Does anyone already have names picked out for both genders? Thought this would be a fun place for inspiration and feedback if requested (like deciding between two names).
Nope not yet. Won't until second trimester at some point
Current pregnancy - First BFP on 1/4/22.ย Due date 9/13/22.
Four prior losses, no living children - 1 first trimester miscarriage, 1 blighted ovum, 1 chemical, and one extreme premature live birth daughter who died at 15 days old.
Yep, we do. We use family names so weโre all good to go.ย
If itโs a boy it will be Michael Owen (Michael for my DH, Owen for my late father). If itโs a girl, her name will be Lily and still figuring out middle name but possibly Grace. Our first daughter is named after my paternal grandmother and if we have a second girl, she will be named after my maternal grandmother.ย
We will find out the gender at 12ish weeks. Last time we said, ok, we have months and months to pick a name. But the moment we found out we were having a boy, we couldnโt help brainstorming! Ok. I discovered I hate all names. Definitely the only good boy names are my husbandโs name and my sonโs name. There are no more. And there are clearly no good girl names. Thatโs my feeling right now. Although my husbandโs grandmother had a very interesting name that Iโd want to consider if we have a girl. My husbandโs father passed 2 years ago and if we had a boy Iโd like to honor him. But he had THE STRANGEST name ever! I donโt know how weโd pull that off. But, weโre not thinking about it for real until we find out.ย
@magnolia209 I hate all names too. My husband and I are both teachers so it makes it extra hard. We already started brainstorming. We'll use the boy name we've had picked out for awhile now, but a girl name we both can't agree. Hopefully we get a boy and it makes things easier, but because we're team green, we will have to figure out a girl name we like eventually.ย
I like a lot of names, but what the boy person likes tends to be completely different from what I like...since they will have my last name, what we agreed on last time is that the "initials" are his - since he is Christopher Joshua, our last one was Clementine Justice.ย We'll probably do that this time, too.
Current pregnancy - First BFP on 1/4/22.ย Due date 9/13/22.
Four prior losses, no living children - 1 first trimester miscarriage, 1 blighted ovum, 1 chemical, and one extreme premature live birth daughter who died at 15 days old.
@magnolia209. I also struggle with hating all names! ย We named my son after my late father which made things a lot easier but I have no clue what to do now when it comes to names.
I'll save myself the sanity and just figure out a name once we know the gender. DH hates all boy names so we are gonna struggle if it's a boy. My little girl now is Liza Carlysle (DH's middle name is Carlysle and that was also his grandaddy's first name).
Team green this time around, just like last time. We looked at names ahead of time, but wanted to see the baby first. Nearly 40 hours after her birth, we finally landed on one that fit her, and it wasn't one either of us considered (though the middle name was my mom's middle name, which was the plan). Turns out it actually has the same meaning of my late mom's name, which we didn't discover until a month later. I like to think it was my mom's way of saying, "I'm here." ๐ฅฐ
I have the problem that I *like* a lot of names, but love about 2โฆ which my kids are named haha. So Iโm at ZERO options right now. Hopefully in 9 months thatโll change!
But I need DH to think better. He just always says โgive me a list and Iโll veto what I donโt like.โ And I say โhow bout we just both make lists?โ ๐
@mokay19 the boy person does exactly the same thing.ย I make the list, he says "no" to nearly everything lol
Current pregnancy - First BFP on 1/4/22.ย Due date 9/13/22.
Four prior losses, no living children - 1 first trimester miscarriage, 1 blighted ovum, 1 chemical, and one extreme premature live birth daughter who died at 15 days old.
We're pretty well set on names. I decided this one's a girl. We all three are hoping for a girl - Reagan Pearl. There are two contenders for a boy right now. Clayton and Zig. Both have meaning to us. Clayton is easy to find a middle name for. Middle names we like are Lee, Ronald, and Glynn; these are all family names as wwell.ย Zig is a bit trickier.ย
Each of our families has a traditional middle name for the oldest boy/girl. We agreed on Vada Anne for a girl, but it turns out we both hate all boy names lol. Considering Augustus after my grandfather, but I donโt like Auggie as a nickname and my husband does. I prefer Gus. Also thinking of Beckett, Beck for short, or Ephraim with Remy for short. Middle name for a boy would be Lee. Just hoping on the name front that weโre having a girl - so much easier๐ ย
Boy names were much harder for me than girl names with my kids. I have a secret list on my phone for now that I will share once we find out the gender.
@leannechristina Aww. My middle name is Pearl. Itโs a great middle name! If you have a girl, tell her that a fun game is to ask people to guess her middle name that starts with P. No one has ever ever ever guessed mine!ย
@laj0217 My good friendโs little boy is August and goes by Gus! Itโs a great name and not overly common.
I don't think it needs to be, but it can be if other people want it to be.
Current pregnancy - First BFP on 1/4/22.ย Due date 9/13/22.
Four prior losses, no living children - 1 first trimester miscarriage, 1 blighted ovum, 1 chemical, and one extreme premature live birth daughter who died at 15 days old.
