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LJMoon6 · January 2022

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LJMoon6 · January 2022

I haven't had sex with my husband since we conceived this child

stardustskies · January 2022

@LJMoon6 No judgements here, I think we've only done it twice, maybe 3 times. I'm considering it payback for my last pregnancy when he didn't touch me for the entire 9 months.

sunshineandlemons · January 2022

@LJMoon6 no judgment here either. From early December to now, I’ve either been on pelvic rest or someone in our house has been sick. Hopefully, we’ll turn a new corner soon.

My house is an absolute wreck. My husband took the kids to his mom’s house because he can’t work with them around (to be fair, he’s an IT PM and is leading tons of meetings). He is planning on catching up on work this weekend and as long as my Covid doesn’t get worse, I’m going to go try to purge a ton of stuff and get things organized. Then, maybe next weekend as long as we are all healthy, this stuff can be loaded into the car and donated! I feel like I need so much more room with adding another person into our family and need the housing market to cool down before we buy a new house (our particular area is in a bubble and showing no signs of slowing yet).

velvetblue88 · January 2022

@LJMoon6 Yeah, no judgement. We had sex once, and it led to spotting, which meant an extra trip to the OB to learn everything was fine. But I've been worried about doing it again since. But these 2nd trimester hormones.... My birthday is next week, and the day before an OB appointment, so I already told him I want sex for my bday, and if I spot, I already have an appointment. 😆

inthewoods23 · January 2022

@LJMoon6 I think we're up to 2 times here? haha. We definitely didn't want to disturb anything in 1st tri until after a handful of my weekly ultrasounds proving baby was growing as he should.

I'm generally in the mood for it when waking up or in the middle of the day because I'm thinking about it. Less often do I want it before bed because I'm f*cking tired and want sleep. I have to basically convince DH since his sex drive is nearly nonexistent so you can imagine how the last 4 years have felt having to almost force the sex to hit our FW. Once I get him going though he's enjoying it, but the man never initiates so I feel like our sex life is boring!! Also he hates lingerie so no sexy looks here haha

LJMoon6 · January 2022

@stardustskies Omg. The whole 9 months?! I don’t think I could go that long. What was his excuse?

@sunshineandlemons That’s true. We’ve been taking turns being sick for the past couple months. And a good chunk of the first trimester I was on progesterone and pelvic rest too. That makes me feel a little better. We need to purge and organize a bunch of stuff too. I keep putting it off.

@velvetblue88 That’s what I was mostly worried about. I didn’t want to start spotting and then freak out about it. Good plan with having an OB appointment right afterwards. That will help

@inthewoods23 You bring up a good point. TTC and forcing sex during the FW has definitely put a hamper on our moods. More so mine than MH’s. I just needed a break from feeling like I NEEDED to have sex all the time.

MH made the comment to me the other day (before we got our NIPT results back) that he thought we were having a girl because I don’t want to have sex with him but I did when I was pregnant with DS…. Maybe he has a point lol.

stardustskies · January 2022

@LJMoon6 Just that it was weird with a baby being in there 😂 Seems that he's over it this go round lol

inthewoods23 · January 2022

Ok my FFFC is that DH and I are playing Super Auto Pets on our phones instead of working. Excellent use of our time

LJMoon6 · January 2022

@stardustskies Lol. MH got like that last time towards the end because he swears DS punched him lol

@inthewoods23 Work? What’s that? I swear I haven’t done a single thing at work this week. I hate who I’ve become… but I have no motivation to change lol. (I also find it super sweet that you and YH are playing games on the phones together!)

peppylilfoxy · January 2022

I danced when I found out a student wasn't coming to school today... I work with behavior kids and that one broke my nose last Friday... I feel so terrible for taking joy in a kid not coming to school but this specific one is exhausting.

LJMoon6 · January 2022

@peppylilfoxy A kid broke your nose last week?! Holy hell, how did that happen?

peppylilfoxy · January 2022

@LJMoon6 long story short, I got headbutted in the face. Can't elaborate much more due to confidentiality. But yeah, doc said I broke my septum so it's now deviated.

LJMoon6 · January 2022

@peppylilfoxy Oh man that sounds awful! I’m so sorry that happened to you.

peppylilfoxy · January 2022

@LJMoon6 meh, it comes with the territory... I love my job and love seeing when these kids make improvements and get to go back to their home schools! It's my dream job.

LJMoon6 · January 2022

That makes it all worth it.

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