How are you feeling?: Fairly normal, I think I’m peeing more.
Rants/Raves: none
GTKY: I’m trapped in Brooklyn. Wouldn’t love living there, but I could get by. Especially if I get to hang out in the NYPD’s 99th precinct! Totally have a crush on Andy Samberg’s character, Jake.
Upcoming appointments: I am going to schedule my first appointment today
How am I feeling? Like I want to stop crying and peeing😂. Seriously, I can’t be losing hydration like this, a girl can only drink so much water.
Rants/Raves: It’s great that pets have a sixth sense about pregnancy, but my cat can stop sleeping on my chest anytime now. And my dog can also stop taking my foot space😂. They usually sleep on the couch together but they’ve been glued to me for the past week. It’s great, I love it, but not when I’m sleeping😂.
Questions: I want to go the midwifery and birth center route because I want to ensure that I have freedom of movement during labor. Will I still get ultrasound pictures? It’s a silly question, I know, but I’m a keepsake/scrapbook type of person.
GTKY: I’m trapped on the set of a cooking competition with a basket on the table in front of me. A well dressed spokesperson, Ted Allen, announces that we will be making an appetizer with whatever is in the basket, but we only have 20 minutes. Go!
How are you feeling?: Nervous since I lost the first pregnancy. Otherwise, tired, more frequent potty trips, sore boobs, slight cramping (which scares me the most)
Rants/Raves: None
Questions: I wish there was a way to know for sure that things are going well. As far as I know, HCG blood tests at the doctor's would be the only way to ensure counts are going up.
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive?
Lmao..... Bikini Bottom seems to be a relatively safe place. Highly likely I would survive. 😜
Upcoming Appointments: June 2nd -- seems like FOREVER away, so glad to have people to compare notes with in the interim
How are you feeling?: mild nausea, cramps and fatigue come and go
Rants/Raves: Like others, wish there was a way to know things were a-okay before next month, so we felt comfortable telling people. Sometimes it feels like a dream at this point!
Questions: How do we make the next 4 weeks go by quickly 🤣
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive?
I'm in the Ozarks. I may survive, but this show is so dark!
How are you feeling?: Still recovering from a cold and I tweaked my neck a couple days ago - don’t think either is related to pregnancy directly but the fatigue is real so I’m feeling like I’m on the struggle bus express LOL.
Rants/Raves: So far we’ve only told my mom and it’s been so nice to be able to talk about it since it’s all I can think about!
Questions: We’re interested in going with a midwife but I’m doing first appointment with my regular gynecologist. Wondering if that’s a normal route when you’re new to the process?
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive? I’m trapped in Severance… I think I’d survive but sounds nightmarish!
Upcoming Appointments: June 10th. Due to history, we already had one last week. Also our ultrasound day!
How are you feeling?: Nervous but HCG has been doubling!
Rants/Raves: Rant. Upset I was diagnosed with an autoimmune disease that has been causing my miscarriages. My body attacks itself and my baby until the baby passes and then I'm fine. But atleast now we can get a hold of a reproductive immunologist and see what I need to take. Lots of ER trips for steroids until then when I have a flare up. Will probably have "Goldy" mid December.
Questions: Can we fast forward to the second trimester?
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive? Forged in Fire. Haha well...I think so.
Ok y’all, just to clarify…the “team” question isn’t what sex of the baby you want to have. We all want healthy babies. It’s what you are actually having. I know for a lot of us it’s too early to know, but some of us who did IVF already know the sex. I’m team blue because I know we transferred one male embryo.
Upcoming Appointments: Wednesday, June 1st (and it feels sooooo far away)
How are you feeling?: Nervous, nauseous, bloated, and gassy 🤦♀️
Rants/Raves: My doctor's office refuses to do any scans until after 8 weeks, even though I have a history of MC and ectopic pregnancy. I know that even if I could just see a gestational sac in my uterus, I would feel so much better!
Questions: Only the normal googling questions, even though I've done this a few times... "Is this pain normal", "is it okay when certain symptoms lessen or disappear", etc. 🤷♀️
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive? Leave it to Beaver... I think I'll be okay! 🤣
Upcoming Appointments: May 26, it’s my first appointment and is only over the phone. Which feels like a long time to have an in-person, but this is my first pregnancy so maybe it’s normal
How are you feeling?: cramps here and there but mostly just exhausted. I could just empty the dishwasher and feel like I need a nap
Rants/Raves: grateful for these discussions because not having an ultrasound until 12 weeks and not telling anyone until then has been very isolating
Questions: is it normal to not have and ultrasound and first in-person appointment until 12 weeks? I talked to two different OB offices near me and they were both the same. Phone appointment at 8 weeks, ultrasound at 12.
