Trying to Get Pregnant

WTO Tuesday 1/25

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Re: WTO Tuesday 1/25

  • Month/Cycle: 5/6

    CD: 14

    WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPKs, vitamins

    R/R: Today I've been dealing with an annoying legal situation that I've been putting off so that's been good. It will feel absolutely amazing once it's all done but I feel like that could still take a while because somehow it always does... 

    CS/Q: I'm confused about O. I had a big temp spike today which indicates O would be yesterday, but I only turned a positive OPK last night and am still testing positive today. I have had a cold for a few days so that could be influencing my temp but any thoughts on if O was/is yesterday/today? TIA and chart in spoiler.


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  • Month/Cycle: 15/13

    CD: 12

    WAYDTGKU: the usual, plus letrozole and IUI hopefully

    R/R: My preauth still shows as processing, bah. And we may get a blizzard this weekend, which would royally mess with IUI plans if I ovulate right then, so I guess we'll see? I'd really have preferred this cycle to be cut and dry lol. Also was able to reschedule my annual gyn visit for Friday which makes me happy because my anxiety has decided to latch on to and catastrophize the cyclical breast/armpit pain I get that I was planning to ask her about anyway. I'm sure it's nothing because I also get cyclical ovarian pain on the same side, and nothing's been mentioned during any of the ultrasounds I've had of THAT region recently, but anxiety doesn't care about that, yayyyyy brains!

    CS/Q:




  • Month/Cycle: 2/2

    CD: 6

    WAYDTGKU: BBT, OPK

    R/R: As luck would have it, even though I’m isolated with Covid in a time where we have to use sick days again for testing positive, I have had to use ZERO sick days! We got 4 inches of snow Sunday, resulting in a snow day yesterday. Then yesterday we had another snow band go through, giving us a snow day again today. Tomorrow morning we are supposed to have a wind chill around -15 degrees, so we may have another day off tomorrow. My students may never even know I tested positive 😂 I am starting to feel a little better (or the medicine MH picked up is actually working), so hopefully that trends upward! Our new house is starting to be built Friday, so I’m hopeful to be out of isolation by then. 

    CS/Q: nope. Day 6, AF is still here, so nothing to report!
  • @ejoseph16 Woohoo on the house build! I'm glad you are starting to feel better and how convenient that work is cancelled so you don't have to use sick days!

    @fantasyflyte I'm glad you got an apt in with your gyn; hopefully they can answer any questions you have and help to assuage your anxiety. Of course, anxiety laughs in the face of logic and facts. "Bwahahahaha, you think you can tame me with your reason? I have irrationality on my side; I will not be vanquished!" If nothing else I'm here to commiserate and employ dark humor to get us through 😁 
  • @Paturkey Good luck with that legal issue. I've got one on my own I need to handle just as soon as I move and I've put it off for > 1 year now. 

    @fantasyflyte good luck with the OBGYN; I hope that pain is nothing. And holy cow... this cycle has been anything BUT cut and dry. It's like the world is conspiring against you. Sending hugs. 

    @ejoseph16 wow! That's a LOT of snow days! Does school normally get cancelled if it's cold too? Being from Canada, I don't ever remember having school be closed on super cold days; just on snow days. Also, how many snow days do you get on average per year? How do you make up for time lost? 

    Month/Cycle: 24/19/2AL

    CD: 4

    WAYDTGKU: everything + TCM herbs 

    R/R: I don't actually know how it's possible to have as many meeting as I do. 90% of my day is spent in meetings. I got on the computer early (8:45) today to get some actual work done, since I'm in meetings non-stop from 10-6pm. And I also have therapy during lunch, so that too is a meeting. Wonderful. No wonder my posture is so crappy.

    Starting a new TCM herb today to build good lining. Excited to see how this one tastes. The other one tasted a lot like celery; MH tried a bit and grimaced. Haha. 

    CS/Q: nah.