So funny you are may be choosing Zig! My husband is German, and wants to incorporate some sort of German name into our family. Sigfried/Sigmund are two names that often get shortened to Ziggy in Germany, so we now may be using that as our go to boy name! Ziggy Grey will most likely be his name if itโs a boy!ย
@jhysmath I feel you! I'm an elementary school principal and my husband is a (former) HS chemistry teacher. Every name has been ruined or taken by some child already.ย
For a girl we have these first and middle names: Lillian Alexandra Freya Elise Selene Astriel Autumn Aster Luna Lux (this one is mostly the husband) Stella Theia
Boy names were harder but we have: Lucien Alistair Herschel Silas Joseph Garand Jack Octavian Carter Orion Oberon Atlas Ignis Altair.ย
Not sold on any one name but Freya Elise and Lillian Alexandra at the moment but thatโs our list.
Each of our families has a traditional middle name for the oldest boy/girl. We agreed on Vada Anne for a girl, but it turns out we both hate all boy names lol. Considering Augustus after my grandfather, but I donโt like Auggie as a nickname and my husband does. I prefer Gus. Also thinking of Beckett, Beck for short, or Ephraim with Remy for short. Middle name for a boy would be Lee. Just hoping on the name front that weโre having a girl - so much easier๐ ย
I don't know if this will help any for an idea, but before my husband and I agreed on our names, we were going to use Briggs as one. Since you're leaning towards the B's, it could also be a good optional middle or first name.
I do like Briggs, but my cousin used it with her last one! I have 25 first cousins and most have kids now, so we might need to get over โreusingโ a name lol
We have a girls first name picked out, but are struggling to agree on a name for a boy. My boyfriend wants to name them after him as a โJrโ but I honestly hate the whole โJrโ thing and always have. I feel like they will already be taking his last name so I should be able to have a say in the first name. Middle name I care less about so he can pick that for both genders. I love him but I donโt want an Anthony Jr running around, even a nickname like โAJโ for that would kill me. Reminds me of a boy band ๐คท๐ผโโ๏ธ๐
@lucyg00cy the number one reason why I hate Jr is because it means MIL picked the name. Now if it was a 4th or long tradition, maybe that wouldn't be as bad.ย
We already have our girl name we didn't use for our son: Juniper Raye.ย
For a boy, I'm liking Owen Wilder or Nathan Thaddeus. It's still in flux though. I like to have the name picked out early, like by the time I find out the sex, but that still gives me a few months to commit.ย
Meย 30ย Himย 30 Marriedย August 2015 DS born 5/23/2018 TTC #2 July 2020
@jhysmath LOL also true. This would be the first junior and he wasnโt even named after any family member previously so the hunt for a boy name continues!!ย
We have our top names for each gender. (Although I have a strong feeling itโs a boy). My husbands family has the tradition of two middle names and we have chosen to keep middle names family names.ย
For a girl we would go with Honey Bea (short for Barbra) Hudson or Honey Hudson Marie. Hudson is my maiden name.ย
For a boy we are set on Wyoming Timothy James. We would call him Wylie which is my best friends middle name. ๐
Weโre team green again. We already decided if itโs a boy weโll use the same name we had picked out if our daughter had of been a girl. If itโs a girl we will go with a traditional Irish nameย
I have a list of names I like that Iโll share with my husband once we know gender. Iโm sure if I share now he wonโt like any of them ๐คฃ That said, Iโm struggling with name association because one of my top girl names was the name of my paternal grandmother whom I didnโt have a great relationship with. I canโt help but think my family would all assume I was honoring her.ย
@leannechristina Zig is my first choice boy name also and Iโve never heard anyone else consider it! My husband and I are both big Glenn Danzig fans.ย
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First BFP on 1/4/22.ย Due date 9/13/22.
First BFP on 1/4/22.ย Due date 9/13/22.
I'll save myself the sanity and just figure out a name once we know the gender. DH hates all boy names so we are gonna struggle if it's a boy. My little girl now is Liza Carlysle (DH's middle name is Carlysle and that was also his grandaddy's first name).
But I need DH to think better. He just always says โgive me a list and Iโll veto what I donโt like.โ And I say โhow bout we just both make lists?โ ๐
First BFP on 1/4/22.ย Due date 9/13/22.
First BFP on 1/4/22.ย Due date 9/13/22.
Lillian Alexandra
Freya Elise
Selene Astriel
Autumn Aster
Luna Lux (this one is mostly the husband)
Stella Theia
Lucien Alistair
Herschel Silas
Joseph Garand
Jack Octavian
Carter Orion
Oberon Atlas
Ignis Altair.ย
Girl: Irene Mavis (Both our grandmothers and I just thought Mavis was old school pretty).
For a boy, I'm liking Owen Wilder or Nathan Thaddeus. It's still in flux though. I like to have the name picked out early, like by the time I find out the sex, but that still gives me a few months to commit.ย
Marriedย August 2015
DS born 5/23/2018
TTC #2 July 2020