Sorry if there is already a discussion started but I'm freaking out. Just found out we are having twins. we had an almost 4 year old. Never thought I would have twins and im terrified. money, bigger cars, way more diapers, double everything!
Hey @katek819! There have been a few twin discussions in Randoms this week, because we have so many multiples mamas here! It was suggested to start a weekly or monthly check-in so you all can keep track of each other and get more direct help from other multiple mamas! Any chance you would mind changing this post up a bit while you still can to be more inclusive, maybe as a check in? Instead of just a one off? I know @darkrose88 mentioned her previous bmb had a layout for a multiples check in- maybe you can share that here @darkrose?
Congratulations on your twins! I can’t imagine the excitement and shock that comes with finding twins/multiples!! I’m so glad there are so many other mamas here to commiserate with you!
Hey, @Katek819 I just found out this week we are expecting twins too! It's very overwhelming, but I'm so excited. This is our first time in this rodeo.
So let's check in. Mom's of multiples:
EDD/WeeksDays:
How many are you expecting?
Fraternal/Identical:
How do you feel?
Anything different about this pregnancy than you've noticed in previous pregnancies or from other threads?
Questions:
Advice:
GTKY: What are you doing to take care of yourself this week?
EDD/WeeksDays: Aug 17/ 9 weeks 1 day but based off last US they should measure 9+4
How many are you expecting? 2!
Fraternal/Identical: identical
How do you feel? Excited and a little anxious/worried. I may have sort of prayed for twins but didn't expect it to happen so quickly. 32 and want at least 3 kids...maybe 5 . Though let's see how 2 goes 😂
Anything different about this pregnancy than you've noticed in previous pregnancies or from other threads? First time Mom here, did have MMC at 8 weeks and a couple CP. I started feeling extremely hungry at 5 or 6 weeks whereas the first I kind of lost desire for food.
Questions: Anyone else concerned about preeclampsia/high BP? Mine was high at my OB appt but I was having a little PTSD about the US because of my missed miscarriage earlier this year. I've been checking it at home and it's been pretty good. Hopingvto keep it down.
Advice:Take one day at a time!
GTKY: What are you doing to take care of yourself this week? Trying to get a ton of nutrition. So much fruit, dairy, veggies. Sleep is usually my weak point so making a point to get to bed before 10:30. Exercise- trying to maintain active. Harder than usual because I'm tired after work and don't want to get up early. We just got beautiful fresh ❄ so enjoying cross country skiing the last couple days.
Hi everyone! I’m super excited to also be expecting twins! This is my first pregnancy and while I’m very nervous, I’m very excited as well!
> EDD/WeeksDays: I was 8 weeks as of yesterday and we are expecting 8/24.
> How many are you expecting? We are expecting twins!
> Fraternal/Identical: Identical
> How do you feel?I am very nervous as I found out very early. I’m still early in my pregnancy and this is my first pregnancy as well. It was very unexpected.
> GTKY: What are you doing to take care of yourself this week? I have the week off work, I’m just resting a lot. Lots of sleeping and drinking lots of water!
@kelsea-miller20 welcome! I'm around the same time as you, just 8 weeks this week. I feel like I drink gallons of water a day. I'm having trouble sleeping and I find myself sooooo thirsty at night.
@kbtt2022 i am also concerned. I had it with my first pregnancy. Although to begin with i am overweight and had uncontrolled pre hypertension then. Now that i am on BP meds I’m a little less concerned.
Not gonna lie my first pregnancy was awful for many reasons but i just want to let you know that PreE can happen after delivery too. I tell everyone this bc I had no idea and it snuck up on me. I just like to pass along the insight. I had breathing problems after my c-section and was rehospitalized. A lot of people tried to tell me it was anxiety causing the breathing issues but i had pulmonary edema.
Sorry i will get off my soapbox now it’s just that since it happened to me I don’t want it to happen to others.
@bridgiebee82 I’m already having low back pain and feel like I can’t get comfortable no matter where I sit or sleep. I generally don’t drink a lot of water (I know) but I’ve been trying my best to drink at least 10 cups a day and I’ve been achieving that!
Hey ladies! I'm so glad we have a multiples check in! I love that there are so many of us!
So let's check in. Mom's of multiples:
EDD/WeeksDays: 7w5d
How many are you expecting? 4 😳😳😳😳 spontaneous quadruplets;
Fraternal/Identical: all fraternal!
How do you feel? Still in shock but I feel like I'm going so fast so crampy and exhausted
Anything different about this pregnancy than you've noticed in previous pregnancies or from other threads? I've had 2 sets of twins preciously (also spontaneous) but this time I feel more crampy
Questions:
Advice: hang in there!
GTKY: What are you doing to take care of yourself this week? Getting so much extra sleep and taking it easy on household chores
I'm relieved that they all have their own sacs and placentas! I'm still nervous but it takes a level of complication out. I can't wait for our next ultrasound, it's not until Feb, 11th and it feels so far away! When they called to schedule it they were like "this is a 2 hour ultrasound, a half hour for each baby" 😳 that is a long ultrasound 😂
@Knottied3cfee6e3dbcb220 I am expecting twins first pregnancy first ovulation too! Congrats that’s so exciting. And don’t worry, so far I am the google queen lol! Definitely suggest What To Expect When You Are Expecting. I got it off Amazon and it’s like the pregnancy bible!
Hi! Coming over from September babies- my due date is Sept 1st. But found out it’s twins and so I’m jumping to august, since I was kind of on the cusp anyways! im 36, have 4 and 2 year old boys - went for one more and got a BOGO! Honestly very nervous- my first pregnancy I had zero fears and the older I get I get more anxious😅 I have been feeling pretty crappy, exhaustion and waves of nausea, all foods sound awful at this point. Just making myself eat.
