March 2022 Moms

GTKY New Years

Since NYE is today let’s have some GTKY fun! 

What is your New Years resolution? What New Years traditions do you have? What are the plans for today/tomorrow? Anything else you want to add? 

Re: GTKY New Years

  • New Years resolution: Stop caring so much about work, be more present for my family, and spend less time on my phone.

    Traditions: I never had them growing up but my husband has. We used to walk around the block with our suitcases so that we’d travel more in the new year. This was before kids lol! At midnight he plays Auld Lang Syne on his trombone. My MIL has us eat 12 grapes. I think it’s a Spanish tradition since my in laws are from DR. 

    Plans: We are going to my in laws. My MIL made hats for everyone. She made me a cute one with a clock that says March 2022 on it 💕 she’s so creative. I think we will do an early ball drop for the boys. We also eat finger foods on this day. 

    Gone are the days of going out and partying lol! I used to go to NYC but never waited to watch the ball drop. Found a warm place inside a bar lol! Some people would wait out there with diapers on. 
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  • I don’t usually do New Years resolutions, but maybe this year:
     I resolve to take better care of myself when I get to the postpartum period and to be the best wife and mother I can be.

    Plans: DH and I are just staying in today and I’ll probably be in bed well before midnight. Lol Tomorrow we’re going over my parents’ place, though to spend some time. My mom has promised her meatloaf, which I’m rather fond of and we’re bringing cheesecake for dessert.
    We don’t have any special traditions. Really the tradition for us is just getting together for a meal and then just having some time together.
  • Also don't do resolutions but my goal is to get as active as possible with the kids again once this little guy is here. I've been soooooo sick this while time that I haven't been the parent they are used to having. Plus I want to be back in shape to some extent by the end of 2022. I'm also hoping this is the year we are FINALLY able to get our house finished. Or at least a good chunk of it done.

    We don't have any traditions. SO and I would usually go out somewhere or if he was sick I'd go out with friends. After DD1 we would stay in and celebrate with her. We usually watch one of the NYE countdown shows. New Year's Day we usually go to MIL's house, but this year I'm going to go up to our house and sort through all the baby stuff to start getting everything ready. 

    No real plans. We're at my parents' house. My dad will make a big dinner and we'll stay up to watch the ball drop etc. Not sure if SO will come or not (depends in whether he has been around clients at all) but he will hopefully drop my truck off for me tonight so I can get the baby stuff sorted tomorrow. 


  • No resolutions really though I do have a goal to read 40 books.

    Traditions: have to eat black eyed peas on New Years Day and we also burn a Red Sox cap in the fireplace for a good baseball season (tradition started by my dad in 2005 after Red Sox beat us in the 2004 World Series). 
  • I don't do New Years resolutions.

    But we have some traditions! (TLDR at bottom)

    When we were little, my siblings and I would stay with my baba on New years eve so our parents could spend the evening with a few friends.
    Baba would pull out her special wine glasses, and fill them with champagne (which was always cream soda), light candles, and then (as we eventually learned, lie to us by finding a ball drop 2-3 hours ahead🤣😂) we would watch the ball drop at "midnight" and blow out our candles, toast with our champagne, and yell happy new year while dancing around the living room.
    On NYD, our whooole family (30-40 of us) would dress up (suits and dresses) and go out for dinner, and then back to my parents house for a giant UNO tournament. My dad worked in television, and one year (like.. 20+ years ago?), he had this great idea to wrap up the swag that he got from conferences, as prizes. So the first time you played a yellow 4, you scream "YELLOW FOUR!!!!" So everyone could hear you through the whole house, and you got to go pick a gift haha. Lots of food, laughs, and a fire in the fire place.

    (Random fact: the year I met DH, I was working the day shift on New Year's day. So he showed up to the New Year's Day party at my parents house, not having met any of my extended family or even my siblings, and he spent 4 hours with them, without me there. We had been dating 2 weeks.😂)

    Unfortunately, NYD has been cancelled the past 2 years because of COVID.

    This year, DH, sister and I were going to play some games after getting DS down for bed. However, the dog woke me at 4:00 a.m. because she was vomiting. So DH and I have both been up since then, and he will be at work till probably 7:45 this evening again.
    So I have a feeling he won't be up for playing any games when he gets home.

    We invited the grandparents over for a mini Uno tournament tomorrow. However, BIL is sick and while he has tested negative, he lives with DHs parents so they have been isolating with him.
    He is still symptomatic so they told us yesterday they will not be coming.
    We are still waiting to hear back if my parents will come or not.