    TTC History
    TTC#2
    Me: 41; MH: 40 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    Mar 2024 | consult to get established with a new reproductive immunologist (Alan Beer Center)
    Apr/May 2024 | required testing & waiting for a protocol
    May 2024 | protocol given / decided to go back to my old reproductive immunologist, Dr. Jubiz
    Jun / Jul 2024 | more testing, incl. SIS, ultrasound, and endometrial biopsy
    Jul 2024 | Dx chronic endometritis; 14 days of 100mg of doxy given
    Sep 2024 | Repeat endometrial biopsy; still + for chronic endometritis. 2 more antibiotics + an antiviral
    Oct 2024 | Hysteroscopy turned polypectomy; endometriosis consult w/ specialist who confirmed high likelihood of endo based on symptoms and ultrasound; lots of blood tests ordered
    Mar 2025 | Endo excision surgery. Stage 3 endo found! Recoveing
    Apr 2025 | Planning transfer w/ RE & green light protocol w/ RI; target transfer July or August 2025
    May 2025 | Surprise BFP! EDD 1/11/2026


    TTC #1
    Me: 36, MH: 34 | Met 02/2009 | Started Dating 08/2017 | Married 02/02/2020
    TTC #1 02/2020 - 07/2022
    2009 | Dx PCOS; likely a misdiagnosis
    07/14/20 | Dx Hashimoto's Thyroditis
    07/21/20 | 1st RE appointment
    07/2120 - 08/20/20 | so much testing; no signs of PCOS
    08/20/20 | Dx Unexplained; AMA
    09/08/20 | IUI #1 Clomid + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    09/30/20 | Urology consult; more testing required
    10/2020 | Clomid + OPK + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    10/26/2020 | Starting 2nd IUI cycle, with Letrazole and with a new RE / different clinic
    11/03/2020 | New Dx "poor egg quality"; IUI cancelled in favor of Trigger + TI + Prometrium | BFN
    11/26/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Menopur) + Trigger + Prometrium | BFN
    12/20/2020 | Combo IUI (Clomid + Gonal-F) + Trigger | IUI Cancelled due to thin lining; TI only | BFN
    01/14/2021 | Combo IUI (Letrazole + Menopur) + Trigger | BFN
    02/06/2021 | Switched to a new RE (TEW) ; trying naturally until we complete additional testing 
    03/14/2021 | Hybrid Double IUI, with Zymot (Letrazole, Gonal-F) + Trigger + Endometrin | Ovulated 4 mature eggs but still a BFN ☹️
    04/07/2021 | Natural cycle while we regroup | BFN
    04/09/2021 | Employer announces fertility benefits starting 05/01/2021! | Search for a new doctor who accepts insurance
    05/10/2021 | New RE consult & plan for IVF
    05/13/2021 | Mid-luteal IVF cycle #1 interrupted; had to get cancer genetic screening done to make sure I didn't have the same SDHA gene mutation as MH. 
    06/10/2021 | Aygestin priming IVF cycle #1; opted to Cx after 9 days of stims since only 5-6/12 follicles responded
    07/26/2021 | Attempt #2 at IVF cycle #1 (mid-luteal start): 8 retrieved, 8 MII, 6 fert (1 PN3), 3 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 3AA, 3AA, 6AB; 3 euploid
    08/09/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC | Shockingly, a BFP! EDD: 5/25/202 | CP at 4w4d
    09/23/2021 | IVF cycle #2 (mid-luteal start): 14 retrieved, 13 MII, 11 fert, 5 Day 5 & 6 blasts: 2 x 3AA, 2 x 3AB, 3BB; 2 euploid
    11/12/2021 | IVF cycle #3 (mid-luteal start): cancelled due to ovaries being on vacation
    12/20/2021 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + Pregmune Immunology Testing; BFN
    01/22/2022 | Rest cycle / unmedicated TTC + understanding uncovered immunological issues; BFN
    02/18/2022 | Mock transfer cycle! ERA, ReceptivaDx, EMMA/ALICE; start Prednisone to address NK activity
    03/16/2022 | Final, "Hail Mary" super-ovulation + TI cycle before FET; BFP! EDD: 12/21/2022 | MMC 05/08/2022
    05/20/2022 | D&C; recovering... 
    06/21/2022 | Trying naturally until October 2022
    07/21/2022 | BFP! EDD 04/02/2023; 👦🏼 born on 4/5/2023


  • @Paturkey I definitely think O was yesterday, judging by your tests and temp. Who knows though. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I’m by no means a master at this! lol 

    @fantasyflyte I’m glad you got your OBGYN appt! Hopefully everything just becomes clear for a successful IUI. Fingers crossed!

    @acleverusername eh, it seems rules have changed around here. I’m in Ohio, and we cancel school if we are under a snow emergency or if our real feel temp is -15 or lower. We never closed for cold when I was younger, but I don’t mind it as a teacher! We get 5 calamity days before we have to make up days, but anymore we can just go remote on snow days. Covid has made that possible! That’s a crazy amount of meetings! I hope you’re at least in a comfortable chair! 😂
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