Twins are di/di, saw their heartbeats at 6 weeks! Praying they stay safe! Ps all the reading about “advanced maternal age” is really making me anxious! I FEEL 25, don’t know how I got to 36 so quickly😂
How do you feel? REALLY nauseous ;) Work is getting so hard!!! I also feel so useless at home :( my poor husband has been doing everything!
Anything different about this pregnancy than you've noticed in previous pregnancies or from other threads? I think it’s harder this time around because I have a 14 month old that I’m running after!
Questions: how does everyone handle making dinner and smelly stuff like that :) I find that I can’t go near my kitchen, and I really don’t want to be giving my family so much takeout! It’s also so expensive!
Advice: eat small frequent meals!
GTKY: What are you doing to take care of yourself this week? Taking naps!
Welcome @knottie42a53a134d7df52c! We are so glad you're here! Naps are my favorite too! Some of the ladies in other threads have suggested wearing a mask when cooking or cleaning to help with smells. We'd love to get to know you better. Drop into the introductions page and tell us some more about yourself. There is also a Read before posting thread with instructions on gif and spoilers and all kinds of stuff if you're new to TB. You may want to consider changing your username to reflect something more personal and so that it's easier to tag you. So excited to be on this multiples journey with you!
Re: Mommas of multiples check in
Congratulations on your twins! I can’t imagine the excitement and shock that comes with finding twins/multiples!! I’m so glad there are so many other mamas here to commiserate with you!
So let's check in. Mom's of multiples:
EDD/WeeksDays:
How many are you expecting?
Fraternal/Identical:
How do you feel?
Anything different about this pregnancy than you've noticed in previous pregnancies or from other threads?
Questions:
Advice:
GTKY: What are you doing to take care of yourself this week?
How many are you expecting? 2! Twins!!!
Fraternal/identical: As far as we know, identical.
How many are you expecting? 2!
Fraternal/Identical: identical
How do you feel? Excited and a little anxious/worried. I may have sort of prayed for twins but didn't expect it to happen so quickly. 32 and want at least 3 kids...maybe 5 . Though let's see how 2 goes 😂
Anything different about this pregnancy than you've noticed in previous pregnancies or from other threads? First time Mom here, did have MMC at 8 weeks and a couple CP. I started feeling extremely hungry at 5 or 6 weeks whereas the first I kind of lost desire for food.
Questions: Anyone else concerned about preeclampsia/high BP? Mine was high at my OB appt but I was having a little PTSD about the US because of my missed miscarriage earlier this year. I've been checking it at home and it's been pretty good. Hopingvto keep it down.
Advice:Take one day at a time!
GTKY: What are you doing to take care of yourself this week?
Trying to get a ton of nutrition. So much fruit, dairy, veggies.
Sleep is usually my weak point so making a point to get to bed before 10:30.
Exercise- trying to maintain active. Harder than usual because I'm tired after work and don't want to get up early. We just got beautiful fresh ❄ so enjoying cross country skiing the last couple days.
> EDD/WeeksDays: I was 8 weeks as of yesterday and we are expecting 8/24.
> How many are you expecting? We are expecting twins!
> Fraternal/Identical: Identical
> How do you feel?I am very nervous as I found out very early. I’m still early in my pregnancy and this is my first pregnancy as well. It was very unexpected.
> GTKY: What are you doing to take care of yourself this week? I have the week off work, I’m just resting a lot. Lots of sleeping and drinking lots of water!
i am also concerned. I had it with my first pregnancy. Although to begin with i am overweight and had uncontrolled pre hypertension then. Now that i am on BP meds I’m a little less concerned.
if you have questions about twins let me know!!
I've had 2 sets of twins preciously (also spontaneous) but this time I feel more crampy
How many are you expecting? 2
Fraternal/Identical: fraternal
How do you feel? Started nausea medicine so much better!
Anything different about this pregnancy than you've noticed in previous pregnancies or from other threads? First pregnancy (first ovulation too 😂)
Questions: anyone else use an ovulation medicine like clomid? (I’m guessing with identical it doesn’t matter)
Advice: I’m doing lots of research but that may just be my personality.
GTKY: What are you doing to take care of yourself this week? Sleep! And eating the fresh foods I’m craving.
I can't wait for our next ultrasound, it's not until Feb, 11th and it feels so far away! When they called to schedule it they were like "this is a 2 hour ultrasound, a half hour for each baby" 😳 that is a long ultrasound 😂
im 36, have 4 and 2 year old boys - went for one more and got a BOGO!
Honestly very nervous- my first pregnancy I had zero fears and the older I get I get more anxious😅
I have been feeling pretty crappy, exhaustion and waves of nausea, all foods sound awful at this point. Just making myself eat.
Ps all the reading about “advanced maternal age” is really making me anxious! I FEEL 25, don’t know how I got to 36 so quickly😂
How many are you expecting? 2
Fraternal/Identical: don’t know yet!
How do you feel? REALLY nauseous ;)
Work is getting so hard!!! I also feel so useless at home :( my poor husband has been doing everything!
Anything different about this pregnancy than you've noticed in previous pregnancies or from other threads? I think it’s harder this time around because I have a 14 month old that I’m running after!
Questions: how does everyone handle making dinner and smelly stuff like that :)
I find that I can’t go near my kitchen, and I really don’t want to be giving my family so much takeout! It’s also so expensive!
Advice: eat small frequent meals!
GTKY: What are you doing to take care of yourself this week? Taking naps!
I tried to change my username; not sure if it worked!
Thanks so much for the advice!