Continuing with the love theme:
How did your husband propose?
If you guys aren't married: what is the most romantic date you have been on?
Hubby and Me
Friends since 2008
Started dating: July 1st, 2013
Engaged: July 1st, 2014
Married: July 1st, 2016
R born: July 8th, 2017
N born: June 30th, 2019
Baby #3 Due: July 7th, 2022
(maybe I only ovulate in October XD)
Re: GTKY 2/15
TTC since 2017
3/18-9/18- IUI's
11/18- IVF #1
1/19- IVF #2
8/19- DE Cycle #1- 5 PGS tested normal
9/19- FET #1- SUCCESS! May 2020
10/21- FET #2- SUCCESS! July 2022
For years we'd go to the zoo a couple times a year. Enough that a zoo pass became my birthday present from my ILs every year. Most of the time we'd go, we'd stop at these benches that look out onto a lake within the zoo to take a break. It's about 2/3 of the way through our typical route.
He proposed at this bench on December 13, 2014 at 3:16. Aka 12-13-14-15-16. A once in a lifetime moment.
I learned stuff after the fact that made the day all the more special. Like why he had spilled water from the watering can he was filling up at the kitchen sink when I came up behind him to hug him. The ring was already in his pocket and my hand got a little close! 😆 I had always requested that he ask for my parent's blessing as a nicety since they are still a bit traditional. DH didn't call my dad until I was in the shower that morning and my dad didn't answer!! He called my mom and she's of course like "you should really talk to the Mr". My dad did finally call him back shortly before my shower finished. Poor DH was nearly in a panic lol.
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
My husband tried to make it special by proposing on Christmas in 2010, my favorite holiday, but his plans were dampened because my MIL, on a trip in Mexico, had a horrible seizure that day and was rushed to the hospital. They didn’t have insurance through the trip so the day had involved trying to get ahold of the US Consulate to get her back to the US for care. It was certainly bittersweet because we were excited but also sad and very worried for her.
We were on our way to go camping at my aunt and uncles place for the 4th of July. About half way there we decided to stop at a state park to go for a hike and stretch our legs. During the hike, as we were looking over some bluffs, he got down on one knee. He said something along the lines of supporting me in whatever I want to do (I had just decided to quit my job and go back to school). It was super sweet and I had no idea he was planning it. I later found out that he had written a poem too but chickened out actually reading it in the moment lol.
Married: 8/2015
TTC #1: 4/2017
Testing: HSG, U/S, BW, and DH's SA all normal
DX: Unexplained
8/2018: Clomid + TI = BFN
9/2018: Clomid + TI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2018: Clomid + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
12/2018: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone \\ Cancelled due to cyst
1/2019: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD Sept 30th, 2019
10/7/2019: Healthy baby boy!
TTC #2: 12/2020
2/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
3/2021: Letrozole + TI = BFN
4/2021: Surprise! Natural BFP! \\ EDD Jan 6th, 2022 \\ Chemical, betas not rising
8/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
9/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
10/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFN
11/2021: Letrozole + IUI + Progesterone = BFP! \\ EDD July 29th, 2022
And then he made me wait forever. He was graduating high school in June, and there were so many times I wondered if he was going to propose or not. Prom, graduation, family parties, etc. etc.
But he waited until our anniversary in July and he took me out to one of our favorite hiking spots with waterfalls and he even got down on his knee for a second.... and he didn't propose.
So we got back home and I was really confused as to when he was finally going to do it. And then after hiking for two hours, he asked me to go for a walk again. Which was really weird (especially because he has a foot thing that makes walking a lot difficult for him). But we went on a walk. And he took me back to the riverfront where we had our first kiss, at the exact same time we had our first kiss, and he proposed. It was perfect. He also couldn't talk because he was so nervous. I thought it was really cute, but I didn't know why! He already knew I was going to say yes.
Friends since 2008
Started dating: July 1st, 2013
Engaged: July 1st, 2014
Married: July 1st, 2016
R born: July 8th, 2017
N born: June 30th, 2019
Baby #3 Due: July 7th, 2022
(maybe I only ovulate in October XD)