    I have had a glass of "champagne" every single NYE though, so I plan to have at least a bit before bed tonight. We will probably do a fake countdown hahha.

    Since I turned 15, I have volunteered to work NYE (if it worked out with my work schedule once I got my career). But I always try to be there for NYD haha

    Tldr: "champagne" (cream soda), probably early bed time, and HOPEFULLY a mini Uno tournament with my parents tomorrow
  • @rachelredhead I think the burning a Red Sox hat is too funny!  

    I’m not doing a set resolution, but want to focus on a healthy and active lifestyle and working on relationships with friends. I know I can get busy and not put in the time I should with friends. I want to make sure I have some balance with the baby coming. 
  • @MusicalFamily all that sounds fun!  I want to come to your celebration.  

    Haven’t really thought about a resolution. Kinda been looking at the new year as the year of fortitude.  Since DS we have always just had a quiet night together. We have a big seafood feast that he loves, I always joke that he will be the youngest person with gout because of all the seafood he eats. My goal is to stay awake until midnight but it’s highly unlikely. NYD DS and SO watch football most of the day while I put away Christmas decor.  My goal over the coming weeks is to declutter and deep clean one room a week before baby comes. 
  • No resolution. I usually forget them early on 😂 but I’ve chosen my “word of the year” as growth. For so many reasons. Obviously the growth of our family. I plan to get my second certification for work hopefully during the end of maternity leave before I go back to work. But also personal growth: a new hobby(which I’m setting myself up to try bullet journaling!), spending more time with family and friends partly for myself but partly for getting DS1 out of the house more (I’m a huge introvert), and doing better for myself during this postpartum period knowing I had some bad PPD/PPA last time around. 

    I will be going to bed tonight at my usual 9-10pm because I work bright and early the next three days! Delivering lots of New Years babies hopefully! If I wasn’t working we would be going to my in laws for dinner and a board game night which I really wish we were able to do! 
    We used to stay up and watch the ball drop eating snack foods and other unhealthy things😂 Our neighbor city does a cool masquerade ball thing that I really want to go to. But the timing was never good, so maybe next year we’ll be in a better place to go to it! 
  • No resolution!

    I'm Pennsylvania Dutch, so our big thing is pork and sauerkraut on New Year's Day, so that's tomorrow's plan. For tonight, husband and I are running to Lowe's (I'm still at work until 4) to pick out shelving, rods, and paint for the baby's closet that he and my FIL built. I thought we'd probably end up just cuddling on the couch and watching movies, but now it looks like he invited his parents over for cards so we'll spend the night doing that and I'll probably be asleep before midnight. 😂
  • What is your New Years resolution? 
    I would like to celebrate the small things more and try to be more present in the moment. 
    What New Years traditions do you have? 
    We typically celebrate with a vacation to Disney and watch the NYE fireworks from a favorite resort, but the last year we did that was 2019/2020 thanks to Covid. So instead DH and I will watch a live stream of the fireworks via social media and sip some sparkling cider. 

  • No real New Years resolution here. I really want to feel better in the new year but I kind of feel like that is more of a pregnancy thing. I keep telling myself I'll feel better after I give birth and can get back into a normal groove. 

    We usually spend NYE with my in-laws eating crab. This year we are just at home though. Kind of feels like any other night haha. 
  • No resolutions

    No traditions aside from low-key and spending it with family 

    No plans. Although I may send MH to the store to pick up stuff for cheesecake. A friend had some last night and sent me a pic and it looks glorious!

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    Married: March 2016
    TTC #1/IUD out January 2017
    PCOS dx January 2018
    Medicated cycle 2.5mg Letrozole CD3-7 February 2018
    BFP 3/10/2018! 
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  • We dont really have any traditions. I do have a few goals in mind for this year: 
    I'd like to get outside as many days as possible. Especially family hikes and walks 
    I want to develop (and stick to) a budget this year. We have never seriously budgeted and we need to focus saving for a needed renovation. So DH and I are working on that tonight. 

    Otherwise I like to focus on a word for the year. This year's word is grace. For myself and others. 
  • @lurvleybunchococonuts cheesecake sounds delicious!! I love that idea and might have DH grab some too for tonight 😁

    @morgantu I typically like a word for the year too, but I haven’t decided on mine yet. Grace is a great one!
  • I haven’t done resolutions the last few years. I never keep up with them if I make a declaration of intention. I do better when I make a goal or affirmation and keep it to myself until it’s done. 
     We don’t have any traditions really either. I was asleep by 9:30, and I regret nothing haha.
  • @rachelredhead I take your hat burning tradition very personally!  :D Red Sox can loose, but they will always be the best. And there is something so special about Fenway. 