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive?
I would be in London with the Ted Lasso gang, which I would love! London is one of my favorite cities so hoping I would not only survive but thrive:)
Team blue/pink/green: I want a boy but I think we’re going to keep it a surprise until delivery and just try all of the fun gender superstitions 😊
Upcoming Appointments: 5/26 viability and first ultrasound
How are you feeling?: good. Had some trouble sleeping and staying asleep but I’ve cut out caffeine and finally slept last night so hopefully that’s the fix.
Rants/Raves: No just so excited to finally be pregnant! 😍
Questions: How do you reassure yourself everything is fine until you see the heartbeat? How do you reassure your partner that everything is fine? My partner is so anxious that something will go wrong.
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive? Outlander- North Carolina in the 1700s 😅 definitely not surviving I need daily medication 😂
@nuggetsmomma21 things that reassure me are peeing on ALL the sticks to watch them become darker, as well as my beta hCG tests for actual quantitative numbers. Of course, everything was going well after my last transfer but at my first US it was a blighted ovum anyway…so my IPs and I are all just being cautiously optimistic.
How are you feeling?: Pretty good, I am tired and I’ve had a few moments of nausea. This is my 3rd and I know the nausea and tiredness will only get worse in the next few days and weeks so I’m trying to hold on to my last few days of feeling relatively normal!
Rants/Raves: My 5 year old brought home a cold + I teach AP and this week is their test so I am also exhausted due to all of that. Just want the school year to be done at this point.
Questions: Did anyone else feel cold as a early pregnancy symptom? I don’t remember this from either of my other pregnancies but I swear I am freezing and it’s been 70+ degrees where I live.
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive? Selling Sunset. I am in LA, I probably won’t be able to buy one of these houses but I think I’ll be just fine lol!
I worked at an OBGYN office. The reason they don't do scans until then unless you're high risk is for a few reasons. 1. Insurance typically only pays for one scan per trimester so they need a diagnosis to do a second, which is not likely to come from an early scan. 2. Heartbeats can be detected in office at 6 weeks is. 3. Miscarriages are very common (Id say more than 1 in 4) and in 99% of cases, cannot he stopped. Most first time women lose their babies before that point for chromosomal reasons before 10 weeks.
Personally, after losing nearly a dozen babies, I don't want to go in before 10 weeks to heart or see my baby to have it not be so later on. If you are worried, which is totally understandable and I'm in the same boat, your doc can order HCG tests to be done weekly.
EDD / Weeks + Days: January 17th / 3 weeks 3 days (SO early)
Baby is the size of a(n): The apps don't even say haha.
Team blue/pink/green: Will will find out ASAP.
Upcoming Appointments: Nope, Had my first blood draw today. My OB opened his new practice and the office seems a little discombobbled. So, I will call to follow up on next steps once I see my results on the portal.
How are you feeling?: Good. Slight waves of nausea but nothing major. I barely had any first trimester symptoms during my last pregnancy so I am not expecting much.
Rants/Raves: Nope.
Questions: Anyone else test positive so early. I literally got a positive at 8DPO / exactly 3 weeks pregnant. CRAZY!
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive? This is us. Yes, I would survive. I would love to be a Pearson! haha!
TTC History:
Started dating DH 2006 . Married 2015
TTC July 2015-November 2015
BFP November 2015 Baby boy born August 2016
Oops BFP February 2021 MMC March 2021
Back on BC for a year to decide what we want to do.
Had my 3rd beta this morning so I’m feeling a bit more ready to jump in and participate.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 1/8, 4w5d
Baby is the size of a(n): poppyseed
Team blue/pink/green: planning to find out
Upcoming Appointments: waiting to hear back from my RE
How are you feeling?: anxious but mostly good. Sore boobs, intermittent nausea, and fatigue are my main symptoms.
Rants/Raves: my beta was closer to doubled this morning so I’m remaining cautiously optimistic. But DD tested positive for Covid this morning which sucks. She’s not vaccinated yet since she’s only 4 and ineligible which is definitely giving me a lot of anxiety but hopefully it’ll stay mild. Honestly, if it weren’t for her having a fever this morning, I wouldn’t have even suspected.
Questions: nope
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive? Right now it’s Doc McStuffins. I’m confident I’ll survive but I’ll probably lose my mind 😂
@ReadyForaB I tested positive at 3 weeks as well and my HCG level was 17 then two days later was 56. I have an appointment later this month (May) with my normal physician who also delivered my first child .
