialize in infertility that your fertility clinic could probably recommend to you.

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