    We don't have any real traditions, but we always stay home. We usually stay up and watch a movie.

    I guess my resolution is just to survive. To just get through a year of so many firsts without Addi. 
  • @luckyduck42
    Still think about you and your family often.
    Sending hugs.
  • @luckyduck42 Thinking of you and your sweet girls often and hoping this new year is one of peace and healing for all of you. Sending so much love ❤ 
  • Happy New Year, ladies!

    We had a low-key NYE. We saw some fireworks, then headed home and stayed in. Surprisingly, lasted until midnight but didn't get to the typical traditions I usually do. I'm Filipino, so our culture is big on NYE. We eat 12 grapes at midnight, shake coins, and wear polka dots! 

    For New Year's Day, I made black eyed peas with kielbasa and kale, as well as some cornbread for good luck! I also took down all of our holiday decor and cleaned/organized as much as I could. Felt great to clear out the clutter!

    The word for this year will be focus. I want to focus on being a good Mom, being more present, and focus on a few goals such as paying down debt and really budget since we are going from 1 to 3 kids in a few months!
  • I don’t usually do any resolutions. I like to come up with some ideas of things I may want to do. But nothing that I feel like I fail if I don’t. 

    No traditions. We used to do fondue growing up. I’d love to do that w the kids. 

    We went to the neighbors after the kids went to bed. (We live right next door and have the monitor that reaches). Played Pictionary and then I took care of Dh who had a bit too much to drink and spent the rest of the night hugging the porcelain throne. 😑
  • @rachelredhead omg what blasphemy! MH declared burn all the hats you want we still beat ya in '05!

    @luckyduck42 agreed, MH is a major sox fan lol 😂

    @jenis_fan_for_life I didn't get to make it until once the girls were in bed (Forgot to pull ingredients out early enough to make it at nap time and had to let them come to room temp) so it's a today cheesecake day! Can't wait to nom it! 
    We love to tease my step daughter (11)
    Earlier in the day: "I don't like cheesecake, only Oreo"
    "What?!, Okay well more for us!"
    As I'm making it:
    "Well, maybe I'll try some of it"
    "No, that's okay, you don't no like it, it isn't Oreo"
    "But I'll try a little bit"
    "No, no, really more for us, it's okay"
    "Wait, but... But... I MIGHT like it"
    "Ohhhh, well too bad you already said you didn't like it, this is OUR cheesecake"
    🤣😂🤣😂

    BFP 3/21/2020!  OMG We're having TWINS! 4/17/2020
    --------------------------------
    LO arrived 11/9/2018!  We have a baby!
    --------------------------------
    Me: 33 | DH: 41
    Married: March 2016
    TTC #1/IUD out January 2017
    PCOS dx January 2018
    Medicated cycle 2.5mg Letrozole CD3-7 February 2018
    BFP 3/10/2018! 
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  • @lurvleybunchococonuts my husband is a Yankees fan. Baseball season gets interesting in our house!  :D
  • edited January 2022
    @luckyduck42 oh goodness... That must a tense household! Lol. Have you gotten baby any baseball gear yet to taunt him? I like baseball, but not a huge fan of any specific sport, mostly a Brewers fan simply due to proximity and exposure (living in WI). MH like the Brewers also, but the Sox are his ride or die team. 

    BFP 3/21/2020!  OMG We're having TWINS! 4/17/2020
    --------------------------------
    LO arrived 11/9/2018!  We have a baby!
    --------------------------------
    Me: 33 | DH: 41
    Married: March 2016
    TTC #1/IUD out January 2017
    PCOS dx January 2018
    Medicated cycle 2.5mg Letrozole CD3-7 February 2018
    BFP 3/10/2018! 
    -------------------------------

    TTGP December Siggy Co-Winner: Favorite Moments from Holiday Movies/TV 
    TTGP October Siggy Winner: Animals in Costume 



  • @luckyduck42 @lurvleybunchococonuts I grew up in AR/MO, and graduated from high school in St Louis so our son and baby girl are stocked with Cardinals gear. But my husband is a Twins fan so we also have a ton of Twins stuff. I have accepted that living in Minneapolis, the Twins affinity will probably win out over time but the kids are required to root for the Cards as their national league team. If ever there’s a rematch of Twins-Cards World Series, our house will be divided. 😂
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