Re: Weekly Check-In W/O 5/1
EDD / Weeks + Days: 1.8 / 4w0d
Baby is the size of a(n): grain of salt
Team: blue 💙 (we transferred 1 male embryo)
Upcoming Appointments: first beta hCG Tue 5/3
How are you feeling?: Fairly normal, I think I’m peeing more.
Rants/Raves: none
GTKY: I’m trapped in Brooklyn. Wouldn’t love living there, but I could get by. Especially if I get to hang out in the NYPD’s 99th precinct! Totally have a crush on Andy Samberg’s character, Jake.
Baby is the size of a poppy seed on a bagel!
How am I feeling? Like I want to stop crying and peeing😂. Seriously, I can’t be losing hydration like this, a girl can only drink so much water.
Rants/Raves: It’s great that pets have a sixth sense about pregnancy, but my cat can stop sleeping on my chest anytime now. And my dog can also stop taking my foot space😂. They usually sleep on the couch together but they’ve been glued to me for the past week. It’s great, I love it, but not when I’m sleeping😂.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 1/6/23; 4w3/4days (one app says 4w4d this one says 4w3d so not sure which one is actually correct!)
Baby is the size of a(n): poppyseed
Team blue/pink/green: Green
Upcoming Appointments: Sunday/Monday of this week
How are you feeling?: Ok. Nausea comes and goes, but just waiting for it to feel real after 2 losses but absolutely exhausted.
Rants/Raves: celebrate your husbands/partners! My husband made dinner last night because I was so tired from being out all day.
Questions: Nothing right now
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive?
Trapped in mid-60s with Julia Child in Boston. Would very easily survive!
Baby is the size of a(n): Sprinkle
Team blue/pink/green: Blue
Upcoming Appointments: May 18th
How are you feeling?: Nervous since I lost the first pregnancy. Otherwise, tired, more frequent potty trips, sore boobs, slight cramping (which scares me the most)
Rants/Raves: None
Questions: I wish there was a way to know for sure that things are going well. As far as I know, HCG blood tests at the doctor's would be the only way to ensure counts are going up.
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive?
Lmao..... Bikini Bottom seems to be a relatively safe place. Highly likely I would survive. 😜
Baby is the size of a(n): poppy seed
Team blue/pink/green: healthy!
Upcoming Appointments: June 2nd -- seems like FOREVER away, so glad to have people to compare notes with in the interim
How are you feeling?: mild nausea, cramps and fatigue come and go
Rants/Raves: Like others, wish there was a way to know things were a-okay before next month, so we felt comfortable telling people. Sometimes it feels like a dream at this point!
Questions: How do we make the next 4 weeks go by quickly 🤣
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive?
I'm in the Ozarks. I may survive, but this show is so dark!
Baby is the size of a(n): peppercorn
Team blue/pink/green: pink
Upcoming Appointments: 6/1
How are you feeling?: Still recovering from a cold and I tweaked my neck a couple days ago - don’t think either is related to pregnancy directly but the fatigue is real so I’m feeling like I’m on the struggle bus express LOL.
Rants/Raves: So far we’ve only told my mom and it’s been so nice to be able to talk about it since it’s all I can think about!
Questions: We’re interested in going with a midwife but I’m doing first appointment with my regular gynecologist. Wondering if that’s a normal route when you’re new to the process?
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive?
I’m trapped in Severance… I think I’d survive but sounds nightmarish!
Forged in Fire. Haha well...I think so.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 1-4-23/ 5 weeks 1 day
Baby is the size of a(n): apple seed
Team blue/pink/green: Green at this point!
Upcoming Appointments: Wednesday, June 1st (and it feels sooooo far away)
How are you feeling?: Nervous, nauseous, bloated, and gassy 🤦♀️
Rants/Raves: My doctor's office refuses to do any scans until after 8 weeks, even though I have a history of MC and ectopic pregnancy. I know that even if I could just see a gestational sac in my uterus, I would feel so much better!
Questions: Only the normal googling questions, even though I've done this a few times... "Is this pain normal", "is it okay when certain symptoms lessen or disappear", etc. 🤷♀️
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive? Leave it to Beaver... I think I'll be okay! 🤣
EDD / Weeks + Days: Jan 1/ 5w 4d
Baby is the size of a(n): lavender bud
Team blue/pink/green: too early to know!
