12+ 3 werk scan any guesses 🤗

Re: 12+ 3 werk scan any guesses 🤗

• harpseal135 member

  January 2022

  Congrats! You have a Gummy Bear! 
  
  In all seriousness:
  
  You were w/ a technician- who does this for a living that could tell you right then and there what it is - if they couldn't or wouldn't tell you then why would you think internet strangers know?
  
  If the tech wouldn't say that means its too early.  Boys and Girls look similar around this time of development. That is why they wait until the Anatomy scan to try and determine with more certainty (though not always 100% correct). 
  
  Have patience and wait a few more weeks
  
  You have a side view of your kiddo. Your child's developing genitals are not visible in this picture. 
  
  Also, if that is your name at the top - internet safety. I would cover your name. 
  
  My guess is that there is a 50% chance its a girl,  50% chance its a boy; therefore I'm 100% correct. 
  
  

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• paytonpedro member

  January 2022

  Just a guess, but it looks like a human baby.

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• lelkcot member

  January 2022

  I guarantee it's a baby! 

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• footballmum member

  January 2022

  Omg wat negitive responds .... i came on this for positive feed bk to help me !!!

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• inthewoods23 member

  January 2022

  @footballmum as @harpseal135 said... We. Can't. Help. You. Nothing that was said was negative (nobody said it was a soul sucking parasite!!).
  
  We are not trained techs. It's a side profile of a baby in utero, what did you expect us to think? It is a 50/50 shot at guessing the sex correctly when you're only 12 weeks. Genitals are still developing.
  
  If you really want to know now then go get the NIPT.

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  Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
  
  IUI #1-3 | all BFN
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  RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
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  Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
  Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
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• swizzlemalarkey member

  January 2022 edited January 2022

  This sounds like MUD.
  Seriously though what is it with everyone lately & trying to get us to guess their baby’s sex from a poor quality ultrasound? (and no, we really don’t want to see their privates). Baffling. 

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• harpseal135 member

  January 2022 edited January 2022

  @footballmum sorry, but I stand by my response.  You were with an ultrasound tech- someone who CAN TELL YOU - but I'm sure they wouldn't because you are too early.  
  
  What more do you want? Ok here ill be more positive in my feed back
  
  OHHH MY GOSH! EEEEK, I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU ARE HAVING A GIRL! YES, A GIRL, BECAUSE I DON' T SEE A PENIS STICKING UP FROM THE SIDE VIEW OF IF YOUR BABY GIRL IN THE PICTURE YOU POSTED! YOU BETTER DECORATE AND BUY EVERYTHING PINK AND PURPLE FOR YOUR BABY GIRL!

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