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Month/Cycle:
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WAYDTGKU:
R/R:
CS/Q:
Re: WTO Monday 1/24
Month/Cycle: 2/2
CD: 5
WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPK
R/R: I am currently in isolation 😩 As a teacher, I’m always being directly exposed to the virus, so I pay attention and monitor symptoms. We have had a breakout in our team between students and teachers, and I started showing symptoms Saturday.
TW: LO mentioned
I had to take a sick day today since I don’t have results yet, and we got a snow day today! Hooray for not losing a sick day!!!!
CS/Q: nothing yet.@ejoseph16 ugh isolation is the worst, I'm sorry. I hope everyone feels better soon.
Month/Cycle: 15/13
CD: 11
WAYDTGKU: CBAD, IUI if insurance comes thru
R/R: I'm tired. I didn't sleep well last night. Had a good cry on my husband last night for reasons mentioned in the mental health thread, which was cathartic. Now I'm doing a long day on campus. Hoping to hear from the RE today about plans for this cycle.
@fantasyflyte Oof. I'm so sorry that your preauth isn't in yet and also all the rest of the stuff you're dealing with. I'm sending a hug and I hope that you take good care of yourself this week.
Month/Cycle: 5/6
CD: 13
WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPKs, vitamins
R/R: Nothing too exciting over here. Just trying to get my week in order and start off with purpose. I have a pleasantly meeting-free week so I hope I can capitalize on it.
CS/Q: Not really. Chart is looking good. Had an almost-positive OPK today so I'll test again later and see where I stand. I'll probably be here another day or two but we'll see.@fantasyflyte I'm glad your DH could be a good support for you. Fingers crossed that you hear back from both your RE and insurance company soon!
@Paturkey Super jealous of your meeting-free week. Hope it stays that way!
Month/Cycle: 5/5 AL
CD: 12
WAYDTGKU: vitamins, CoQ10, progesterone, OPKs
R/R: I went to a weight training class this week and holy cow are my muscles complaining about it today! Hoping to make it a weekly thing to complement the walking/jogging I've been trying to do. My work is a little crazy this week, so I maybe on more lurker status later in the week.
CS/Q: Not today@fantasyflyte I love crying it out with my husband (where I cry and he listens and consoles). I hope you feel better.
@Paturkey Enjoy your meeting free week. That will never happen to me (unless I "take vacation" but actually work in secret.)
@abjm0325 your lurking is always welcomed.
Month/Cycle: 24/19/2AL
CD: 3
WAYDTGKU: everything + added TCM herbs
R/R: I had my acupuncturist appointment on Friday and expressed desire to try some Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) herbs for the next couple of months to really clear things out before my transfer (or, you know, if we get KUs 'spontaneously'). The plan is that I take 1 herb CD1-3, another herb, CD4-13, another one CD14-18, and then finally a fourth from CD19-33 (or whenever my cycle ends). Anyways, the first herb is meant to get the blow flowing and really get rid of the old blood and let me tell you.... it WORKS. I had a massive bleed day yesterday (CD2)... my menstrual cup overflowed 2x during the day, and I had to empty it 4 times in total. This never happened. I also noticed my blood was a lot less clotty than normally. Anyways, I'm excited to see how this plays out.
CS/Q: Nope.TTC#2
TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023
@acleverusername Sounds like some very interesting herbs you have; I hope that they work well for you! I also hope that everything is going well with the move!
@ejoseph16 Sorry your covid has been confirmed but at least you're halfway through isolation...
@ejoseph16 totally read Dec 2020 as Dec 2021; it's like the last 2 years never happened. I"m sorry you've got a positive confirmation again; but like you said, only 2 more days!
@abjm0325 Oh, I don't mind sharing but this might seem like mumbo-jumbo. I've been spending the past few days researching and learning more about TCM. Here are the herbs I'm taking and what they're mean to do (they were chosen by my acupuncturist/herbalist based on my Eastern medicine diagnosis; there is no parallel to Western medicine diagnosis.)
Phase 1 - Tao Hong Si Wu Tang - CD1-3 >> supposed to invigorate and tonify blood; whatever that means. I'm guessing it means to get the blood moving and out of my uterus.
Phase 2 - Modified Zuo Gui Wan - CD 4-13 >> this one is to tonify my Qi and tonify blood; once again, unsure what that means, but supposedly it's to make sure the egg that grows is off good quality
Phase 3 - Modified Ou Dai Lian - CD 14-18 >> invigorates blood to release egg
The Eastern medicine diagnosis comes from looking at my tongue and measuring my 7 pulses. I'm afraid I didn't listen all too well to my acupuncturist (it was A LOT of info), but I recall her saying something about low back pain (definitely have it) as well as sleep issues and digestion issues. She said I have a lot of heat in my lower abdomen. I hope that was helpful? At this point, I'm basically willing to try anything and everything since 2 years of doing the Western medicine thing hasn't really worked. Plus, it is a bit reassuring that I have embryos in the bank.
TTC#2
TTC #2 ... preparing as of March 2024
TTC #1
TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing
03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH.
06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering...
06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023