Upcoming Appointments: May 26, it’s my first appointment and is only over the phone. Which feels like a long time to have an in-person, but this is my first pregnancy so maybe it’s normal
How are you feeling?: cramps here and there but mostly just exhausted. I could just empty the dishwasher and feel like I need a nap
Rants/Raves: grateful for these discussions because not having an ultrasound until 12 weeks and not telling anyone until then has been very isolating
Questions: is it normal to not have and ultrasound and first in-person appointment until 12 weeks? I talked to two different OB offices near me and they were both the same. Phone appointment at 8 weeks, ultrasound at 12.
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive?
I would be in London with the Ted Lasso gang, which I would love! London is one of my favorite cities so hoping I would not only survive but thrive:)
Baby is the size of a(n): braille dot/poppy seed
Team blue/pink/green: I want a boy but I think we’re going to keep it a surprise until delivery and just try all of the fun gender superstitions 😊
Upcoming Appointments: 5/26 viability and first ultrasound
How are you feeling?: good. Had some trouble sleeping and staying asleep but I’ve cut out caffeine and finally slept last night so hopefully that’s the fix.
Rants/Raves: No just so excited to finally be pregnant! 😍
Questions: How do you reassure yourself everything is fine until you see the heartbeat? How do you reassure your partner that everything is fine? My partner is so anxious that something will go wrong.
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive?
Outlander- North Carolina in the 1700s 😅 definitely not surviving I need daily medication 😂
EDD / Weeks + Days: Jan 3 5w + 2d
Baby is the size of a(n): apple sees
Team blue/pink/green: ?
Upcoming Appointments: May 24
How are you feeling?: Pretty good, I am tired and I’ve had a few moments of nausea. This is my 3rd and I know the nausea and tiredness will only get worse in the next few days and weeks so I’m trying to hold on to my last few days of feeling relatively normal!
Rants/Raves: My 5 year old brought home a cold + I teach AP and this week is their test so I am also exhausted due to all of that. Just want the school year to be done at this point.
Questions: Did anyone else feel cold as a early pregnancy symptom? I don’t remember this from either of my other pregnancies but I swear I am freezing and it’s been 70+ degrees where I live.
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive? Selling Sunset. I am in LA, I probably won’t be able to buy one of these houses but I think I’ll be just fine lol!
1. Insurance typically only pays for one scan per trimester so they need a diagnosis to do a second, which is not likely to come from an early scan.
2. Heartbeats can be detected in office at 6 weeks is.
3. Miscarriages are very common (Id say more than 1 in 4) and in 99% of cases, cannot he stopped. Most first time women lose their babies before that point for chromosomal reasons before 10 weeks.
Personally, after losing nearly a dozen babies, I don't want to go in before 10 weeks to heart or see my baby to have it not be so later on. If you are worried, which is totally understandable and I'm in the same boat, your doc can order HCG tests to be done weekly.
EDD / Weeks + Days: January 17th / 3 weeks 3 days (SO early)
Baby is the size of a(n): The apps don't even say haha.
Team blue/pink/green: Will will find out ASAP.
Upcoming Appointments: Nope, Had my first blood draw today. My OB opened his new practice and the office seems a little discombobbled. So, I will call to follow up on next steps once I see my results on the portal.
How are you feeling?: Good. Slight waves of nausea but nothing major. I barely had any first trimester symptoms during my last pregnancy so I am not expecting much.
Rants/Raves: Nope.
Questions: Anyone else test positive so early. I literally got a positive at 8DPO / exactly 3 weeks pregnant. CRAZY!
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive? This is us. Yes, I would survive. I would love to be a Pearson! haha!
TTC July 2015-November 2015
Baby boy born August 2016
Oops BFP February 2021
MMC March 2021
Back on BC for a year to decide what we want to do.
TTC Since March 2022
MMC June 2022
BFP September 2022 - Due June 2023!
Had my 3rd beta this morning so I’m feeling a bit more ready to jump in and participate.
EDD / Weeks + Days: 1/8, 4w5d
Baby is the size of a(n): poppyseed
Team blue/pink/green: planning to find out
Upcoming Appointments: waiting to hear back from my RE
How are you feeling?: anxious but mostly good. Sore boobs, intermittent nausea, and fatigue are my main symptoms.
Rants/Raves: my beta was closer to doubled this morning so I’m remaining cautiously optimistic. But DD tested positive for Covid this morning which sucks. She’s not vaccinated yet since she’s only 4 and ineligible which is definitely giving me a lot of anxiety but hopefully it’ll stay mild. Honestly, if it weren’t for her having a fever this morning, I wouldn’t have even suspected.
Questions: nope
GTKY: You’re trapped in the last show/movie you watched. Where are you, and will you survive? Right now it’s Doc McStuffins. I’m confident I’ll survive but I’ll probably lose my mind 😂